A letter from parents to a ten-year-old child.
A letter to a child's initiation ceremony
Yu Yang:
Our dear baby (please allow us to call you that again, although you are a little reluctant), mom and dad want to congratulate you on going through this growth ceremony, which shows that you have taken another big step towards adulthood. You're a grown-up. Congratulations!
Looking back on this decade, did you cry, laugh, walk and talk for the first time when you were a child? What is still fresh in my memory is that every happiness, every depression and every sadness in your growing up touched our parents' hearts, laughing with you and being sad with you became a part of our beautiful life. That photo album of memories will always be hidden in the hearts of parents.
In these ten years, you grew up under the care and care of your parents, sheltering you from the wind and rain, fertilizing and irrigating you, but the flowers in the greenhouse will experience wind and rain one day. From today on, parents hope that you can become a tall and straight tree. Only after the baptism of wind and rain can you grow into a towering tree and become a useful pillar of society.
Dear baby, through today's growth ceremony, I hope you can change from a little boy to a little man. Mom and dad often tell you that men are everywhere. Strong, brave, honest and responsible are the qualities a man should possess. Men don't cry easily. When encountering any difficulties and setbacks, he can only tell himself silently that I, Chu Yuyang, are not so easy to defeat. I will definitely overcome it. We should know that every failure is not a bad thing. Only those who keep accumulating failures can meet the final success, and success always belongs to those who are persistent and prepared.
Dear baby, mom and dad expect you to be an optimistic person. You often say to me: Mom, what if I don't do well in the exam? What if I can't do it? Although there are advantages and disadvantages, optimistic people always think of the positive side of things, which is why they are more likely to succeed. Once you fail, it doesn't matter, as long as the chance to live is always there. Never give up your dreams and goals. Do not underestimate yourself. Mom and dad believe that your energy is infinite. As long as you are willing to work hard and endure hardships, you can certainly do it!
Dear baby, you may think that mom and dad are not good enough for you sometimes. No one came to wake you up in the morning. You have to set your own alarm clock, clean your room and do a lot of things by yourself. You often tell me that other children are not like this. It's not that mom and dad don't want to do it for you. It's not that they don't love you, but that they want you to exercise yourself. You have this ability. One thing makes mom and dad happy. From the beginning of this semester, you began to help with some housework, such as feeding the dog, watering the flowers, taking out the garbage and washing socks. We are all very happy. Although we have given you some material rewards, I hope you can understand that money is not the only purpose. By doing housework, mom and dad hope you can understand that you are a member of the family. When you grow up, you should take responsibility for this family. Only when each of us devotes ourselves wholeheartedly can we create a happy, happy and harmonious family. This is still true for the family, but it is even more true for the society and the country when they grow up, don't you think?
Dear baby, mom and dad still have a lot to tell you. There are too many unfulfilled ideals and goals for you, but maybe it's unfair to you. You must be yourself. The road to growth is full of happiness and hardship. Cherish this young and brilliant process! I hope you can be a free-flying kite. The sky is high and wide. Try your best to fly, and the end of the kite will always hold the parents' hearts.
Bless you-health, happiness, optimism and strength, our dear child!
Mom and Dad
April 29(th)
The second letter to the child's growth ceremony
Dear son:
This is a very special letter to my adult son. At this moment, mom and dad are carefully stroking their son's growing footprints, full of emotion and happiness. Their anxiety and worry have turned into joy and even pride. Because, we have experienced storms with our son, grown up together, and along the way, accompanied by gratitude, responsibility, sunshine and dedication.
When you were born and brought hope to our family, your parents tore up the dictionary and racked their brains to give you a name? YZ？ From then on, your life is full of information that you love art, life and versatility. Since the age of 5, the tender little finger has been undulating on the keys. At the age of 6, you have stumbled on the pitch of Dark Horse Football Club. Although you have to be reprimanded by the strict piano teacher, you have learned to be persistent and meticulous, and mom and dad have also experienced the power of patience in sparring. Although playing football is a bit bitter, you have learned to work hard, learn to be brave and understand the strength of the team. Are you still close to Gao Hong, the international women's football team? Talk? I felt the happiness of success, and my parents watched the battle quietly and tasted the vitality and excitement of life.
