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Dialogue between Stone and Buddha
Stone asked: should I find someone I love to be my wife? Or should I find a wife who loves me?
Buddha laughed: The answer to this question is actually in your own heart. Over the years, who can make you love her to death, make you feel that life is full, and make you stand straight and keep moving forward? Or someone who loves you?
Stone also smiled: but my friends advised me to find a girl who loves me as a wife?
Buddha said: in that case, your life is doomed to nothing from now on! You are used to constantly improving yourself in the process of chasing love. When you stop chasing someone you love, the pace of your self-improvement stops.
What if the stone grabs the Buddha and I catch up with the person I love? Is this fair? ...
Buddha said: Because she is your favorite person, making her live happily is regarded as the greatest happiness in your life, so you will continue to work hard to make her live happier and happier. Happiness and happiness have no limit, so your efforts have no limit and will never stop.
The stone said, then I live a hard life, don't I?
Buddha said: after so many years, do you feel hard?
Stone shook his head and smiled again.
Second,
Stone asked: In this case, should I be kind to those who love me?
The Buddha shook his head and said, Do you need someone you love to be nice to you?
Si Tong gave a wry smile: I don't think I need it.
Buddha said: Tell me your reasons.
Si Tong said: I am very demanding of love, that is, I don't need sympathy mixed with pity. I asked her to love me from the bottom of her heart. Although sympathy, pity, tolerance and forbearance are also a kind of love, although they can also bring happiness to people in a certain sense, they make me hate it. If her love for me is mixed with these, then I would rather she ignored me, or refused my love directly and quit before I had time.
The Buddha smiled and said, OK, you have given the answer!
Third,
Stone asked: Why was a girl the most beautiful in my eyes when I loved her before? Love a girl now, but often find a more beautiful girl than her?
Buddha said: Are you sure you really love her that much? Are you the one who loves her the most in the world?
Stone said without hesitation: of course!
Buddha said: Congratulations. Your love for her is mature, rational, sincere and profound.
Stone was a little surprised: Oh?
The Buddha went on to say: She is not the most beautiful in the world. Even if you love her so much, you know this fact clearly. But you still love her so much, because you love not only her youth and beauty, but also her youth and beauty, but your love for her has gone beyond these superficial things and years. You love her whole person, mainly her unique heart.
Stone couldn't help saying: Yes, I really love her innocence and kindness, and cherish her naivety.
Buddha smiled: for your love, the test of any time is nothing.
Fourth,
Stone asked: Why did two people lose their previous passion and become more interdependent when they got together?
Buddha said: that's because your heart has imperceptibly turned love into affection …
The stone touched his head: affection?
The Buddha went on to say: when love reaches a certain level, it will unconsciously turn into family affection, and you will gradually regard her as a part of your life, so that you will have more tolerance and understanding. Only family ties are arranged by you from birth, and you have no choice, so what you can do in the future is to adapt to your family ties. No matter how noble you are, you must accept them unconditionally and be responsible for them.
Stone thought for a moment, nodded and said that family ties are indeed like this.
Buddha laughed: Love begins with mutual appreciation, falls in love with each other, and gets married with each other, but more importantly, it needs tolerance, understanding, habit and adaptation to join hands for a lifetime.
Stone was silent: love is also a kind of fate.
Five,
Stone asked: I once knew a girl in college. I loved her at that time, but she didn't love me at that time. But now she's in love with me again. I don't seem to feel that way before, or I don't seem to love her anymore. Why is this happening?
Buddha said: Can you stop thinking about her from now on?
Stone pondered for a while: I don't think so, because I have been thinking of her intentionally or unintentionally for so many years, or I have an extraordinary concern about her news at the class reunion; I was inexplicably excited and nervous when I received her letter or phone call; The reason why I have been single for so many years is that I have never forgotten her, or that I am looking for a future girlfriend by her standards; But I really don't like her anymore.
