Shenzhen Bay 1 No.

The poor are not only poor, but also sensitive.

-Venus, not me.

Most things in poor families are of course caused by emotions-the most essential reason is that they are not rich enough. Being rich is not too emotional, just as people who have done business are different from those who have not done business.

People who have never done business know the world through consumption-consumers are God.

I often say, if you are God, why do you spend money on things? -Shouldn't businessmen pay God? In other words, most people are either gods-or pretend to be gods.

I've never seen God need to rent a house. Shouldn't God live in a big apartment? Shouldn't you live at Shenzhen Bay 1? How did you share a room, and how did you eat at other people's houses-I don't know God's fate.

People who have done business are not gods, they are also consumers. Because you also want to eat and drink Lazar. But the difference with 100% pure gold consumers is that they have no feelings, even if they have feelings, they will not have feelings for a stranger-but they have feelings for people who are interested in themselves-

For example, the boss will scold the employees and say-why are you so stupid? Why are you so stupid? Because employees are the assets of the company. Most employees make mistakes, and leaders are also responsible. But scolding employees is essentially for the good of the company.

Poor people swear and are emotional, and they are all people who are not interested in themselves. For example, if a person doesn't catch up with the high-speed train today, in essence, he doesn't pay attention and is addicted to playing mobile phones. As a result, the high-speed train left, but he smashed six machines at the ticket gate.

Do you think rich people and people who have done business can do such stupid things? Only the poor can come out. It's obviously my own fault. He also smashed things. As a result, he was detained in administrative detention for 7 days and had to pay compensation.

Can women still live a good life when they marry such a stupid man? Absolutely not. A man with rich feelings must never get married. Emotional men are pitiful. That's for sure. If you don't believe me, it is absolutely emotional to observe the male friends around you-as long as the man is poor.

Being with such a man is definitely a disaster movie.

Of course, when a rich man finds a particularly emotional woman, or a special woman, you will find that this man's career is definitely not good-it must be going downhill.

Again-men are women's backers, and women are men's feng shui.

As long as men and women have the same goal, don't be too emotional together-then the better the chance is. What this woman wants too much and men can't satisfy-it must be falling apart.

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Someone asked-since you say so, don't live.

Living is for ordinary people and the poor.

-Venus, not me.

What kind of life do ordinary people lead-friends, relatives, wives and children, colleagues, brothers and sisters and so on. This is a topic that many poor people can't avoid all their lives-when you decide to be a rich man, what you want is to stay away from these people who don't share your values-

The life that the poor yearn for is that their wives and children are hot. If they have nothing to do, they will find their colleagues to play mahjong, cards and play all night. Go home, marry and have children, and take care of yourself. Then sleep until you wake up naturally, and someone cooks noodles for yourself-this kind of life is what most people want-

If you want to be a strong man and a rich man. You can't touch any of these things-even if you think this is what an ordinary person should look like, it's the old you-not your future. If you want to change the future, you have to change your mind from now on.

The sooner you start to change, the better. If you are in your early twenties, 19, then you should start to deny all your previous cognition and behavior now. Because your previous behavior will not make you rich in the next 10 years.

It will make you more stupid. Only on the road to getting rich will people become smarter, not the other way around.

No matter how much experience a poor man has, he will never become rich. Because his social circle is all around the poor people around him, and the most important thing is that he has not created his own value for this society. He can only support himself.

Most people are in big cities or small cities-they just support themselves. Why else are so many people single? Why do many women in their thirties in Shenzhen say they want to start their own businesses? Aren't they all able to support themselves?

You didn't start a business before you were 30. You told me that you can still succeed in starting a business after you are 30. You are still a woman, please give me 10 reasons to believe you. Tell me, where did you go 10 years ago?

Unlike women, men can still fail before the age of 30. But women can't. In fact, if a woman doesn't have a chance for career development before the age of 25, she will find a good man-

Finding a good man is also a career. Even better than working alone and earning 20 thousand a month. You are much more likely to find a good man before the age of 25 than when you are 27 or 28.

The older a woman is, the less she is needed, and the younger she is, the more she is needed. Even if you can't make money, your husband can.

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All hobbies that can't be realized are not hobbies, but consumption.

-Venus, not me.

I often hear people say-you see, I have to learn to draw every week. Look, this is my work.

Sometimes these people-they also pass on their hobbies to their friends. In fact, the purpose is to invite people to praise him and give him comments-painting is not important-what matters is comments and praise.

