It is the best feng shui for a family to let children learn to love each other.
Brush a warm video early.
In Changzhou, Jiangsu, my sister was riding a tricycle happily in the house and suddenly fell to the ground. The frightened little girl cried.
At this time, the 2-year-old brother rushed to comfort, hugged his sister, gently touched her head with his little hand and kissed her forehead affectionately.
Looking at the picture of brother and sister hugging together, I can't help feeling: children love each other, how happy parents should be and how happy this family should be!
I suddenly remembered the lovely and sweet little girl I saw yesterday.
The 2-year-old girl shook her body like a little penguin, skillfully moved the stool to the door, put it away, and arranged her shoes for her brother to wear.
After breakfast, my brother sat on the stool and put on his shoes. My sister picked up the cup and put it in my brother's schoolbag. She also put in apples and zipped them up.
I turned and ran to the sofa, picked up my brother's school uniform and handed it to him. I stood on tiptoe to open the door for my brother, and then stood at the door to say goodbye, not forgetting to tell my brother to go home early.
After seeing my brother off, my sister turned around, took a long breath and shrugged her shoulders wittily.
The little girl, like a little angel, completely captured everyone's heart.
Nowadays, many families choose to have only one child. On the one hand, the financial burden is small, on the other hand, there is no need to worry so much.
Another important reason why many people don't want to have a second or third child is that they are afraid that the boss can't accept it and that the children can't get along. There will always be a child who feels unloved and has serious psychological problems.
If all the children in the family are as affectionate and touching as the brother and sister in the video, then parents will reduce a lot of unnecessary worries and be more willing to have one more child.
The love between children is the best feng shui for a family.
I went to a friend's house the other day. It's been a long time. My friend dragged me to gossip, and I forgot about the second baby who was playing at her house.
When I turned around, the baby playing on the sofa disappeared. While she was looking for it, her eldest son, who was studying, came out and said:
"I sleep in my room. You two were talking so hard just now that you didn't see him sleeping on the sofa. I was afraid that he would catch cold, so I gave him my bed. "
My friend sat down safely and continued to chat with me, and the topic naturally came to the child.
She said that although the eldest son is always cold and aloof, he actually loves his younger brother in his heart and his younger brother is very dependent on him.
My friend's husband works in other places, and her in-laws are old, so they can't help with the children. Every time the eldest son comes home from school, the younger brother always comes to hug him. After he finishes his homework, he will take the initiative to take care of his brother.
Try the water temperature, make milk powder, change diapers, and put me to sleep ... My 12-year-old brother seems to have nothing he can't do. He is a warm person, careful and patient.
Once I went to the supermarket, my friend put my penis in the shopping cart and turned to buy fruit.
The second child was naughty. The shopping cart suddenly overturned and he fell face down. At the critical moment, the younger brother who was shopping quickly turned around and ran to catch his younger brother while shouting.
But it was too late, and my brother fell to the ground with blood all over his head and face. The younger brother who arrived was also sitting on the ground, and his wrist was a little hurt.
My friend said that she was really scared at that time, but fortunately, Bauer's injury was not as serious as it looked, and the blue on his face slowly recovered. She was even more moved by her brother's reaction to his brother when he was in danger, and felt that even if she was gone, the two brothers would still love each other.
After listening, I was deeply moved and my eyes were unconsciously moist.
It is a deep love for my brother and the greatest comfort to my parents to stand up when I am in danger.
Compared with whether children can become talents in the future and whether they can be rich in life, parents are most afraid that they will die one day and their children will become each other's only relatives in this world, but they will turn against each other because of various interests, and brothers and sisters will "kill each other".
Brothers and sisters must support a loving family. Love breeds love, and love will last.
Children love each other, which is the greatest blessing of parents' life.
I remembered the 20 19: 18-year-old brother who stabbed his 8-year-old brother while he was sleeping. When his parents called his brother to go to school, he saw the child lying in a pool of blood and collapsed to the ground.
The two brothers often have disputes at ordinary times, and their parents' love is always tilted towards their younger brother. Work pressure and long-term patience eventually led to his emotional imbalance and cruelly deprived his younger brother of his life.
As a result, an originally complete family is fragmented.
Such a tragedy is what countless people don't want to see. As parents, what we can do is to take a warning and avoid such a disaster.
1, reading the truth behind children's behavior
My brother fed three screws to his 37-day-old brother, which made him turn purple and cry. Fortunately, my mother found out in time and sent him to the hospital for treatment to avoid a tragedy.
All questions about children can be found in parents. Behind all the boss's actions are hidden truths that parents have never noticed.
Instead of criticizing children blindly and teaching them to care for young children, it is better to squat down and have a heart-to-heart communication with them to understand their true feelings and give them the warmth they need.
2. Love for children should be measured.
With the second child, my sister-in-law is always afraid that the boss will be unhappy and will defend the boss everywhere.
Delicious food is secretly left to her, and my sister-in-law can satisfy whatever she wants. In the long run, the bad habit that the second child is not polluted is all occupied by the boss.
Sister-in-law said that what she read in the book is that if she has a second child, she should love the boss more, otherwise the boss will have shortcomings when he grows up.
The truth is true, but everything must be measured. We can't treat children well without principles and boundaries, and regard love as a kind of compensation. The child's psychological grasp of parents is not conducive to her growth.
Such a result will only be the overflow of one child's love, and the lack of love of another child will always be in an unbalanced cycle.
Let the two children bathe in the same love, they will walk hand in hand in friendship, and the home will be full of laughter.
3. Learn to give the boss the initiative.
When Sun Li is pregnant with a second child, she will ask her brother to help her name her sister and let her brother participate in the process of taking care of her sister.
At home, they always praise their elder brother in front of their elder sister and ask her to follow his example. The younger brother thinks that his family values him, but he loves his sister more.
Professor Li Meijin once said: "When there is a dispute between the big one and the small one, parents can give the items to the boss and let the boss decide whether to give them to the small one."
In this process, the boss will feel the respect and care of his parents and have a strong sense of responsibility, and then set an example and naturally take care of his younger brothers and sisters.
Children are born with vanity and are eager to be recognized by others.
Parents give the boss a full sense of identity, let him decide whether to share his toys or food with his younger brother or sister, and then parents give their children appropriate and effective feedback, and the children will better accept new family members.
Children live in harmony, and the home will get better and better.
Think of Cao Zhi's seven-step poem;
The deepest bond in the world is affection, which is the most precious emotion given to everyone by God and the most reassuring pure land in life.
Brotherhood is the most precious wealth left by our parents, and it is also the continuation of their love.
Parents have a good starting point for having more children, and they all hope that their children will have the closest relatives around them in the future. When life encounters difficulties, there are still people in the world who help them selflessly.
Only love can breed love. Parents go through thick and thin and give equal love to each child, so that the child's heart will be full, love will be virtuous and the home will be warmer.
May all parents in the world be only children, and may all children in the world greet the future with love.
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