Son, you have been studying consciously since you were a child, and your grades have always been among the best, so we are not too worried about your studies. But as all parents expect, I hope you study hard and have better moral character. What makes us happy is that you have done a good job in broad love and grateful care, learned to give back love and know how to be grateful. Grandma is old and loves you very much. In order to let you eat meat, she said that she couldn't bite, but she scrambled to eat hard steamed bread. You are sensible, you see it in your eyes and keep it in your heart. An essay written by heart, Love between Green Trees and Roots, you use unique? Bite? With what? Cann't bite? Contrastively expressed gratitude for the care of the elders. Grandma brought you up since childhood, and that kind of natural affection is vividly displayed in the intimate actions of your grandparents and grandchildren. In order to express my gratitude to my mother for cultivating you, on that small khaki note, I wrote something that made my parents cry:
I don't know how to thank you, mom. For everything you gave me, during my father's working in other places, you took on the burden of the family: working, dealing with relatives and supporting my studies. Now, I think we should cherish our happy time together. Because two years later, I will go further afield to study. I can't see you preparing breakfast for me in the kitchen from sleep every day, and then I can eat the fruit you brought me when I was doing my homework. I love you, Mom!
Dad burst into tears when he typed this passage. First, I was moved by my son's gratitude and filial piety, and second, I felt guilty that my father couldn't accompany you to take care of you because of work. Nevertheless, the son does not forget a little fatherly love. In 2008, my father worked in the national wildlife nature reserve at an altitude of more than 3,000 meters. When he dragged his tired body down the mountain at one o'clock in the morning, there was a signal. A short message in his mobile phone made my father's fatigue disappear immediately. ? One day, I will ride the wind and waves, raise the Yun Fan and cross the sea. Happy Father's Day to Dad! Take care of yourself! Love your son? Unfortunately, due to changing the mobile phone, this precious short message at an altitude of 3000 meters was accidentally lost, but every word has been deeply imprinted on my father's heart.
In fact, it's not just dad who is moved. This year's father's birthday, your special birthday wishes, so that colleagues present are moved by you, proud of me, lamented that father has a sensible and excellent son.
? In the northwest of Shuomo, solitary Peng Yuanzheng defended the border. On an empty moonlit night, Populus euphratica looked at the dome and missed his hometown. In retrospect, my wife worked hard, the children were at her desk, and I was eager to say it. Fu Wei's loving father is old this month, and I sincerely wish Ankang a long life. ?
Son, we are very touched that you can love your parents and loved ones. And your care for others, your care for the collective and your contribution to society make us feel gratified. Respect the teacher, thank the teacher, you did a good job. You have been in junior high school and senior high school, so don't forget to visit the primary school teacher during the holiday; Every teacher's day, you will send a sincere greeting card to the teachers who have worked hard to train you on time; When you were in elementary school, when you were swimming, you took the initiative to return the 400 yuan you found on the shore to the owner; After the Wenchuan earthquake, you donated all your 400 yuan scholarships to the people in the disaster area. In the class, you take the initiative to help the boarders check the information and provide help within your power; When you were a monitor from elementary school to high school, the doors and windows of your class were broken. You try to solve all these things in the first place. It's a small matter that should be done, but we are glad of your great love. Love is boundless, and you are rated as a class moral model, which is the true feedback of your love.
Good study, noble morality and strong sense of social responsibility, I believe you will be more determined and go further in the journey of realizing lofty political ideals and lofty ambitions. Readers and Global Times are your favorites, and TV World Weekly must be watched every week. You like to discuss international and domestic affairs with adults, criticize the current shortcomings and praise the good ones, which makes mom and dad appreciate it. In the meantime, what about you? News? We pay more attention to society, understand society and serve society, for fear of falling behind our progressive son. Also, this year's Peking University? Model union? During the activity, you can resist the intense pressure of study, prepare carefully and insist on participating, which shows that you are not only a book, but also an achievement, pursuing broadening your horizons and all-round development.
When it comes to social responsibility, parents have to think about their son's sense of family responsibility. Like every ordinary family, mom and dad are doomed to stumble in life. At this time, you, through rational, euphemistic and affectionate mediation, let mom and dad smile through tears. After the storm, we can only care about our son, and let us change our minds again to make our families happier.
