How many days should I burn the paper for a hundred days in advance?
Burn Centennial Paper a few days in advance
Burn Centennial Paper a few days in advance. Centennial Paper means the hundredth day after death. At the centenary sacrifice, the whole family of the deceased will go to the grave to burn Centennial Paper. Generally, there will be a lot of attention when making a "Centennial" grave. So how many days in advance should burn Centennial Paper? It takes a few days to burn paper for a hundred days in advance. 1
How to pay homage to a hundred days after death
1. After death, it is called "Hundred Days" on the head, and it is called "Over a Hundred Days" in the text. It is also one of the memorial days. On this day, the general relatives of the deceased did not come, but the relatives of the deceased and the younger generation of close relatives, such as nephews, nephews, married daughters, etc., must go to the grave to sacrifice. The first afternoon, the dutiful son will go to the grave to ask for the spirit. He will burn paper to pay homage to the grave, then put the "card seat" on his head and go to the gate. The children will cry and greet him. After dark, he will burn night paper to pay homage. After breakfast the next day, he will go to the spirit tablet to cry and sacrifice, which is called "burning paper for a hundred days".
Second, because of environmental protection, people in urban cemeteries are not allowed to burn paper and light wax, so people begin to use flowers instead of paper wax. White or yellow flowers are generally used as the flowers on graves, such as Huang Ju, Chrysanthemum, Yellow Rose, White Rose, Bai Baihe and so on. However, some people choose light-colored flowers instead of yellow and white, such as champagne roses and pink roses. Remember not to choose bright flowers, bright clothes, etc. when you go to the grave, so as not to give people an impression of disrespect for the dead.
it is our traditional custom to stick red couplets within 1 days after the death of a relative.
It is forbidden to stick red couplets in front of the door during the Spring Festival, but if an immediate family member dies in the first year. Now that the society is relatively open, people are not as taboo as they used to be, but they still need to pay attention to these customs introduced above, which is good for future development.
It's forbidden to visit relatives and friends to attend happy events
Within 1 days of death, immediate family members should be filial at home, and don't travel, visit relatives and friends unless necessary, so as not to bring their own sadness to others. Visiting relatives and friends is forbidden during the period of fervent filial piety, especially attending happy events. Especially weddings, business opening, celebrating the birth of a baby and other happy events, it is best not to attend.
don't take part in recreational activities
in ancient times, if someone died in the family, children should generally be kept in filial piety for three years. During these three years, marriage and auspicious celebrations are not allowed. In ancient times, people who paid attention to "ruling the world with filial piety" and were officials, no matter how big the official did, had to take time off to go back to their ancestral homes to observe filial piety after their parents died, which was called "Ding You". If officials don't go back to their hometown to observe filial piety, they may be impeached by the censor, punished, or even never hired in serious cases.
If an official marries, gives birth to children, splits up, has fun, etc., it will be regarded as unfilial and will be impeached. In modern society, many people shorten the time of filial piety to one year or even shorter, but they are afraid that their children will engage in recreational activities. It's just a local custom to burn paper for a hundred days in advance, which shows respect, admiration and memory for the dead. There is no need to advance a hundred days, and there is no rule about what to burn. Generally, he will burn something he needs. If he has burned it before, he can stop burning it, and then he will burn some money.
When people go to the grave for a hundred days, they bring food, wine, fruit, paper money and other things to the cemetery, offer food to their loved ones' graves, then burn the paper money, cultivate new soil for the grave, trim the grave, break a few green branches and put some paper money on it, so that others can see it and know that there are descendants in the grave, and then kowtow and worship. The usual procedures for going to the grave are: modifying the cemetery, offering incense, offering sacrifices, toasting, burning paper money to worship sacrifices, and shooting off.
In addition, according to the traditional custom, incense must be put on sacrifices, because the incense is not only a bridge between worshippers and ancestors, but also a treasure to support the three realms (Buddha, God and Ghost).
Ancient custom:
A hundred-day memorial day is a memorial day every seven days, which is called "the first seven days", "the second seven days", "the third seven days" and "the fourth seven days". It is also one of the memorial days.
