Is everyone's fate arranged by heaven?
This sentence is actually a simple psychological suggestion, and there are countless reasons to overthrow the word "destiny takes a hand": people are sick for a reason, and the causes of this disease are all self-caused and have nothing to do with fate; People choose their own marriage and choose their own bad marriage, which has nothing to do with fate; When people fail to do business, it is not fate, it has nothing to do with fate, and so on. Most of our fate is in our own hands. To be precise, as long as there is one thing that we can't grasp, that is, where we were born, which is doomed by heaven. Our fate is in our own hands after birth; How to live, how to live and how to choose is your own business, and God can't arrange it for you. And those who feel that they can't control their destiny in this world should feel sad.
Most people complain when they encounter difficulties in life. Our destiny has always been in our own hands. What we choose to do and how to live our lives. Failure is just that we choose to fail. There are many choices in life. No one can guarantee that every choice is correct, so we can't blame fate for making a wrong choice. What we have to do is to learn a lesson and make the right choice next time. Destiny is always in our own hands. What kind of destiny do you want to achieve is to work hard in that direction.
Many people have seriously thought about this issue, especially those with religious beliefs, and may be more convinced.
For this problem, we might as well make a hypothesis first and use the reduction to absurdity to push back.
Suppose everyone's fate is arranged by heaven, everyone's fate is fixed, and nothing we can do can change our situation. Take the exam as an example. If you are doomed to fail, it means that no matter how much preparation you make, it will have no effect. But if a person really wants to take the exam and insists on studying, it is impossible to have two years in a year, two years in three years, and there are so many knowledge points. Won't he fail after studying for so many years? Obviously, I will definitely get in, which contradicts my assumption, so I can draw the conclusion that everyone's fate is not arranged.
Since fate is not arranged, what can decide fate?
For this answer, it is also mentioned in the above assumptions, that is, ideas and persistence.
Thought is very important to us and is a person's soul. It often guides us and tells us what to do, what to do and what not to do. Everyone has many ideas in his mind, and each idea corresponds to a destiny. Our fate will change with different choices. Our life is also made up of these choices, and our destiny is also made up of the consequences of our own thoughts and practices.
Of course, if you want to succeed, only ideas are not enough, and you must be able to persist. As the old saying goes, kung fu is deep and the iron pestle is ground into a needle. Edison once said: Genius is 1% inspiration and 99% sweat. Many things can only be achieved by persistence, and only by persistence can they be achieved. I think many people are aware of this. Therefore, we must endure loneliness, calm down and do things, and our fate will change accordingly.
Nothing in the world happens by accident, and everything happens for a reason. This is the most fundamental law of the universe. Of course, people's fate also follows this law.
The greatness of Buddhism lies in its truth! It explains the origin of any phenomenon in the world!
In Buddhism, we have always been told the principle of the formation of fate, that is, the causal theory. Good and evil are rewarded. Our pain at this time comes from our past (including past lives) bad karma, and our happiness at this time comes from our past good karma. It is our own evil that makes us miserable and unhappy, and it is also our own goodness that makes us lucky and happy.
People's thinking, language and behavior are all "causes" and will produce corresponding "results". If "cause" is good, then "effect" is also good; If "cause" is bad, then "effect" is also bad.
As long as people have thoughts, they will inevitably continue to "plant causes", and it is up to them to decide whether to plant "good causes" or "evil causes".
Of course, causality is universally applicable, and past lives will live in the afterlife.
What good people and bad people do is only the cause of future blessings; The reasons for short life and long life have been planted in previous generations, and it is incomprehensible if you only look at the first life; Just like the bad guys are rich, the good guys are poor and so on. We should look for reasons from past lives, and causal phenomena should be understood through three lives.
Although everyone has his own life, good and evil people are not arranged by fate.
The fate of a good man can't stop him, nor can the fate of a bad man, but the increase or decrease is too great.
