A good guide for good people.
Modern life is intense, and many people feel bored, bored, stressed and even wronged in reality, dragging their whole bodies tired, but they are helpless. Although the husband and wife get married after getting along, they are only together because they get along well, but in the trivial life after marriage, there are fewer topics to talk about and they are unwilling to talk. The only way is to find a shelter on the internet and find one.
In real life, almost all women people see are people without sexual desire. Although they dress up beautifully every day, they attract men around them intentionally or unintentionally, and silently calculate the rate of men's turning heads, but they never openly admit their sexual desire for men, as if they were completely different from men, as if they were from another world without sex. It is puzzling that girls are busy making boyfriends and falling in love. Finally, most women are married. According to statistics, the incidence of female sexual masturbation is about 70%. But all the women you see in the street look serious, and none of them seems to like sexual masturbation. Sexual words never come out of their mouths unless they are extremely angry and want to call names, or only when they are alone with their lovers or have sex with their husbands. If a woman openly admits her sexual desire in front of everyone, she is either an idiot or a psycho! As a woman, even if she has sex in her heart, she can't say it, let alone do it at will, because social traditions require a woman to be pure, free from distractions and behave correctly, otherwise it will be difficult to survive in this society.
Generally speaking, as long as there is normal sexual desire, as long as it is not particularly firm, as long as men and women with roughly the same age, knowledge and interests meet online, it is possible to have online sex. Western slang says: "The shortcut to a man's heart is the intestine, and the shortcut to a woman's heart is the vagina." Whether a man wins a woman's heart or not, the most obvious criterion is sexual tolerance. Once a woman is willing to open her heart for you, it means that she still has you in her heart. Once men and women have a harmonious sexual relationship, their relationship is much more subtle. After years of divorce, the ex-wife of boxing champion Tai Sen recalled the days when she was with Tai Sen. What she talked about most was Tai Sen's sex. The ancient Roman writer Ovinaris said, "Remember, women will do anything to satisfy their desires: the only thing they are fascinated with is sex." There is a dialogue in Lady Chatterley and Her Lover. The lover asked Lady Chatterley, "You don't seem to believe anything? Do you believe in anything? " Lady Chatterley said, "Maybe I don't believe in anything, but I believe in one thing-I dare to love if you dare to do it!" "
A Canadian psychologist has studied the extramarital affairs of women in China, and found that in recent years, there are more and more women deviant in the United States and the three places on both sides of the strait, and the proportion of extramarital affairs between the two sexes is actually similar. Among the derailed women, Guan Tai, a strong woman and young women aged 26 to 40 are all high-risk groups.
Sex has three purposes. The first purpose is to have children. There used to be many cultures and religions in history that the only legitimate purpose of sex was to have children. A Christian saint once said that sex is evil, even if it is passed on between husband and wife, it is also a sin. A Christian leader once said: I really hope that God will think of another way for people to carry on the family line, so that people can avoid the evil of sex. The second purpose is to establish a certain relationship, such as love relationship, marriage relationship and so on. The third is for simple physical pleasure. Internet sex obviously belongs to the third kind, purely for physical pleasure. Of course, one-night stands do not rule out the possibility of developing into the first and second purposes. For example, I've heard that some people will have feelings after a one-night stand and finally get married. This is also the case. But it was really an accident in a one-night stand, and it was not the original purpose. Whether in chat rooms or on QQ, the first step for the vast number of wolf friends to hunt for color online is to choose that female netizen as your target. Whether the object is chosen correctly or not plays a decisive role in the success of your flower picking career. This is also the confusion of early wolves. The following is my opinion based on years of experience.
Good people in online chat rooms can be divided into five categories:
The first category is for the purpose of simply making friends, without any utilitarian color, just making friends, trying to make more friends and expand their social and circle of friends. This kind of person accounts for about 30%. The screen name of this kind of good person is very casual and has no specificity, which is beyond our discussion. Common screen names are Pinpin, Qingqing Xiaohe, Leng Yue, Qinghe, Idle Flowers and Fragrance, Apple Girl, etc.
The second category is developed on the basis of the first category, and it is also based on making friends, but when you meet someone you like, you want to develop into a lover. For the second kind of people, online chatting is based on finding compensation for marriage feelings. This kind of person accounts for about 35%. The screen names of such people generally have some meanings, so I will focus on them here. Such as beauty, urban beauty, sincere woman, gentle woman, leisure woman, young women in Hong Kong City, young women 32, etc. It can be seen that their names all illustrate a problem that they are women! Highlight your own characteristics: gentleness, beauty, sincerity, loyalty and so on. They expressed a sense of dissatisfaction with real life. Haha, these are cracked eggs. Your countermeasure is to treat her as a woman and show her masculinity, such as successful men, mature men, tasteful men and so on. For example, these women's online names include romantic rain, rain-listening girl, dream girl, autumn pool, deep love, sun umbrella, tenderness, falling flowers and so on. These women's screen names are very distinctive and poetic, which shows that they like fantasy and have dreams in their hearts. it is quite easy to do so. As long as everyone likes what they like, they can talk about anything, mainly to cultivate feelings and arouse her. There are also names such as single women, divorced women, women living alone, left-behind women, lonely women, women looking for love, and single world. At first glance, these names have a lonely resentment. At first glance, they are short of men. If you make up a similar role, it's easy to get started, but be careful not to get entangled!