The Buddha sighed: Although there is no change in appearance between you now and before, your heart has gone through a long journey, or you have tied a realistic and rational knot for your love. You don't like her just because of your knot. The knot needs to be solved by yourself. You know, it took 500 times to look back at the past life in this life to let this life pass. People always have to choose. As for how to choose, you still have to decide for yourself, and no one can help you.
Stone didn't speak again, but quietly looked into the distance. It turns out that Buddha is not omnipotent …
Six,
Si Tong asked: In such an era and such a society, a person like me loves someone so hard. Is it worth it?
Buddha said: What do you think?
Stone wanted to think, was speechless.
The Buddha was silent for a while, and finally he spoke again: since the road is his own choice, you can't complain, you can only have no regrets.
Si Tong let out a long sigh. Si Tong knew he understood. He took a firm look at the Buddha and didn't speak again.
classical theory
1. Don't fall in love because of loneliness. Time is the devil. If you are a affectionate person, even if you don't.
Love, there will be feelings. What will you do in the end?
2. Don't get married for responsibility. You know, marrying someone who doesn't love them is the most irresponsible. even if
Sometimes it will make the other person sad, but it is better than making him sad for several years or even a lifetime.
No matter how old you are, no matter how urged by family and friends, don't treat marriage casually. Marriage is not playing cards, what matters is.
The new shuffle will cost a lot of money.
There is basically no one right or wrong about emotional matters. If he (she) wants to leave you, there is always something you can't let him have.
Satisfaction, looking back on the past days together, is always beautiful. Of course, there are also despicable emotional liars. male
Children's sweet words are just to lie to each other and sleep with themselves, and such people are still very few.
It doesn't matter to fall in love with a person with many different living habits. Be careful when you get married, and think about whether it will last long.
Endure our differences.
6. Some people say that finding someone you like in love and finding someone you like in marriage are all one-sided. Lovers don't like it
What do you have to love? My wife doesn't like how to live.
7. If you really love someone, you should try to make him happy. He is happy, you are happy, and then both sides have passion.
8. Don't give up your pursuit because you are not as good as the other party. Appearance is only a temporary impression, really decided.
Whether they can be combined depends mainly on the personalities of both sides. I've seen handsome guys with ugly girls, and there are too many ugly girls with handsome guys.
9. Women should learn to dress themselves, don't use simplicity as a shield, don't use housework as an excuse, and don't understand fashion.
You are not a complete woman.
10. Love can last as long as possible. This has at least two advantages: first, enjoy love as long as possible.
Happiness, marriage and love feel very different. Second, the longer two people get along, the more they can test each other.
Whether you are sincere or not, the more you can see whether the two personalities hit it off. In this way, the feelings after marriage will be much stronger.
1 1. Men are not bad, but women don't love them. This kind of bad does not mean cruelty, selfishness and ruthlessness. It means slippery.
Tongue, rhetoric. Generally, good men think that sweet words are glib and frivolous, so they don't want to.
Do it. It's wrong to say that to others, but be glib with your wife. Why not do it?
What about a man with a good heart and a smooth mouth?
12. It is said that marriage is the grave of love, because before I got married, I was already on my way to the grave. Even if you don't get married
Will break up at the grave. Why not break up first and then dive into the grave?
13. A woman who can only read is a dictionary. No matter how good things are, people will only look them up when they need them.
A well-dressed woman is just a vase, and it will be like that after a long time. Dressing beautifully is a necessary condition for being a good woman.
, is not a necessary and sufficient condition. You need to read more books. In this way, you will find life better.
14. Dull is true, yes, but it should be dull after passion, passion and dullness.
Light. Passion should appear alternately in waves. What's the point of living a dull and passionate life? As long as you really
Love him until you die.
15. Do you love him? Love tells him why he should hide the pain of missing in his heart. Fear of appearance, status, identity
Do not match? Don't be afraid, it is beautiful to love someone.
16. My wife and mother fell into the river. I saved my mother first, because my mother gave me life, and I couldn't find it.
The reason to leave her. If my wife is not saved, I can bury her again and continue our love in the grave.
17. It is wrong to get married hastily. Never divorce hastily again. Try first, if it doesn't work, leave.
It's not too late.
