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Behind every poker face, there are colorful stories hidden.

As a cheerful person, you may have had similar experiences.

Walking in the street, or sitting in the subway, I suddenly remembered a classic joke and wanted to laugh. But look around at those numb and stiff faces, stiffly holding back, very hard.

I don't know when it started, but we used to treat everything around us with a poker face that was cold and numb.

At first glance, I thought this man must be pretending to be cool. After observing for a while, I think this person is really cool. Later, when I got to know him, I really realized that this person was really set up by people. Of course, it may also be teasing.

I once knew a young man, tall and a little thin, with rimless glasses and slightly raised eyes. I always like to put on a poker face. At first glance, it gives people a feeling of being difficult to get along with.

Once you get to know him, you will know that this man is an out-and-out comedian, a stage player, a boring man and an old driver. As long as there are acquaintances together, he has no reservations, always full of gunfire, jokes and golden sentences emerge one after another, which is completely different from his face.

Some people say that those who are humorous in public often have a stiff and cold dream when they are alone in private, while those who are more reticent in public tend to be more relaxed when they are alone.

The pace of modern life is getting faster and faster, and people's life pressure is getting bigger and bigger. In the face of complex society, many people are tired of coping with impetuous hearts. In order to protect myself, I learned to face the people and things around me with a straight face.

Therefore, silence is golden and has become the motto of many people.

Silence, indifference and poker face have become masks for people to face strangers and stand tall in the world. In fact, most people with poker face are people with good heart or weak psychology. When they face the world, they often seem less confident. In order not to let people see their uncertainty, embarrassment or naivety, they can only hide their inner feelings in the form of poker face.

Relatively speaking, poker face is often socially passive and inexperienced. When many people see poker face, they always think that they are pretending to be cool and arrogant.

Actually, it's not. Maybe he just doesn't know how to express himself.

I have a good friend, L Jun, who once had the experience of using poker face. When I was in junior high school, Mr. L loved to laugh. No matter who I met, I was greeted with a smile. One day, he was chatting with a girl, and the girl told him that several girls in their girl circle said that L Jun looked like a pervert. This person looks very small and has a very special smile.

In fact, at that time, L Jun's EQ had not developed to the level of color. After listening to his classmates' words, L Jun was very disappointed. Every time I chat with others and prepare to laugh, I will think of the girl's evaluation of him in my ears.

Gradually, the smile on L Jun's face became less and less, and gradually became a poker face.

Later in high school, Mr. L began to realize that he had gone too far. Personality and smile will gradually increase.

Generally speaking, it is often young people who are good at protecting themselves with poker faces. Such as the hero of the cold storage in the idol drama, and the cold-faced goddess who seems lonely and cool in high definition and helpless to the surrounding environment. With the development of the plot, people gradually realize the true side of poker face idols, and the audience will always find that they are the most sincere people.

In addition, there is a poker face that is caused by too much pressure in life. I have a deep understanding of this.

After getting married and having children, I feel that my responsibilities are getting bigger and bigger, and the burden of life is getting heavier and heavier. Besides socializing, I often suffer from insomnia to show my inner seriousness. For others, this is the poker face.

One day, a close person criticized me. Now that you have made some achievements, you have swelled up.

I was shocked after listening to it. Because I haven't felt success so far, what I feel inside is the heavy pressure of life. Because of stress, you may inadvertently ignore some personal details. Treating friends and relatives around you looks like a "poker face".

In fact, no matter how you face life, it will not increase or decrease, it will be there. Happiness is an expression and silence is also a language. It doesn't matter what face a person is, what matters is what heart he has.