Taste the happiness of "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude"
I have heard the word "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude" since I was a child, and I have heard several thick cocoons in my ears, but I have never understood what it means to teach students in accordance with their aptitude. People around you who can really understand and implement teaching students in accordance with their aptitude are also ugly. Or there are such people, but I don't have such observation and judgment ability myself. I only blame myself for not being able to grow a pair of discerning eyes for truth!
This female student has been studying for three months, and her basic skills are getting more and more solid. I have arranged to watch 33 episodes of "Geomantic Principles of Harmonious Family", 48 episodes of "Sage Education Changing Fate", 20 episodes of "Business Classics" and "Three Stories of Guanyin Bodhisattva" by Qin Dongkui, and I have studied for more than 170 hours, so I can systematically accept the way of thinking of China's traditional cultural values. In order to help her have a more harmonious relationship with her husband and family on the basis of the existing good family relationship and bring more joy and happiness to her family, I arranged for her to watch the learning video of Teacher Wei's 20 14 Tianjin Forum when all conditions and opportunities were ripe.
Although Mr. Wei's learning video has many advantages, the purpose of watching this learning video after you have a certain foundation is very simple. There is only one thing, that is, learn to laugh. I think as long as everyone can learn to open his mouth and laugh from the heart, it is the greatest success. As for learning more besides that, I mean earning more. The heart is not greedy, the requirements are not high, and the advantages are cultivated one by one. I can't let everyone have psychological burden and pressure in their studies. As long as the eggs are soaked in salt water, they will turn into salted eggs sooner or later. What's the hurry?
After three months' study, China's study of traditional culture won the trust of this female classmate, and she naturally went home happily to study Miss Wei's courses as required. But two days later, this female classmate was a little embarrassed to share her study progress at home with me.
"Teacher Yao, I have something to say, but it's hard to say." Female students hesitate tunnel on the phone.
"Come on, the sky won't fall. If there is any problem, let's help you think about it. " I smiled and gave each other encouragement and courage.
"This teacher lectures like crosstalk. The more he listened, the more disgusted he became. The more he listened, the more disgusting he became. I didn't like to listen to cross talk since I was a child, and I was particularly disgusted with cross talk. " Female students get up the courage to say.
"It doesn't matter, you continue to sit through it first. Maybe you are just exposed to a new way of thinking and a new style of lectures, and you will be a little uncomfortable. We need to slowly adjust our mentality to adapt! Anyway, this video is less than nine hours, not long. Listen to it first and then discuss it. " I still maintain a high degree of happiness and pass on tolerance to her.
It's time for all of us to have classes and study together at the weekend. She bowed her head deeply, her face was full of frustration, and she complained confidently: "Look, teacher, everyone who watched this video of Teacher Wei never laughed. Now every day is full of natural smiles. Seeing that some of them have been laughing for a long time, they really have an unspeakable feeling of kindness and gentleness, which makes people envy." But among so many people, I am the only one who doesn't laugh. The more I watch it, the more I feel sick. The more I look at it, the more I feel queasy. Am I too bad? If I don't learn well in the future ... "
After listening to her worries and complaints after being beaten, I smiled heartlessly: "Ha ha ha, I have been accumulating and studying different teachers and the highest quality learning system for years, just to meet the different needs of different people. Just to prepare systems and teachers for people with different fates to adapt to their own learning, don't worry, we have a lot of treasures in our hands, and Mr. Yao's accumulation over the years is not a vegetarian. This video is not to your taste, please change your teacher! The next teacher will not change your appetite. Don't worry, we have plenty of treasures. "
"alas! I feel sorry for Miss Wei. I really feel sorry for Miss Wei. Miss Wei is so unlucky! A smart and good student like you, but Miss Wei is really unlucky and can make you feel disgusted. I can only say that everything has a word "fate". After all, Mr. Wei didn't have such a lucky student as you, so he took advantage of me. Alas! Teacher Wei's class is not good enough! It is still necessary to upgrade, otherwise such a good student will not be lost. "
"Is this really the case?" The schoolgirl suddenly raised her heavy head. After a moment's hesitation, she bowed her head in inferiority. "I know I may still be poor, but you are comforting me, teacher." The female student seems to have no strength but answers.
Ha ha ha ha ha. Look at her dejected and despondent. I smiled while covering my mouth again.
"It's really not my intention to comfort you! Come to think of it, since you have decided to join our class, I am glad to tell them that you will be an opportunity and a blessing to all of us. Your appearance will not only bring fresh blood to our classroom and this group, but also bring new ways of thinking and elements to everyone. Because you have a unique way of thinking, you are down-to-earth, and your vision and experience are precipitated, so you often put forward unique thinking in class in the team and ask practical and sharp questions that are completely different from others. Often your questions give me an opportunity to open up more ideas and give you more wonderful lectures. So everyone gives you a title from the heart-the lucky star of the team, the lucky star. Everyone recognizes from the bottom of my heart that you are our' Fu Xing, Fu Teacher'. Your importance to everyone and your Excellence can be seen. " With deep gratitude and a happy heart, I confided to her the excellent contribution that her arrival brought to our classroom and the collective.
After listening to these exchanges, coupled with the usual contact with everyone, she regained her confidence and finally saw a heartfelt smile. At that moment, with deep gratitude and respect, I was very happy for her spiritual breakthrough.
Therefore, I tried to arrange Liu Shanren's learning video "Let the Sunshine Spread Naturally" for her to watch. A week later, after class, we exchanged our experiences of going home to watch their learning content. The female student shared her study with us with sincere happiness and self-confidence. From her heartfelt smile, I knew it worked. She took a course in Liu Yousheng.
I can't help but sigh, when we watch the video of Teacher Liu Yousheng, we also feel very practical and great, but it's not enough to make people laugh so much! However, she is full of joy and her smile is pure and comfortable. Sure enough, different people need different degrees of fate, and different people are suitable for different teacher styles.
I used her joy to correct Miss Wei's name: "In fact, Miss Wei is definitely the best teacher, and you are also the best student. It's just that Mr. Wei's style doesn't match you, so don't attack an excellent teacher easily in the future, and don't deny and attack yourself easily. It is best to find the one that suits you. "
"Teacher Yao, I am so happy to know you and study with you!" Female students with a relaxed, comfortable and grateful mood sent me the greatest words of encouragement and trust.
I will keep their trust and support in mind, and I will ask myself to continue to study the wisdom of China traditional culture with higher quality. I look forward to bringing more excitement to those who trust me in the future, and I also look forward to sharing more excitement with more people in the future. My heart is always full of deep gratitude: "it is my greatest happiness and pride to have the honor to meet students and friends like you!" " "