The third category is aimed at one-night stands, and the purpose is straightforward and naked, that is, to enjoy passion and indulge desires as the starting point and to do everything possible as the end point. Therefore, gathering in the middle of the night, singing and indulging, and breaking up with a smile at dawn do not require responsibility or emotion, but sexual collision and interweaving. This kind of people account for about 10%. The names of these women are somewhat straightforward, such as lonely girls, lonely nightingales, girls with one-night stands, girls looking for bars, affectionate young women, lonely people looking for companionship and so on. What this kind of woman craves is passion. As long as you convince her that you can give her safe and exciting enjoyment, you can easily get it. Of course, most of these women are sluts and their sexual needs are very strong. Everyone should pay attention to their own conditions. There are some women whose names can't be seen. They wait in the chat room, and they will take the initiative to find their favorite male friends.
The fourth category is money-based transactions, which send out dates online and meet each other for the exchange of flesh and money. This kind of people are mainly online girls and helpers. This group accounts for about 5%. Note that this kind of person is no longer a good family, but a discussion together. These women are easy to distinguish, such as women, women who are short of money, women who have a one-night stand, girls who help them and so on. Or if you advertise for a lady in a chat room, they will come to you themselves.
The fifth is the complicated aspect, either tasting new things, being bored and lonely, or feeling the atmosphere of the chat room casually, and the goal is not very clear. But some of them will develop into one of the above four categories over time. This kind of people should account for about 20%. The names of such women have no characteristics, so we won't discuss them.
The focus here is on the second and third kind of good people, especially the second kind of good people. Of course, the screen name is arbitrary and cannot be completely correct. I am here to throw a brick to attract jade for your reference.
Third, we should be optimistic about the proportion of people leaving the wall from the occupation and age.
After you start chatting with a person from a good family, people usually ask each other's occupation and age. Judging from the current national conditions in China, it is generally not blue-collar women with poor families and heavy work who have the ability and time to chat, but more urban white-collar workers, rich women, rich women and strong women. The age ranges from 28 to 45.
From the good families I met, female teachers 17, accounting for 24%. Nowadays, female teachers are an army of good netizens, because more broadband is installed in schools and teachers' cultural quality is higher. They often go online to relieve boredom after work, and of course they have become everyone's prey. Female accountant 13, accounting for 18%. Now that accounting is computerized, female accountants can generally access the Internet. There are 9 female managers or senior executives, accounting for 13%. Now the company's top managers have their own dedicated computers, which provide them with material conditions for chatting. There are 65,438+065,438+0 rich women at home, accounting for 65,438+05%. Generally, rich women under 40 are addicted to the Internet at home if they don't like gambling and entertainment. Because their husbands generally care about them, they are also the main force out of the wall. There are 7 female civil servants, accounting for 10%, including industry and commerce, taxation, politics and law, general affairs and other departments. These women are also the main internet users, but they are very cautious when they go out of the wall. There are 7 female doctors and nurses, accounting for 10%. Their physiological needs for women are very clear, and they are not satisfied at home, so they are easy to cheat. There are 3 saleswomen, accounting for 4%, especially those in some high-end shopping malls, who are more likely to go out of the wall after being tempted and stimulated by materials; The other five people, including three female college students and two salesmen of foreign trade companies. There may be some omissions, I can't remember clearly.
Let's analyze the age distribution of good people who go out of the wall (taking my bubble as an example): 6 people under the age of 28, accounting for 8%; 28-35 years old, 43, accounting for 60%; 35-40 years old, 17, accounting for 24%; 40-45 years old, 4, accounting for 5%; Over 45 years old, 2, accounting for 2%. The three most dangerous ages for women to go out of the wall are 28, 32 and 38.
Fourth, it is easy to push the wall down, which can be seen from the family status of everyone.
Chatting with a good family to a certain depth will generally know some of her family situation. If we pay attention, we can find that a good family with the following conditions is easy to cheat:
1, a woman who is dissatisfied with her husband's feelings and can't get her husband's care and understanding.
2. Women who are dissatisfied with the sexual life of husband and wife will also seek compensation through an affair.
3. Women who are having an affair among their parents, friends and colleagues.
4. Couples gather fewer and fewer women.
5. Women who pursue romance and seek novelty and excitement.
6. Women with rich experience in premarital sex. Experts found that premarital sex is closely related to extramarital affairs. Usually, the more sexual experiences before marriage, the higher the probability of cheating after marriage.
7.30-40-year-old middle-aged women, that is, women who have been married for 2-3 years, 10 years or so.
If we find that one of the good people chatting with us is consistent, it is a suspected case, and more than two can be diagnosed. As long as we work hard, she will become your woman sooner or later.
Fifth, look at the wall ratio from the education level of a good family.
People with good network communication must have at least a certain cultural level to type and chat, so there are more women with general knowledge. Among the good families I attended, there are 23 with high school education (including technical secondary schools and vocational high schools), accounting for 32%; 44 people with college or undergraduate education, accounting for 60%; There are 5 graduate students and above, accounting for 7%. As you can see, college and undergraduate degrees are the main force to become a good teacher.