In the old funeral customs, the dutiful son did not entertain guests, drink or entertain, go to other people's houses, shave his head, even take a shower or change clothes for a hundred days, which was called "a hundred days of mourning". After a hundred days, these taboos can be cancelled, and filial piety can be gradually reduced. In addition to wearing white Dai Xiao on important memorial days, dutiful sons usually wear only white shoes, and men wear white cloth on their hats;
Women wear white-headed ropes. In some places, men use self-hat tops and women use white buttons to represent Dai Xiao. When the dutiful son in southern Shaanxi shaves his head, he should leave a pinch of hair on the back of his head to show filial piety, because the ancients thought that "the parents who suffer from hair and skin" meant that they did not forget the kindness of their parents. How to burn a hundred-day paper a few days in advance? 3
Count 777 days and how to spend a hundred days
After the death of the old man in his hometown, most families stopped mourning at home for four or five days, compared with three days in the difficult years in the past, because of the shortage of food. There are still very few families who have stopped mourning for three days and one week. There are some special reasons for these hours.
People usually say "seven", from the day when the deceased "dies", every seven days counts as 17, and every fourteen days counts as 27 ... until July 7th (forty-nine days), which is also called "all seven", that is to say, seven sevens are over. People call it "one hundred days" from the time when the deceased "dies". It will be the first anniversary after 1 days.
Generally, when the Seventh Festival is celebrated, the customs in different places are similar. This is the case when people in their hometown count the Seventh Festival. All the biological children of the deceased must come to the home of the deceased before dark (the sixth day) and burn paper in front of the mourning hall at night. At 12 o'clock the next morning, you must arrive at the grave of the deceased to burn paper and offer the cooked food and rice.
A married daughter gets it every seven days. It's the same procedure. Other relatives such as seven aunts and eight aunts are sloppy in the first six sevens, but they must come on the day of "Do Seven". On the 1-day, commonly known as the "1-day", all relatives have to come. The night before, they burned paper in front of the mourning hall to pay homage, and the next morning (1-day), they went to the cemetery to offer meals, vegetables and fruits.
After the "one hundred days", we will wait until the first anniversary.
In the past, people were very particular about these 777 counts. Now, because people are busy with many things, they forget to count 777 or even 1 days. Many relatives don't come, but their own daughters try their best to come.
what are the customs of the old people's death in rural areas? There are local customs in each village, and the customs are different. Our custom here is that men have six days as the first period, 3 days as the fifth period, and 6 days as the pick-up period. One hundred days from the day of the death of the deceased to one hundred days refers to the memorial day, and the anniversary is also the anniversary memorial day from the day of the death of the deceased to the day of the next year, which ends even after burning paper for three years.
In the past, when an old man died, the funeral depended on how many sons the deceased had. The three sons of the deceased could not hold the funeral in the third phase, but generally held the funeral in advance. For example, if the deceased was a man for six days, the funeral could be held on the first day of the second phase. If the two sons could hold the funeral on the fifth day and six days of the first phase, they would discuss burning paper after the funeral, and they would not burn it in the third and fourth phases. Hundred days and anniversary memorial day
The anniversary is burned for three years, and the festival paper burned within three years is a new grave paper. On the first day of the first lunar month in Tomb-Sweeping Day, it should be burned on the first day of the festival, and it will be burned on the day when the ashes return to the normal festival after three years. .
When a woman dies, it's a seven-day period. In the year-end era, women walk slowly with little feet, not as fast as men, so there is one more day than men. When a woman dies, it's a seven-day period, and it's also counted from the day of her death. According to the lunar calendar, there are also big and small breasts. For example, the day when a woman dies is the third day of the month, the first day is the ninth day of the month, and the second day is the sixteenth month. Analogously, 35 days is five periods with 7 days as the pick-up period until the memorial day of 1 days, and it is also burned for three consecutive years to burn paper one day in advance. < P > The intention of one day in advance is to give paper money to the deceased one day in advance, and the second day after the woman dies and finishes the funeral, she goes to my mother's house (that is, my grandmother's house) to choose a hat, and the hat she chooses is a mourning dress. If her uncle dies, there will be a big one. Now, with the development of the trend, it is also changing. No matter whether the funeral is completed three days after the death of men and women, the fifth and tenth centennial memorial days have passed the next day, there is no change.