Eight things that engaged women forbid men to bring.

Engagement is also a very important ceremony, mainly to inform parents, relatives and friends of both parties that they are going to get married soon and hold the wedding another day. Therefore, it is necessary to choose an auspicious day for engagement, which will also affect the feng shui problem between husband and wife. So what are the taboos of the engaged woman and the eight things that the man carries with him? Let's take a look at marriage feng shui.

Taboo of engaged women

First, traditional taboos

If there is a link of ancestor worship when you are engaged, you need to pay attention to your personal behavior and attitude and follow the customs and habits of the man's family. Don't give the impression of arrogance and rudeness. And you can't step on the threshold when you are engaged, and you can't say "goodbye" after the engagement party, otherwise it means bad luck.

Second, give a man a gift.

When engaged, the man will bring gifts to the door, both from his parents and souvenirs belonging to the couple such as rings. At this time, the woman can't let the man go home empty-handed, but should give him a gift. Common engagement gifts are watches and suits. Watches have a long-lasting meaning, while suits are worn when you get married.

Third, respect the opinions of parents.

When parents start to discuss marriage, both men and women can avoid or listen appropriately, but they should interrupt less and respect their parents' opinions as much as possible; If you have any objections, you should also discuss with your parents, and you must not be angry or quarrel; If parents can't reach an agreement on some issues, or even quarrel, then both men and women should play the role of "mediators", don't make things worse, and try their best to reconcile and solve practical problems.

Eight things brought by a man's proposal

Cigarettes: For parents-in-law with good face and good taste, it is natural to choose big-name cigarettes, but don't pursue expensive cigarettes too much. You need to choose cigarettes that have a good reputation and are familiar with your father-in-law.

Wine: Choose wine suitable for in-laws, which in-laws usually drink, like or are beneficial to the health of middle-aged and elderly people.

Moon cake: Ask the other half first if the in-laws have a history of diabetes. If so, be sure to look at the ingredients when buying. It is best not to choose mooncakes with sugar and high fat.

Ham: Generally speaking, it is better to have more lean meat and tender meat. Secondly, it smells better, and it is better to pierce the meat with thin things and draw it out with rich fragrance.

Black dates: suitable for father-in-law to soak wine, but also suitable for mother-in-law to regulate herself, which is simply comprehensive.

Dried longan: Dried longan has a certain dietotherapy effect, which is suitable for spleen deficiency, insomnia, forgetfulness, palpitation, fatigue and other symptoms, as well as the effect of nourishing blood and caring skin.

Live Goose: The hairy-footed son-in-law of the older generation will come to give gifts, and there must be a big white goose on his shoulder. The Great White Goose actually symbolizes the husband's lifelong loyalty to his wife. The great white goose will only have one spouse in its life, which is a representative of loyalty.

Turtle: Turtle has high medicinal and dietetic value and powerful blood purification function, which is very beneficial to patients with hypertension and coronary heart disease.

In addition, the customs and habits of each place are different, so besides preparing basic things, we should also pay attention to whether there are necessary things in local customs and habits.