Why was Lu Xiaoman, the goddess of the Republic of China, buried 23 years after her death?
Lu Xiaoman was a famous talented woman and beauty in the Republic of China. In the early 1920s, Lu Xiaoman was an all-powerful figure in Beijing society, and her fame was no less than that of Erh Lin people beloved by Xu Zhimo. However, Lu Xiaoman doesn't have the emotional intelligence like Lin. She dares to love and hate, and is desperate for love, but her marriage is unfortunate and the ending is embarrassing.
(1) Lu Xiaoman is a versatile woman.
Lu Xiaoman 1903 (29th year of Guangxu) was born in a scholarly family in Shanghai. Her father Lu Ding went to Japan to study, studied at Waseda University in Japan, and later became a proté gé of Japanese Prime Minister Ito Bowen. Lu Ding returned to China after graduation and served as the director of taxation and finance of the National Government. He is the founder of the Central Savings Bank, and Lu Xiaoman is a noble family.
When Lu Xiaoman was seven years old, he left Shanghai and followed his mother to Beijing to take refuge in his father. During her stay in Beijing, Lu Ding hired a female English teacher specially for her daughter Lu Xiaoman. After her success, she was appointed as a diplomatic translator by the government. Lu Xiaoman was famous in Beijing at that time. Later, he studied with painters He and Liu Haisu and drew excellent painters. Her calligraphy and painting are very famous in Beijing society, and her name is on the list of women's calligraphy and painting members in China.
Besides, Lu Xiaoman is good at dancing and communication. Because he loved Peking Opera and made frequent guest appearances in his spare time, Lu Xiaoman was both talented and charming at that time. In our modern parlance, she is called Bai, which is a man's dream. Hu Shi once said? Lu Xiaoman is a must-see attraction in Beijing? But Lu Xiaoman's marriage was not happy, and the ending was unexpected.
② Lu Xiaoman's first husband, Wang Geng.
Lu Xiaoman's family conditions are superior, so he is naturally worthy of it. However, most marriages of rich girls are arranged by their parents, and Lu Xiaoman is no exception. At the age of 20, she was ordered by her parents to marry Wang Geng. Wang Geng is no ordinary person. He is an elite soldier, an absolute Gao Fushuai. He is not only superior in family conditions, but also brilliant. He graduated from Tsinghua University, and then went to study at the United States Military Academy at West Point.
Wang Geng is not as fierce as ordinary soldiers. He is gentle and knowledgeable, but Lu Xiaoman is very dissatisfied with her husband Wang Geng, mainly because Wang Geng is a workaholic and has no time to accompany her, while Lu Xiaoman is very individual and self-centered, and asks her husband to follow her and accompany her if he loves her. At this time, Lu Xiaoman can't see the advantages of her husband. Wang Geng not only does a good job, but also devotes himself to it without any trouble. But in Lu Xiaoman's eyes, her husband is a person who values his work more than her, and he doesn't understand romance and has many shortcomings.
(3) Lu Xiaoman dares to love and hate, and she is desperate to marry Xu Zhimo.
Just when Lu Xiaoman was dissatisfied with her husband, a third person appeared, Xu Zhimo. At this time, Xu Zhimo had just been injured in Lin's residence. For Lin's sake, Xu Zhimo divorced his wife Zhang Youyi, while Lin married Liang Sicheng. Xu zhimo lost his wife and his soldiers.
Xu Zhimo and Wang Geng are Liang Qichao's classmates and students, so they usually have some contacts, so Xu Zhimo met Lu Xiaoman and fell in love with her. In order to pursue Lu Xiaoman, Xu Zhimo often ran to Wang Geng's house on the grounds of catching other disciples. Wang Geng was busy with official business all day, so he asked his wife Lu Xiaoman to receive Xu Zhimo. Xu Zhimo is a poet. He is very romantic and good at pleasing girls. Soon, they admired each other.
Soon, Wang Geng was transferred to Harbin as the police chief, and Wang Geng was a successful person in his career. Lu Xiaoman first followed her husband to Harbin for a while, but he didn't adapt and left soon. Since then, the husband and wife have separated, and their feelings are getting weaker and weaker. Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo have more opportunities to associate, and the more they love each other, the deeper they love each other.
Lu Xiaoman is a woman in the new era. She longs for independence and is not bound by traditional marriage. She always acts according to her own wishes and doesn't listen to others' opinions.
1925, Lu Xiaoman divorced Wang Geng in order to stay with Xu Zhimo, regardless of family opposition. The following year, he married Xu Zhimo and held a grand wedding. Hu was invited to be the master of ceremonies and Liang Qichao was the witness. Liang Qichao reprimanded the bride and groom at the wedding and expressed his dissatisfaction with their frivolous and irresponsible behavior.
After Xu Zhimo and his wife got married, they had a good relationship at first. They went out to watch a play like lovers and learned to draw together, but after a long time, contradictions appeared. The two of them insisted on getting married in order to be together, regardless of family opposition. The family broke off contact with them. Xu zhimo can't get money from home. In order to support his wife, Xu Zhimo lectured in three universities and wrote articles in his spare time to earn money. The couple only live on the meager salary of Xu Zhimo's teaching.
From 65438 to 0930, Xu Zhimo quit his job and went to teach at Peking University. In order to support his family, Xu Zhimo is also an adjunct professor at Beijing Women's Normal University. For work, Xu Zhimo often travels between Shanghai and Beijing. In fact, he earns a lot. At that time, the average annual salary was about five yuan, and Xu Zhimo could earn hundreds of dollars, but such a high salary still could not meet his wife's daily expenses.
Lu Xiaoman grew up in a good family and was an only child. She has developed the habit of indulging and wasting money. Today she goes to the opera, and tomorrow she plays mahjong. Later, I also made a confidante named Weng Wurui. Weng Wurui is a famous playboy. He completely misled Lu Xiaoman. Under his bluff, Xiaoman followed Weng Wurui to smoke.
Xu Zhimo was very angry when he learned about it. I didn't expect Lu Xiaoman, who has a noble interest, to play mahjong and smoke a lot. The couple began to quarrel about it. At this time, Lu Xiaoman was ill again. She thinks that as long as you love me, everything will follow me. As a result, their relationship broke down. 193 1 year, Xu zhimo flew to attend Lin's lecture, and the plane crashed midway, killing Xu zhimo.
After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman became more obsessed with smoking opium in order to paralyze himself, and also got together with Lan Yan's confidant Weng Wurui. Everyone's evaluation of Weng Wurui is not high. Hu Shi once said to Lu Xiaoman: As long as you break off relations with Weng Wurui, I will be responsible for everything in the future? But it was rejected by Lu Xiaoman. Lu Xiaoman lived with Weng for more than twenty years, but Weng didn't give her a birthright.
1953, Weng Wurui's wife died, and he officially married Lu Xiaoman. Although Lu Xiaoman's personality is more indulgent, Weng Wurui still takes care of Lu Xiaoman as always, and everything follows her.
1965, Lu Xiaoman died at the age of 63. Lu Xiaoman left a will before his death to be buried with her husband Xu Zhimo. But the urn after her death has never been claimed. Why? Because in order to marry Xu Zhimo, she secretly went to the clinic opened by the Germans without telling Xu Zhimo and Wang Geng to abort the child, branded the sequelae, lost fertility, and had no children to support her. In addition, in order to marry Xu Zhimo, she also cut off contact with her family, and then she started smoking, completely disappointing her family. 1988, 23 years after Lu Xiaoman's death, her nephew built a mausoleum for her and buried Lu Xiaoman in the grave.