Will the old man really suppress the luck of his son and daughter-in-law for three years after his death?
The origin of this statement is mainly in the funeral culture of ancient China. When a family member dies, especially the elders, the descendants will show filial piety for three years, and generally will not go out for a long time during the period of filial piety, hold happy events, etc ...... So some people will feel that their fortune is declining little by little.
So will the death of an old man really depress the luck of children?
Whether the old man's death will suppress his children's luck can be divided into two aspects. In terms of numerology, it depends on whether the five elements represented by the old man who died hit XiShen or were jealous of gods.
For example, when someone's father dies, fortune stars are used to represent his father in numerology. If this person hits fortune stars as a god, he will be unlucky for a while after his father dies.
On the other hand, if he is a wealthy star, there will be no unlucky situation, and it may be smoother. Mother is represented by Indian stars, and the truth of good or ill luck is the same as that of father.
From the perspective of geomantic omen, if the children don't do a good job of geomantic omen in the grave of the old man after his death, it will not stop the decline for three years, and it is possible to decline for ten or eight years or keep declining. Filial piety takes three years, during which no happy events can be held and couplets can not be posted during the Spring Festival. Times are different, and the way and time of filial piety are different. It should be decided according to one's own actual situation. For example, the shortest time is to pass the round grave (three days from the date of funeral), or three periods (21 days), or a hundred days, and so on. We can't generalize. Besides, what is filial piety in the true sense is to turn grief into strength, live a strong life, and make the living happy.