18. It is often said that masculinity means femininity. Do you know what masculinity and femininity are?
How does it taste? Masculinity means being open-minded and brave, while femininity means being gentle and considerate.
19. What is charm? Charm is not beautiful, beautiful women do not necessarily attract me, dignified and elegant women I.
Just like it. So you don't have to worry about not being beautiful enough.
20. First love is unforgettable and beautiful. Why? Not because he (she) is beautiful or handsome, nor is it.
It is because what you can't get is good, but because when you first fall in love, your heart is extremely pure and you don't have any selfish thoughts.
All I know is to love each other with everything I have. And the love in the future is not so pure. Innocence is the most important thing in the world.
For something precious. It is her that we long for.
2 1. Most people who first love don't understand love, so their first love fails. Less successful. You should marry an unmarried person.
Because everyone likes the original. In love, it is better to find someone who has been in love. Because I love someone I loved.
Know what love is and how to love it.
22. Men become bad when they have money. Yes, many men become bad, but a man becomes bad even if he has money.
Not much better.
Whether a man can give you a sense of security lies not in his height at all, but in his high heart. high
I have met many big and timid men. I've seen short and high-spirited men. A man should have a noble heart,
So you can look like a man. Of course, the premise is to be talented.
24. Is it forever? Of course there is! Why don't most people believe there is? Because they didn't find life.
What suits you best on the trip. That is, the one who is destiny takes a hand. Why can't you find it? Broad masses of people
Sea, life is like dew, how easy is it to find the one that suits you best? Maybe when you're 40.
The one who is destined by heaven, but can you wait until you are 40 years old? I couldn't find it when I was in my twenties, so I had to get married.
I found it when I was forty, but I had to give it up. This is the sorrow of life.
25. Why do you seldom see the legendary everlasting and touching love story in your life? Because of this feeling
Love is precious. Are precious things that beautiful? Do gold and diamonds look good?
26. When I was lovelorn in the past, I hated her and why she was so heartless and heard bad things about her.
News, I will secretly laugh, not now, even if I lose her now, I will bless her and sincerely hope that she can.
Have a good life. I'll be sad that she's not doing well. This is also the difference between liking and loving.
27. It will be happy to fall in love with smart people, because they are humorous and can talk, but there is always a crisis, because
Because such people change their minds easily. Falling in love with honest people will be very reassuring, but life is also boring.
28. Women should not be too competitive. Some women have too much pride. It's someone else's fault. She is very strong. It is her own.
Wrong. She is also very strong. She always thought it was despicable to beg others, and she would never beg a man.
Such a woman is a headache. A smart woman will know when to be strong and when to show weakness. okay
Being strong should be for outsiders, so strong for the person you love, do you want him to take care of you?
29. It depends on whether a person has connotation, internal speech and external clothes. You can also read and write. As can be seen from the conversation.
A person's knowledge and accomplishment. Dress can tell a person's taste, and writing can tell a person's character.
30. If you want to know whether a person loves you or not, it depends on whether he is energetic with you, and whether he is happy or not is love.
No, I just don't.
3 1. Some people always complain that they can't find good people. It doesn't matter once or twice. Too much is a problem. First of all, you should review yourself.
Is there something wrong with yourself? If not, you have to look at your own eyes. Why do you always treat the bad guys?
You always run into me?
32. Some people say that once a man changes his mind, nine cows can't be pulled back. If a woman changes her mind, can nine cows be pulled back?
? There are only physiological differences between men and women, and they are almost the same psychologically.
33. Love has little to do with personality. Once upon a time, a female colleague told me that she liked Yang Kang in The Condor Heroes, but she didn't.
Guo Jing, I'm surprised. Love bad and hate good? On second thought, it was nothing. Is it true that Yang Kang regards thieves as his father and wins honor for his country?
That's right. But he is persistent in love. Why can't such a person enjoy love? There are such examples in real life.
Young people also have the love of young people.
