Can I have a wedding in the first month?
First, it is unlucky. In ancient times, there was a saying that men and women got married in the first month, which was too old for their children and grandchildren, so few new people got married in the first month.
Second, it is not festive. The first month of the lunar calendar is the season of ghost marriage, because the first month of the underworld is the same as the dead, and everything in the underworld can come to the dead. So, when you see a wedding in the middle of nowhere, don't stop to see if there is anyone around. If there are many people around, it means the wedding of the dead. If there is no one around, you are the only one, or people around you don't respond when they see the wedding procession. Do you feel horrible?
Third, it is not conducive to the happiness of families and members. You can't get married in the first month and get engaged in the twelfth month, otherwise the husband and wife can't grow old together. Marriage is rarely in the first month of the lunar calendar, and engagement is rarely in the twelfth month. Because marrying a daughter-in-law in the first month will hinder her in-laws' affairs, and getting engaged in the twelfth month will defeat her in-laws' affairs, there is a proverb: "Just don't marry, don't order." But whenever you get married, you must choose a good day. Moreover, a few days before the date is chosen, the man must invite the matchmaker to the woman's house to inquire about the girl's "little life." That is, the date of the monthly letter falls in the first half or the second half, so as to choose an auspicious day. It is said that if the bride writes every month at the time of marriage, there is a saying that "the red horse goes to bed and the family is ruined", so everyone attaches great importance to it. If the groom is young, his parents must earnestly warn him not to cross the festival before entering the bridal chamber, lest the bride get pregnant on the wedding night, then the child born is called "Maimenzi", which is unlucky. So "choosing a day" is very important.
Fourthly, there is a folk saying that mice get married on the third day of the first month, and Zhong Kui also married her sister to Du Ping on New Year's Eve.
In fact, these are folk customs, and the new society pays attention to new fashion. As long as two people have deep feelings and meet the conditions for marriage, they can still marry their families. Of course, both parents should be satisfied, and they should not be entangled in marriage. Its realization is that many people get married in the first month. The Chinese New Year is already very festive, and the prosperous days are even less prosperous.