Are grandparents so good at feng shui?

Your name is really strange ... it should be grandparents.

Do you have any prestigious relatives of the older generation in your family, or prestigious old people in the village? You can ask them to chair a family meeting for you. Just say that you have been dreaming about your grandparents dreaming about you, saying that the grave next to the fish pond is too wet, so that you can be buried formally as soon as possible, and grandparents don't blame you. Anyway, it's all mysterious things, and death tells no tales.