A baby girl from Hubei was adopted, and her adoptive father carried the gas to help her study for a PhD. Her biological parents said: I have money to send you abroad, what will be the result?
A baby girl from Hubei was adopted, and her adoptive father carried gas to help her get a doctorate. Many years later, her biological mother came to the door and claimed that she could support her study abroad. In the end, the girl rejected her biological parents and was willing to stay with her adoptive parents as a filial piety. A baby girl from Hubei was adopted
On the 24th of the twelfth lunar month in 1987, many families were already busy preparing for the upcoming New Year. As the New Year approaches, the entire Hubei Province is immersed in a joyous atmosphere. However, at this time, a newborn baby girl was abandoned in Hubei Xiaogan 190 Hospital.
The cold wind was howling, and the baby girl was abandoned by her family shortly after she was born. The local hospital kindly adopted the baby girl for a while, but this was not a long-term solution. A child should have a complete family, which is more conducive to developing a sound personality. This baby girl was both lucky and unfortunate. Unfortunately, she was abandoned by her family as soon as she was born. Fortunately, she met a pair of very good adoptive parents.
Two weeks after the baby girl was abandoned, a woman named Qi Chunlan went to Xiaogan 190 Hospital for medical treatment and accidentally saw this abandoned little life. Seeing the child's situation, Qi Chunlan was very distressed. Although she was not financially well-off, she was willing to give this little girl a home. After discussing it with her husband, the two took the child home from the hospital.
Qi Chunlan’s husband’s name is Xiao Chongyang. He is a veteran. After leaving the army, he worked in the canteen of a cotton spinning factory to make ends meet. Because Qi Chunlan and Xiao Chongyang had been married for many years and had no children. In addition, they liked the girl very much when they saw her in the hospital, and immediately decided to adopt the girl.
The arrival of the child filled the gap in their lives. They named the little girl Jingjing and gave her a happy and complete family. Although the family of three did not live a wealthy life together, Xiao Chongyang and Qi Chunlan gave Jingjing full care and love, allowing her to have a happy childhood in a warm family.
When Jingjing first came to this family, she was only two weeks old, and her food, clothing, housing and transportation had to be treated with great care. Qi Chunlan was unable to work due to poor health, and the couple did not live well. Jingjing's arrival has added tremendous pressure to the couple's lives, but they would rather live frugally than give Jingjing the best.
They had no money to buy milk powder, so they tried their best to make corn paste until it was soft and mushy, and then fed it to Jingjing bite by bite. They couldn't afford fine food and clothing, so they were able to grow up Jingjing day by day with simple meals. However, raising a child not only takes a lot of time and energy, but also a lot of money. Xiao Chongyang's meager salary could no longer support Jingjing's tuition and fees, so he began to find another way to make a living. The adoptive father sent gas to support his daughter's education
In order to improve his family's life and be able to support his daughter's education, Xiao Chongyang quit his job as a handyman in the canteen and started working hard. In order to make more money, he pulled carts and carried luggage for others on the streets, doing the hardest work for the lowest pay. After 1995, Xiao Chongyang began to give gas to people to support his daughter's education.
In order to work better, Xiao Chongyang rides a heavy tricycle to a gas station seven miles away at eight o'clock every morning. After filling up the gas, he loaded the old cans of gas into the car and delivered them to each household according to the designated location. Xiao Chongyang has been doing this boring and hard job for 16 years. Many times, he can be seen carrying gas tanks to and from various houses.
It is very hard to deliver gas. He has to carry the heavy gas tank on his shoulders and run around upstairs and downstairs. But in order to provide for his daughter to study, he never relaxed for a moment. The gas tank bent his back, turned his hair white, and even weighed down his health. But as long as he sees Jingjing's carefree smile and Jingjing's excellent results, Xiao Chongyang feels extremely happy.
Because of overwork, Xiao Chongyang began to suffer from various diseases as he grew older, such as arthritis, cervical spondylosis, lumbar disc herniation, etc., all of which were occurring all the time. Tormenting him. But his daughter was still studying, so he could only grit his teeth and continue to endure these ailments, using the cheapest medicine and continuing to do the hardest work. The two of them were frugal throughout their lives and were reluctant to buy anything for themselves, but they never had the heart to refuse Jingjing's request.