Some people say that love without bread will eventually die. The person who said this doesn't know what love is. Former love
Love me and hate people saying that the woman has good conditions and good conditions. I don't care about your background, education or place.
Hey, if I love you, I don't care if you shine shoes or even be a prostitute. Adults say I'm naive. How can I live without money?
How many days? When did I ever say that I was rich and never loved? I am tall when I drink water and eat pickles with my loved ones.
Xing.
35. If you really love someone, you will be willing to change for him. If a person goes his own way in front of you, put it aside.
Regardless of the behavior you don't like, he just doesn't love you. So if you don't care enough about him or he doesn't care enough.
Heart you, then you don't love him or he doesn't love you, and don't think you are careless or believe that he is a.
Careless person. Cowards will become brave when they meet people they really love, and similarly, careless people will become cautious.
36. Being interested in the other person and not saying it is the highest state of love. Because both of them are enjoying themselves at this time.
Make eye contact, enjoy the fiery psychology of eye contact, and enjoy the pleasure of finger touch. one
Once said, the taste will be much lighter, because after the two agreed, all the actions have been approved, which is intentional.
After preparation, you will gradually become numb. 37. A radish and a pit are talking about marriage. material
In fact, for love, it is not established. Excellent people, regardless of gender, will be a radish with several pits.
. So every day there are stories of joys and sorrows in this world.
38. There are two kinds of lovely women. One is the mother type, caring, caring and caring for men.
Very thoughtful. With such a woman, you will feel strong love. There is also a sister type.
Very timid, very shy, very dependent on men, and such a woman together, will stimulate their men's character.
The way it looks. For example, beating mice and lifting heavy objects. I often think about protecting my little woman. There is another kind of woman.
People don't know how to care about others, and they never bow to men and show weakness. Such a woman makes men helpless.
39. Being stingy is a taboo for men. Don't be poor even if you are poor. Some people complain that women only love men's money.
In fact, this is not necessarily the case. Some women like men to spend money for her, sometimes to prove themselves.
If a man likes a woman, of course he will be willing to spend money for her.
40. Neither men nor women are tired of work. Because in front of the opposite sex, men always like to show their manly side.
Only in this way can you be like a man, so male chauvinism is sometimes necessary.
4 1. Pursuing the opposite sex is a common saying. In fact, the other person doesn't like you, so it's no use chasing you, right?
Fang likes you, there's no need to delve into it. Maybe one day he was moved by your sincerity, but in the end,
Most of them will still break up. Because love is not touching, you are not his ideal partner, even if you pick it up for a while.
The person who accepts you will meet the person he likes in the future and will leave you. Of course, for people who like you, you are still
It takes some effort to please him, because it is as romantic as dating.
42. You are often asked to choose between friends and lovers, which one would you choose? In fact, there are many problems.
More than that. A friend or lover who truly understands you will understand your behavior, and if you don't understand, you will lose.
Don't care too much. Friends or lovers should help each other, not give in.
43. Once the sea was difficult for water, it was always amber. But if I haven't crossed the sea or just arrived at the sea to fight
I turned around and came back. I have never been to Wushan before. What should I do if I plunge into the besieged city?
44. What is romance? Is it a flower? Walking in the rain? Can't you stand in front of the building if two people love each other, what?
Doing nothing, being quiet is relatively romantic. Otherwise, even if two people date in confinement, it is also
I don't feel romantic.
45. It doesn't matter whether it's appropriate or not, the most important thing is to be interested, otherwise there won't be even one in the same language.
Get up, still feel lonely.
46. Learn to look at each other with understanding and appreciation, instead of taking care of each other with self-righteousness.
47. There is nothing wrong with naive people and mature people.
Problems, mature people and naive people have more problems together.
48. Some women let their boyfriends spoil themselves when they are in love, but they still want their husbands to spoil themselves in every way after marriage, but they forget to do it.
What women should do. Such a woman doesn't know love.
49. Lasting love comes from true love in each other's hearts and is based on equality. Anyone who only cares about madness
No matter whether you are loved or not, or those who only enjoy being loved but don't really love will not have a good ending.
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