To put it bluntly-use money to buy programs.

What you want is praise from others, what you want is praise from others. In their view, praise is the only way for him to live in this world-he is happy when someone praises him. He was unhappy when no one praised him-

Their emotions come from the circles around him. Their joys and sorrows come from the comments of people around them.

In fact, most people's hobbies are short-lived-I have heard that many people like painting, but that was 10 years ago. People nowadays don't even mention painting themselves.

I heard that many people like singing, but he has never broadcast it live or insisted on singing every day-

I heard that many people like to talk about guitar. I used to have a college roommate. But I haven't heard him mention it, and of course I don't have his contact information.

I heard many people say that he likes writing very much-but how many people are still writing? It's gone. It's 0.

I heard that I think I have a good sense of humor, but these people are afraid to perform on stage. There are many stages in this society, including live broadcasts, short videos and texts from the media. Talk shows on cable TV, you can't do this. Then you can only be humorous-you're just complacent.

People's self-esteem comes from not knowing themselves-that is, living in their own world. That is, he knows nothing about the outside world.

Those who want to sing don't have to go on stage, but they can also record songs. Pass it to Netease Cloud. Those who want to dance don't have to be on the show. You can jump to a short video platform at home. You don't insist on singing and dancing-that can only explain one problem-that is your hobby, not your hobby, and that is consumption.

It's just a way for you to consume yourself.

If you don't stick to all hobbies, it's not a hobby. It's called a whim-just like a man seeing a beautiful woman in the street-his first thought is-I want her. It's not love at first sight-I just want to sleep with this woman.

Even if this man strikes up a conversation, he needs each other. If you don't succeed, this person will find the next target.

So-you look at people with a wide range of hobbies, but none of them are good at doing it for a long time. Because they have been tempted by immediate interests-such as beauty, such as various entertainment programs.

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Women often use men as ATMs. This woman has been rubbish all her life.

-Venus, not me.

This kind of man is also rubbish, and I feel honored to take you as an ATM. Deserve to have no money, deserve to be cheated by women. Deserve not to find a good woman.

One of the women I hate most is to hang a man because others like her. She takes whatever the man gives her. But if you want to be with her, she will tell you that it is not suitable between you-it is not suitable for you. Why do you want other people's things?

Not suitable for others to return. What do you want? -Don't you just covet other people's things? If it's not appropriate, you still don't delete him, you still have dinner with him, you still talk to him, and you still have an affair with him-what's the picture?

I just want him to be nice to you, and then you can make friends.

It takes two to tango. This kind of woman meets sweet dogs. I'm thinking that you don't like me, but I still hope I can treat you better than men. To put it bluntly, this kind of man has never seen any woman.

Or this kind of man has never seen a beautiful woman.

I met someone by chance and thought I had found a good one. In fact, they are all unwanted by others. Ok, can you leave it to the sweet dog? Excellent and high-quality women are in the home of successful men and will not be left to sweet dogs. What is left for the sweet dog is some dishonest people.

Either she needs money or someone is nice to her. What you want is someone to chase her, not for you to get her. To put it bluntly, this woman is fishing.

Fishing means that this woman has more than one man. Maybe there are more men like this sweet dog man. Send things and money.

Just like building a house, you need all kinds of materials. You need bricks, you need cement, you need steel bars, you need free workers and so on. These sweet dog men are made of this material. When the house is built, they should break up with these men.

Keep at most one bulb changer for future use. There is a story that a man is interested in a woman around him, but after a long time, the woman tells him that there is no chance between them, and then the man says, let's be friends.

Then one day, this woman suddenly wrote and asked him-if you are free, can you go to her house to install a light bulb? This man must think his chance has come. Go to her house and install a light bulb. If there is an extra time, it will be 8 pm. In short, it just gives people the feeling that your chance has come.

This man divided by three times five, and went in less than 10 minutes. Its installation time is less than 10 minute. Then the woman called her boyfriend and said-the light at home is installed-the man who helped her install the light bulb heard it-because the phone was turned on and amplified-

Then the man asked her-what do you need a boyfriend for? Woman's answer-I'm afraid my boyfriend will get an electric shock.

So-be a man, don't be cheap, don't sell your time cheaply. Talk about the terms, and then decide whether to help. Don't waste time on worthless people.

If a woman really doesn't like someone, she should be friends. Let's break up. Being friends is a spare tire and a chance for men to become regular customers.

