Parents hide their children's feng shui in their mouths.

In fact, many parents will compare some other children with their own children in the process of education. Then this situation will still do great harm to your child. If you often compare other people's children and criticize your own children, you will have a serious lack of self-confidence and dare not try new things. This is very unfavorable for the child's future development.

First, lack of self-confidence. Many parents will compare other people's children with their own children and think that their children are not good. This situation will make your child lack self-confidence. Because in the eyes of parents, other people's children are very good, but they are not very good. So in the eyes of children, they will feel that they have failed. This will lead to some negative emotions in children and affect their self-confidence.

Second, I dare not try. When this happens, children's self-confidence will be greatly affected. They are unwilling to try new things in their later years. Because they feel that they are not excellent, if they try something new, they will certainly fail. So they don't want to try new things, and they don't want to meet some new friends. They feel inferior to others. Because of inferiority, they don't want to be close to others, and they don't want to get in touch with others. This is very negative for children, because it will affect their future growth.

Third, summary In fact, in life, parents' education and some words and deeds are very important for children. Because children will see themselves in the eyes of their parents, and they will also see themselves in the eyes of others from their parents' attitude towards themselves. If parents constantly criticize their children at this time, it will lead to a serious lack of self-confidence. And they don't want to get along with others, which will have serious consequences in the process of growing up.