Help, can we really not be together if the eight characters are incompatible with each other?

Not necessarily. In numerology, gram is divided into powers. If the power of gram is small, there will only be some minor twists and turns, such as small quarrels, small disobedience, etc., which will not have too much impact on life. Big, but not if the power is great, fight. Quarrels, serious illness.

Car accidents, death, etc. are considered to be overpowering and cannot be together. However, no one knows that they can overpower their spouse, so only if they lose it or have a fortune teller do they know that they overpower their spouse. By then, it is too late to look back. ...Most people in life have situations where they are overly restrained by their husbands and their wives. As long as the strength is not too great, they can still be together...