What about Namikaze Minato's property?
First of all, it is because Naruto was born in wartime. At this time, it takes three generations of Huo Ying to build a village, so he doesn't have much energy to care about Naruto's trifles. He left everything to his own management. So Naruto can grow up healthily, but he has never been cared about by others. These men don't know Naruto's true identity, but just regard him as an ordinary child. Moreover, ninjas have many tasks and don't have much spare capacity to take care of others, so Naruto can only grow up by himself.
Secondly, because three generations of Naruto will think of four generations of Naruto, which makes him feel very sad, so he can't bear to see Naruto. Because there were many orphans in the war at that time, Konoha's property was not enough to support people's lives. Therefore, three generations can barely guarantee that Naruto is not hungry, but they cannot have a richer living standard. Three generations need money to help other poor people, even some poor children. Therefore, he couldn't keep his promise, which made Huo Ying's three generations regret it all the time.
In addition, because Naruto's body was sealed by bijuu's power, it caused the villagers' dissatisfaction. If three generations take too much care of Naruto's daily life, the villagers will have an unbalanced mentality. In order to protect Naruto's safety, he can only stay away from Naruto's side and can't take too much care, otherwise it will attract the attention of other countries. Column force itself is a sensitive word. Once Naruto's identity is discovered by other countries, it will fall into crisis. This is what three generations don't want to see, so we can't treat it differently.