Of course, in the process of your growth, we also had anxiety, confusion and troubles, such as puppy love, excessive consumption, careless friends, addiction to the internet, infatuation with games and so on. This is very common among adolescent children. But under our careful guidance and your careful understanding, we passed it smoothly in a relaxed and self-disciplined way.
Son, we say this because we want to express our parents' little touch and good memories on your growth path at this special moment, and also thank our son for his company all the way, so that we can grow up and be on the road. We know what growth means.
? Slowly, slowly, I understand that the so-called father-daughter-mother-son scene just means that your fate with him is to watch his back drift away all your life. You stand at this end of the path and watch him disappear around the corner. He tells you silently with his back: Don't chase. In the expression, there are both sad farewell and joyful growth. ?
Son, you know you have to tell you that all your growth has been devoted to the hard cultivation and care of teachers in No.2 kindergarten, Mongolian kindergarten, Manchu primary school, No.3 middle school branch and No.2 middle school, especially several head teachers. Taking this opportunity, as parents, we express our heartfelt thanks and high respect to all teachers!
We expect and believe that with such a rich foundation for children's growth, our son will surely make great strides in the future according to your beautiful expectations. Even if there are bumps and thorns, you should use your wisdom and courage to overcome everything! Your life must be wonderful! Because of your ideal, your ambition, your social responsibility, your love and gratitude, and the blessings and help from all your caring relatives, teachers and classmates, this unparalleled popularity field will bless you to be healthy and happy forever and achieve your beautiful life!
Love your mom and Dad
05-04
Letter 3 of Children's Growth Ceremony
Dear child:
Thank the school for providing such an opportunity for us to talk to you by writing. Faced with such a theme, we can't help but feel slightly surprised when we pick up the pen. 199 1 How can a baby be born in the blink of an eye? Adults? Yes Although we have lived together day and night since you were born, watching you grow up day by day, since you can laugh, turn over, call your parents, learn to walk, go to primary school and enter middle school, we have witnessed all your growth, but have you? Grow up? This fact still surprises us!
Before writing this letter, mom and dad discussed what to write. Our first thought was to thank you. Baby, this is what we really want to say to you. We thank you!
We don't know why you have been so smart and sensible since you were a child. In our memory, you almost never cry, and your mouth is always happy like a morning glory. During the physical examination in kindergarten, other children cried for fear of injection. Only you said to the nurse, auntie, I won't cry. You still look like a little poet. When your mother took you two years old, she walked through a shade in hot summer, what do you say? Shall we put on big tree straw hats? . When you were only seven years old, you could resist the fragrance and consciously give the only cake to your little brother who came to visit at home. As a pupil, you are more sensitive to safety than your mother. Remind mom to avoid possible dangers. You have too many interesting things for us to remember. Do you often joke with your father and clap your stomach and say? Full of knowledge? And pat each other on the stomach and say? A bag of shit? , happy to laugh. Usually, you are so peaceful. Although you have been doing well from primary school to middle school, you never think you are better than others, which is exactly what we appreciate: modesty. Your modesty really grows in your bones, not a gesture at all. We are also pleased with this and believe that there will be great room for your future development. ①
You are only 16 years old now, and it will take more than two years to reach 18 years old, but your values, way of doing things, thinking level and judgment ability are so mature that we have to admire you. We will often ask you what you think of some problems, and this kind of question is also from the heart, because you are always very atmospheric analysis. This makes us realize that maturity is not only an age, but also a virtue.
? Bar mitzvah? This is a great symbol, a praise for all your past days, and a warm reminder for future years. It indicates that your wings are hard enough to fly into the blue sky alone. In the past, you lived under the care of your family and school. Be responsible for yourself, your family and society in the future. Mom and Dad hope that when you grow up, you will first be a good person, a kind, tolerant and decent person in your future life. Learn to solve the contradictions and unhappiness in life, don't care too much about things, and let yourself live happily. At the same time, I hope you have good living habits and take part in more sports when time permits to ensure your health.
I have a lot of hope for you. Let's write these two articles here.
Finally, in such a ceremony, you should thank all the people and things you meet. Your parents, teachers, classmates, friends, school and society all make you lovely. Mom and Dad especially want to say to you here: Thank you, our baby!