If your life is good, but you always do bad things, your life will get worse. On the contrary, if your fate is ordinary, but you always do good, your life will get better and better ~
Therefore, if there is great goodness, misfortune becomes a blessing; If there is great evil, happiness will become a curse. That's the reason.
Recommend a friend to watch a small movie about Buddhism: the movie version of Fan Sixun, which tells the story of Mr. Fan changing his destiny, realizing his wishes and doing good deeds according to Buddhism. Inspired generations.
Do people really have fate? Is fate really God's arrangement?
First of all, my personal opinion is: I believe in fate, but fate is destined to be changed by me.
Just like the master asked me if I believed in fortune telling. I replied to his letter. He asked me why it didn't count. I told him directly: if it's fate, what's your use? If there is no fate, what's your use?
It is also said that life is the reason for losers, and luck is the modesty of winners. Analyzing it, it is actually saying that no matter whether the result is good or bad, it is caused by personal reasons and has nothing to do with fate.
Let's get back to the question. Actual destiny and God's arrangement are the same meaning, which makes people yearn for the future and sum up the past. No matter how hard fate tries, it is futile. A classic in the old song "Love Will Win": "Three points depend on heaven, and seven points depend on hard work." This sentence also says this truth.
So, work hard and be the wave of fate! Strive for a life without regrets!
If it's meant to be, it can't be changed. Things in the world are not accidental, only inevitable. A cold is inevitable, because it is also inevitable not to exercise and pay attention to the temperature.
We often hear "knowledge changes fate" and "groping changes fate", but what we are talking about is actually not changing fate, it is a bit profound. It should be to change the "status quo", not to change fate. You are poor now, and experts ask you to study and learn the thinking of cattle; Let you start a business, these are the so-called "changing fate."
In my opinion, the so-called fate means that every step is the trajectory of fate. Your study is the track, your entrepreneurship is inevitable, and it is inevitable that you will get rich; In other words, everything you have is fate. If you work now, starting a business is fate.
Fate is your life. Only when you know all the experiences in your life can you know how to change your destiny. For example, if you know 1+ 1=2, you can change this answer to1+1= 3; If you are still in the process of calculation and don't know the answer yourself, how can you change the answer?
In fact, in Hugh's "myth", it is well explained that Hugh crossed into the Qin Dynasty; Hugh knows the plot of history, so he can change the trajectory of history to a certain extent, that is, change the fate of historical figures. Only when you know what will happen can you change it. But in fact, Hugh has not changed the historical track. When Xiang Yu killed himself in Wujiang River, Hugh failed to stop him. Before the formation of Zhao Gao, Hugh failed to nip Zhao Gao in the bud.
Because even Hugh is a part of fate, that is to say, "Yi Xiaochuan" played by Hugh is the trajectory of fate; You are a part of your destiny. How do you change your destiny? Everything you do is to promote the smooth development of history and cannot be changed.
Fate is called fate because what cannot be changed is fate. Fate began when we were born, and your parents were arranged by fate; Everything you have experienced is arranged by fate, so in essence you think you are changing your destiny; Actually, it's your destiny. Why is there thinking? Why do you have a chance? Why are you so miserable?
In fact, the ancients knew everything thoroughly. The ancients said: "The great responsibility of heaven will inevitably hurt its mind and strain its bones and muscles." The ancients have explained that everything is inevitable; You have a big task, and this experience must be given to you. If fate really exists, then it cannot be changed.
Is the fate of everyone in this world arranged by God? Not exactly. People do have fate, but fate can be changed. If fate is predestined and cannot be changed, it is fatalism. Why do you say that people have a destiny? This can not but talk about Buddhism. Because there is a saying in Buddhism, if you want to know the karma of past lives, the recipient of this life is. Want to know the afterlife, the author of this life is.
In other words, if you want to know whether the karma in your previous life is good or bad, you will know whether the fate in your life is good or bad. In other words, what you did in your last life decided your fate in this life. Want to know your destiny in the afterlife? What you do in your life has been decided. Therefore, what you have done in the past, what you have done is good and evil, which has caused your happiness and misfortune in this life. This is your destiny now, and this is the origin of human destiny.