When I saw this, tears came to my eyes. For an adopted daughter who was not their own flesh and blood, Xiao Chongyang and his wife gave everything they could, including health and love. Under the careful cultivation of her adoptive parents, Jingjing became extremely sensible at a young age. She knew that it was not easy for her parents to make money, so she never spent too much money. When she was young, she began to help her parents with housework to the best of her ability, and she repaid her parents with excellent report cards. The death of her adoptive mother reveals the mystery of her life experience
As Jingjing grows up, people around her begin to talk about her life experience. Jingjing is at a sensitive age, and she always feels unbearable when she hears everyone talking about her life experience. She had asked her adoptive parents many times whether the rumors outside were true or false. Because they were worried that Jingjing would not be able to accept her life experience, her adoptive parents lied to Jingjing and repeatedly told Jingjing that she was their biological daughter.
Although Jingjing was curious about her life experience, she decided not to ask further questions now that she had received a positive answer from her parents. What's more, I can see how good my parents are to me. It is never blood relationship that determines family ties, but the warm and delicate emotions between people.
In 2001, Qi Chunlan’s health became worse and worse, and she began to become ill. Before she died, Qi Chunlan took Jingjing's hand and told her her true life experience. Although Jingjing was surprised, she quickly accepted the result. She said to Qi Chunlan, "I will always be your daughter." Qi Chunlan passed away happily, leaving only Xiao Chongyang and Jingjing to depend on each other. When he grows up, he repays his adoptive father
After Qi Chunlan passed away, Xiao Chongyang continued to send gas to Jingjing to go to school. Jingjing studied harder and harder, and in 2005, she was admitted to Huazhong Agricultural University with excellent results. She is very sober and will not slack off just because she is admitted to a prestigious school. Instead, she studies harder and harder.
The poor living environment made Jingjing particularly able to endure hardships. When she was in college, in order to lighten the burden on her adoptive father's shoulders, she worked and studied for many years. At an age when all girls love beauty, she has no vanity and does everything to bring a better life to her family. Jingjing only had one idea in her mind: to let her adoptive father live a good life after graduation. Because of her excellent grades, she was recommended to study at a master's degree program and received a scholarship.
In fact, when Jingjing was admitted to college, her biological parents had found Jingjing. They hope to bring Jingjing back to them. To this end, they also promised to give Jingjing a good living environment and even send her to study abroad. But in Jingjing's mind, Xiao Chongyang and Qi Chunlan were her biological parents, and their kindness was not as important as their nurturing kindness.
Even if the biological parents have relatively superior material conditions, the love and care given to them by their adoptive parents for ten years is the most precious thing in the world. Although Jingjing had lived a very embarrassed life during college, she had never thought of recognizing her biological parents. When she was studying for a Ph.D., a prestigious Canadian school was particularly optimistic about Jingjing, but Jingjing gave up the opportunity to study abroad in order to better take care of her adoptive father.
Now that Jingjing has graduated, she has a tolerant and firm character, and is smart. She quickly found a good job. No matter where she goes, she will take her adoptive father with her. Even if he has a boyfriend, he will always put his adoptive father first. Sheep have the virtue of kneeling at their breasts, and crows have the virtue of feeding back. After Jingjing gained the ability, she just wanted to support her father well. It is really a good story. The ancients once said, "If there is life but no nourishment, you can repay it by cutting off your fingers; if there is no life but nourishment, there is no repayment." I don’t know what kind of kindness it is for people who are not related by blood to selflessly raise a child to grow up.
It is certainly difficult to give birth to a child, but raising a newborn child into a self-reliant and self-reliant teenager is a long and arduous process.
When raising a child to grow up, in addition to the essential food, clothing, housing and transportation, you must also pay attention to the other person's ideological, moral and mental health issues. Parents have no idea how much hard work and effort they have put into raising a child to have correct outlooks and behavioral habits. It is even more difficult to think about raising a child to be more outstanding. Xiao Chongyang and his wife, who are uneducated and live in poverty, are still able to train their adopted daughter to become a doctor from a prestigious university in a living environment of mixed poverty. What kind of hardship and perseverance does this require?
Fortunately, Jingjing is a grateful and upbeat child. She has given her family a better life in her own way. She rejected her biological parents who had superior material conditions. In Jingjing's transparent eyes, the person who gave birth to her and then abandoned her was not her real parents. Only those who have worked hard to raise themselves and given themselves enough love and security are qualified to be their parents.
Life is a process of constant giving and giving back. If you give what you have to others, you will also get the feedback you want from others. In the process of you coming and going, feeling the love and connection between each other is happiness and joy. Blood ties are never based on blood relationships, but on the feeling of mutual support and care between family members. So what if there is no blood relationship, as long as there is love, it is the closest connection in the world.