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Do more things that can't see the results in the long run, and do less things that can see the results in the short term.

-Venus, not me.

What do you mean you haven't seen the results for a long time? -that is, if you do it now, you can't see any results now. Even you will wonder if you are stupid. But this thing can let you have all the accumulation.

For example, writing-I can't see any progress in the early stage. Even if there is, it is short-term progress. Maybe you will go up, but it doesn't matter whether you go up or not. Just like you have 1 fans, and it has risen to 5 fans. Do you think you have feelings? -You don't feel it.

But for you, you see more than just these four fans. What you see is that you grow more. When you write, you write 1000 words a day, which is different from others writing 200 words a day. Writing 200 words may be a circle of friends. Write 1000 words, at least in sections.

The jobs needed are different. A person who writes 200 words can write in one paragraph or not. Although you speak 1000 words a day and write one day, you don't feel anything. But as long as you persist, you will find that you see the problem deeper than others-

Of course, writing 1000 words in the early stage of writing is definitely not enough for you. In my opinion, the starting point is at least 5000 words. Write day by day and keep writing. This is another topic.

Writing is an obvious result that you can't see in the short term-but it will make you stop being melodramatic, emotional, narrow-minded and affectionate. This is your harvest-you can't see any changes outside-others can't see any changes inside-

But you can feel it-this is the effect of a little accumulation. When others care about when to get paid, what you care about is whether the perspective is unique enough. Teacher Wang said-whether an article is good or not depends on your starting point. It's hard to find a good starting point-

This requires you to practice for a long time-not to explode as soon as you come up.

Writing is something that you can't see any effect in a short time, and you can't make money. Most of them just use this as your sideline in the early stage of writing, and earn money to support your living expenses at other times.

The thing that can see the results in the short term is work-you get a job on the 22nd today, and you will get your salary on the 22nd today next month. This is the shortest time. Of course, you can also help others do odd jobs and work day after day to calculate their wages.

However, most people have been on the road to work, which seems to be the way to go all the time. Until he retired at 60. This kind of person is suitable for being poor all his life.

Those who are suitable for short-term work and have worked all their lives are lazy. Long-term work is a lifetime of hard work. The result of diligence is wealth and freedom. The result of laziness is three generations of poverty.

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No woman will respect a man who can't make a decision.

-Venus, not me.

A man who doesn't make a decision is even more terrible because he is afraid of making a mistake. In this way, you can't win the trust of others in your career and life. Even if you are in love, women don't feel safe with you.

Typically, if a woman asks you where to eat-just say whatever. Whether you are the Lord or the other party is the Lord, you should make your attitude clear. Whether to eat hot pot, Cantonese food or Hunan food. Let's go to eat Sichuan food. Or is there a good place to recommend-this can-

No matter what your relationship is, knowing where to go is better than not knowing where to go-you have to have a place to play outside. You can't say you're going anywhere. The same is true for eating-where to eat, how to go, take a taxi or take a bus-

Even if you walk there, you can-as long as the other person is willing. You can take a taxi after a long walk. When people are alive, there are always more ways than difficulties. Never say it.-just say the word. Because casually in the eyes of others is a word without weight-

It's just an irresponsible remark. What do you want to eat and what you don't want to eat. I want to go where I don't want to go. You must promise. Nobody likes to talk casually. Just like you do multiple-choice questions or questions, multiple-choice questions have four options-you can choose any one, and you have a chance to get it right-25% probability.

If you don't choose, the probability of your correct answer is 0. You wrote the answers to the questions and answers, and you got the scores. Even if you can't write anything. But if you write casually, you may get 1 2 points.

In fact, many times people don't have many choices, not because they don't want to bear the consequences and risks after choosing failure.

Avoiding risks is the reason why everyone is unsuccessful-and why everyone can't make money.

Migrant workers have been avoiding risks for themselves all their lives-so they can only be poor all their lives and have to work in the company all their lives-until they die. But until they died, they didn't want to understand how the rich made money-the rich just thought of all the risks-

Even if you fail, you should start from scratch. Even if you are in debt, you can pay it off and come back.

Rich people are willing to bear the consequences of failure, because both failure and success are 50% probability. But only when you make a choice will you know whether you have done it right or not. That's right. Keep walking. Then your chances of success are higher. What is wrong is always right.

A man who hesitates is not worth getting married or having sex with. This kind of man naturally wants to avoid responsibility. Even if a woman is pregnant with a child-she will break up with you directly, regardless of you.