Everyone's future is different and should be grasped and created by themselves. What do you want your future to be, work hard for it, and then the future may become what you imagine, if you just imagine the future all day, instead of working hard. Then maybe I can see what your future looks like. This is called mediocrity.
So, in order to change your destiny and realize your dreams, start working hard now! Grasp your own future, and don't let the future you want stay in your mind forever. If you want to realize yourself in life, you must set yourself a goal to change your destiny, because the goal is motivation, and people without motivation have no pressure in life. Set lofty and lofty goals, and set a realm that you want to achieve for your life. This is the goal of realizing life and changing destiny.
One's destiny depends on oneself to change, and the road of life depends on oneself to go. Man's opportunity is his own. In a word, everything depends on our own efforts. Give up if you don't work hard, even 1% has no chance. If you work hard, there is at least a 50% chance. Have confidence in yourself in everything. Therefore, people's life is doomed by heaven. But the day after tomorrow's life is changed by yourself. What kind of mentality do you use to treat life in reality, then what kind of fate will life give you.
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Everyone has his own destiny and plays a role in it.
Have you tried hard or missed the opportunity? Have you ever seen someone pick up a gold ingot when wrestling? Do you occasionally sigh: It's all fucking fate?
Some people have been working hard to achieve a goal all their lives, but they have not achieved it until their death. This is "fate". Because "life is only eight liters of rice, and you are not satisfied with playing all over the world." Even if this goal is within reach, no matter how hard you try, it will eventually lead to complications in the most unexpected places, which will make you unprepared and instantly become a mirage.
Some people have worked very hard to achieve a goal for 20 years, but failed again and again, but suddenly succeeded in the third year of 10. This is "luck" (doomed to suffer for 20 years first). Some people had a good life in the first 20 years, but in the third year of unexpected trouble 10, all their money was written off, which is also "luck" (destined to enjoy only 20 years of happiness). This is "when the time comes, heaven and earth will be United, and heroes will not be transported freely."
Life is the rich and the poor who compare the final result with others. Luck is the ups and downs compared with different stages of life.
People who don't believe in fate think that all accidental factors in life are mathematical probabilities, and that since they can't be "lucky sperm", as long as they work hard and do whatever it takes, this accident will happen and they will become the next Ma Yun and Li Ka-shing. Just like playing dice in a casino, as long as there is a probability of winning, there will be a time to win. I only have such an accident in my eyes, but I don't ask about the probability of winning or losing, and I don't ask if the result can be even.
The truth is, there are no accidents in life.
Everything you see is destiny takes a hand. The occurrence of this fate is to lead to a definite quantitative change or qualitative change. Whether it is good or bad, it is bound to happen. You can savor the mysterious meaning behind the word "the bond between the devil and the earth".
Some people suffer hardships in the first half of their lives and succeed in the second half. He believes that the efforts in the first half led to the success in the second half. On the surface, there may be a causal relationship between before and after. But from the point of shipment, the suffering he suffered in the first half of his life is simply the suffering he is destined to bear. His success in the second half of his life is also his destiny takes a hand's blessing. You know, Wang Sicong enjoyed the wealth level that Ma Yun had spent half his life, and Zuckerberg had it before he was 30 years old through his own efforts. Without it, it's just the hit of these "lucky people", not the decades of suffering you hit.
Is it useless to work so hard? -Of course it works!
Because fate only gives us the upper and lower limits of gains and losses, there is still a huge gap between the two. Whether your final result is higher or lower depends on your efforts.
Li Ka-shing said: "Small wealth is in people, and great wealth is in the sky".
This "being a man" is your effort: as long as you have a pair of hardworking hands, no matter how poor you are, you can transform your life.
This "in heaven" is fate: for most people, even if they give their lives, the billionaire is just a legend to him.
The older generation often said, "poor fortune-telling, rich incense." In fact, it is a hope and a fear of loss. In the final analysis, they are all confused about fate.
