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Is there any taboo for Tomb-Sweeping Day to take her children to the grave?
Can children visit graves in Tomb-Sweeping Day? The older generation said that the grave was full of yin. Generally, Tomb-Sweeping Day doesn't take his children to visit the grave. Children are full of yang, which is easy to provoke yin. Tomb-Sweeping Day, children under the age of seven, had better not take them to worship. In addition, lactating women and patients should also try to avoid them. From the perspective of numerology, children under the age of three have a low flame, so they are likely to be frightened or see bad things. If children go to the cemetery, they will be adversely affected. Generally speaking, cemeteries are on mountains. During the Qingming period, it rained in succession, and the weather was relatively wet and cold. Children have weak resistance and are prone to catch a cold. Taking care of children is not recommended for the sake of health. Some children in the cemetery are curious and like to look around and feel. Parents can't take care of everything. At this time, children are easily injured and fall or disturb the nearby spirit. What should children pay attention to when offering sacrifices to their ancestors? 1. Children and ancestors worship each other on the same day. What do you mean they can't worship each other? In the calendar, you can find conflicts every day. Therefore, you can check the date when you went to worship your ancestors. For example, children belong to cows, and today happens to be the day when a mouse rushes to cows. It's best not to let children follow you to the cemetery to worship their ancestors. Because if you worship, children will easily cry and be noisy in the middle of the night. 2. Remember to make the children bow. The children at home are the younger generation to the ancestors, and the dead ancestors will always travel westward to become gods under the drive of the old people. Therefore, ancestors have another meaning of helping the gods. When children bow down, they will be respected and they will be blessed by their ancestors. It is a virtue to worship ancestors and bow. 3, burning incense and inserting incense is made by the elders at home. China is a country of etiquette, with different ages. It is unsafe for children to burn incense with many hands and feet, mainly because children are too young to be qualified to burn incense for their ancestors. We need elders to do it. Of course, our elders will talk, say something to our ancestors, and pray for the prosperity of our homeland and the safe growth of our children. Who is not suitable for grave-sweeping in Tomb-Sweeping Day? 1, children under 3 years old. There is a saying that children under 7 years old are not suitable, but in fact, from the numerology point of view, children under 3 years old are even less suitable, because no matter from Chinese religion or foreign past lives theory, it is mentioned that children under 3 years old are the easiest to see another world. From a scientific point of view, children under 3 years old are easy to carry because of various conditions in the grave-sweeping place, and it is easy to make children sick when they go out to relatively polluted places, that is, it is not recommended to take them, and breastfeeding mothers should not take their babies. 2. People who are seriously ill or very weak. Scientific explanation: rural graves are generally far away in the wild, and weak patients need to recuperate, and they can't stand the fatigue on the road, which leads to excessive fatigue. In addition, in the face of deceased relatives, sad emotions will stimulate them. According to folklore, the patient has yin deficiency, weak vitality, low immunity, and is easily attacked by pathogenic factors, which leads to the aggravation of the disease. Suggestion: avoid going to the grave and burn incense and raise flowers at home to worship. 3. A pregnant woman. Scientific explanation: Due to the rugged mountain road in the wild, there is more smoke when burning incense and paper on the grave, which will have a certain impact on the health of pregnant women and fetuses. Folklore explains: In many places, people think that people who have died should not be seen before the child is born, because the soul of the fetus will be sucked away, leading to stillbirth or premature birth of the fetus! Suggestion: avoid going to the grave. If you must go, wrap it in red cloth, because red can ward off evil spirits. 4. The eye socket is blue, or the Tang Yin is black. Scientific explanation: if the above situation occurs, it may be that people's bodies are extremely tired or abnormal. You should have a rest or go to the hospital to see a doctor, and avoid going out in the wild away from traffic. Folklore explains: "There is a black forehead", which means that luck is low and disaster is likely to happen. We should go out less, and we shouldn't touch "Yin Qi", otherwise it will make the disaster worse! Suggestion: Try to avoid sweeping graves. If you can't go, you should put on protective equipment or ask the mage to "drive away". (It is recommended to wear luminous articles) 5. A woman in the "physiological cycle" Scientific explanation: Because girls are usually weak at this time, we should avoid running around and being tired. Folklore explanation: Folklore believes that this is "filthy gas", which is disrespectful to ancestors and should be avoided. Suggestion: Try to avoid sweeping graves or wear red underwear. 6. People who go to jail because of lawsuits. Scientific explanation: I don't want to go because I am upset and depressed at present. Folklore explains: this person is unlucky, his vitality is greatly weakened, and he is easy to provoke ghosts. Suggestion: Wait until everything is normal, and then choose another day to worship.