Marriage Customs in Yudu County, Ganzhou City, Jiangxi Province

Congratulations, I'm from Yuduli Village. It seems that there are no such complicated things in our village now. Everyone is out, and time is money. Many people went home years ago, took their wives out to work after the Chinese New Year, and did not come back for more than 10 days.

In DuDu, before getting engaged, both parents will give your birthday to the fortune teller. If possible, the man's parents will negotiate with the woman's parents to choose a good day, and the man's parents and relatives will buy gifts and so on. When you arrive at the woman's house, both parents will sit together to discuss your marriage, which is nothing more than how much money the man gives the woman's house and what the woman wants from the man. Of course, you can also listen when you talk. You don't have to listen. Of course, if you hear anything unsatisfactory, your parents can say that this process is a bit like negotiation, but you'd better not interrupt, but talk to your BF privately and let the elders of both sides talk.

Of course, you can prepare tea, wine, fruit and the like, and chat while eating. These rules of China people are the same here. It is impolite for a man to go to a woman's house in the morning and afternoon, so you should arrange a lunch, which is indispensable at that time, haha.

In addition, your BF will give you a red envelope, which is called fair in our place, depending on his generosity.

There are others. I can't remember them at once. It's too late. My hands are sore. Stop.

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