Why do poor people like fortune telling? Because they have experienced too many setbacks and pressures, have not experienced real luck, and have no hope of changing poverty through hard work. So I want to find out whether I have suffered all my life or when my luck will change.
Why do rich people like to burn incense? Because they experienced too much "luck from heaven" and "heaven and earth are United" magic at the critical moment. I think success is not because I am so powerful, but because an invisible force came unexpectedly at the critical moment, which contributed to my achievement. As Ma Yun said: "On the tuyere, pigs can fly". If it is you, you will inevitably suspect that this power comes from heaven, gods, or ancestors and feng shui, so you burn more incense.
Belief in fate does not make you fall into fatalism and then drift with the tide, but makes you pursue the uncompromising theory of hard work with a healthier and more positive attitude!
However, behind this effort, there is a calmer mentality and a more peaceful mood. There is no need to be wronged, and there is no need to feel sorry for yourself. For people, don't hate the rich, don't be too poor; Don't feel inferior and don't be complacent. I am lucky to get it, so I should cherish it. Don't be depressed if you lose your life.
Yong Zhengdi made Nian Gengyao's sister a princess, and Nian Gengyao got a passbook. I really appreciate it． Facing politeness, Yongzheng criticized a truth, but Nian Gengyao didn't understand it until he died. Post it here to encourage you:
"I see. Don't fight anything. This gentleman Han, who earned it himself, is really decent! Hey! "
Only by giving the trees the best nutrients can you bear good fruit.
Maybe people who believe in fate are a compromise to themselves! But I think fate is an innate arrangement and an acquired effort.
Sometimes you have to have it in your life, and you can't always insist on it. If you encounter setbacks in life, you can't balance your mentality. Comfort yourself with this sentence and accept your small but arrogant self.
I don't believe that fate doesn't matter right or wrong. Life and luck are two separate words that are inseparable. Life is born by life, and life is ups and downs by life.
Let's assume that there really is a God, and he has arranged the fate of each of us. But if you think about it from another angle, is there a difference between ants and cockroaches? If there is a god, man is just a creature to them, that is to say, man is no different from other animals. When you step on a group of ants, is their fate doomed to be trampled to death by you?
Let's think it over. We always say that heaven has eyes and good and evil are rewarded. Then why don't the gods come out to stop the wicked from committing crimes? Are you sure that every wicked person deserves it? Why live a miserable life when you know you haven't done anything bad? Destiny is indeed predestined, but it is not predestined by heaven, but your character. If your character is unchangeable, so is your destiny. When you change your personality, so will your life. Sounds simple. In fact, 99.9% people can't or don't want to do it. The ancients said long ago that a leopard cannot change his spots, so the fate of most people is doomed, no matter how hard you struggle.
Fate is predestined, which is an idealistic fallacy. I am an atheist through and through, and I only believe in one sentence: "The harder you work, the luckier you are".
Everyone in the world can't be born with a golden key like Jia Baoyu. Most people are born at the grassroots level, and have nothing to do with the innate superior resources. They should all start at the grassroots level. Some people are willing to be at the mercy of fate, go to school step by step, get married and have children according to the rules, and never dream of entering the mainstream society, so they are willing to be mediocre, self-indulgent and even broken.
Of course, some people don't want to make the same mistakes as their parents. They have ideals, motivation, passion and dreams. They want to study hard in the cold window and forget themselves through their own efforts, so as to achieve the opportunity of carp yue longmen. Maybe we are from the grass roots and our family is surrounded by four walls. As long as our limbs are sound, our brains are not stupid, and our dreams are immortal, we will March towards our dreams every day, day after day, year after year, and our dreams will get closer and closer, and success will be just around the corner.
Don't believe the story of predestination. I have only heard the philosophical saying that knowledge changes fate. Only by not giving up on yourself, not giving up on yourself, starting from now, taking out the courage to hang the beam and stab the stocks, the diligence to dig the wall and steal the column, and the tenacity to eat and drink, can fate not be rewritten!