Learn the good knowledge of Buddha. Thank you for your last research.
Personal cause and effect are borne by individuals. Everyone has his own knowledge and thinking, which is not necessarily right but not necessarily wrong. Perseverance in self-knowledge, love and taking will cause trouble. All beings have their ignorance, so they have troubles. You have done your duty, done what you can, and have not been too hard on yourself.
As for stealing, isn't it too strong? You don't have to put so much responsibility on the people closest to you. You have to understand and think about each other out of sadness, and you don't have to look at yourself to be clearer. All the commandments are in paranoid obsession, and they are also to ensure that we can benefit others correctly and correct ourselves. Instead of letting us judge others with "commandments", we should restrain ourselves instead of asking others in a rigid form. Do what you think is more meaningful and helpful to others, society and nature. As for others, it is their own choice.
However, this does not mean that our own actions are meaningless to others. Buddhism talks about karma, and only when all beings get together can there be a harmonious social environment and living environment. So how to make these connections between all beings and how to achieve harmony requires us to do it ourselves, to do it well, to do it well, to interact with all aspects, and to form the "* * * industry" of all beings. Small to the same table, the same office, the same class, and even the same family. There are four methods of taking pictures in Buddhism, which refer to the work done by Bodhisattva to accept all beings and make them have a loving heart and convert to Buddhism. First, give pictures, if all beings are happy to give money, give money, love Buddhism, and give it to Buddha; Second, love language, with the goodness of all beings; Third, do something beneficial to all beings; Fourth, colleagues, and sentient beings, randomly enlightened. That's the truth.