Brother Hai’s heartfelt words... bless you
Life is indeed not easy. When I was young, I had to listen to my parents. When I went to school, I listened to my teachers. When I got married, I listened to my wife. You should listen to the doctor, but you should also listen to your children when they are older. Even if you die, I still ask you to protect them from promotion and wealth. If you can't do that, you may be dug out and buried!
I visit the graves on the first day of the first lunar month every year. My family’s ancestral home is Wuqiang County, Hebei Province. The custom there is to worship ancestors on the first day of the lunar month and pray for the ancestors to bless them with good weather and good luck. Most people in the Northeast are from Shandong. On New Year's Eve, they go to the graves to invite their ancestors to go home and play. They find a wooden stick with thick wrists on the left and right sides of the cemetery and put it on their shoulders. As they walk, they shout, "I'm going home for the New Year." "Even after the New Year, I'm still carrying the stick and sending it back. Different places have different situations, and they all pray for peace, blessings, success, and making a lot of money. Regardless of whether it works or not, it is passed down from generation to generation. I hope that the ancestors who have passed away can know something about it and maybe help them.
In fact, each person’s habits, personality, temperament and vision determine a person’s future. I have heard a saying; success requires three steps, 1. Persistence 2. Shamelessness 3. Persistence without shame. Most people sneered and smiled knowingly after hearing it. They calmed down and thought about it, but they were full of philosophy. Sometimes success is just a little bit close, but if you persist a little longer, it will make a world of difference. And when things go wrong for some people, they don't look for the reasons within themselves, but go to fortune telling and Feng Shui to use external reasons to shirk their own problems. "To forge iron, you need to be strong yourself, there is no need to raise the whip and work hard." There is no need to tell fortunes today, move graves tomorrow, and amen the day after tomorrow. Let the deceased relatives turn into dust quietly and return to reincarnation. Don't disturb the ancestors' clear dreams! Look for the reasons within yourself. Only when you find the causes will you know how to deal with the effects!
Brother Hai is in his heart,
The relatives who passed away are buried in the ground,
Come to remember them during the Qingming Festival.
There are always more solutions than difficulties,
Please don’t take it to heart.
To strike, you need to be hard-working.
Don’t let your thoughts slip.
It disturbs the ancestors’ dreams of reincarnation.
Everything is troublesome and troublesome!
2021.11.7. Night