It cost nearly 65,438+million to protect the fetus, stayed in hospital for 4 times and saw the world.
When I was three months pregnant, I began to have frequent contractions. Generally speaking, normal pregnant women begin to have contractions in the third trimester.
I think my first child has a history of premature birth, so every time I go to the hospital, I repeatedly emphasize to the doctor that I am having contractions and I am premature. The doctor checked all the indicators for me, and everything was normal. In particular, the most important indicator, the length of cervical canal, also shows that there is still 38 mm Finally, the doctor said that I was just too nervous and let me relax.
After the Chinese New Year, when I return to Guangzhou from my hometown in Ouba, my contractions will be more frequent. Every two or three steps, my abdomen will be as hard as basketball and I can't move at all. But even so, I still insist on taking a walk in the community after dinner every day. It usually takes only ten minutes, and I may need nearly an hour.
More than six months later, during the prenatal examination, I told the doctor my concerns again. The doctor asked me to check the length of the cervical canal again, and the result showed that it was only 25 mm
In other words, the cervical canal was shortened from 38mm to 25 mm in just one month.
What is this concept?
When normal pregnant women are about to give birth in the third trimester, the cervical canal will gradually become shorter. Generally speaking, the pain of giving birth is like breaking 12 ribs, which is actually the process of the disappearance of the cervical canal and the opening of the cervix.
This means that if this continues, my cervix will open completely soon and the baby will be born directly. I'm only six months old, and the baby is likely to be born in seven months. It may be difficult to survive.
25mm is the critical value, and the doctor immediately issued a hospitalization form for me, saying that the situation was urgent and asked me to report my nucleic acid results as soon as they came out.
I changed from an ordinary physical examination to an emergency patient, with a puzzled face.
Because of the epidemic situation, only one accompanying family member was allowed in the inpatient department, and only allowed to enter and leave, and they all came in with nucleic acid results. However, Ouba wanted to start a business and could not accompany him all night, so I packed my things and moved in alone.
After hospitalization, the doctor in charge came to discuss the treatment plan with me. For me who need to protect the fetus, I need 24-hour continuous infusion and anti-abortion drugs.
There are two drugs for me to choose from. One is cheap and can be included in medical insurance. It seems to be called ritodrine hydrochloride, but the side effect is palpitation, which is not good for the development of the child's brain and heart. In short, many of them are bad.
The other is self-funded and has no side effects. The only drawback is that it is expensive. It's called "Atosiban", which claims to be Emma in the anti-abortion medicine.
How expensive is this medicine?
A 5ml infusion bag, the unit price is 1200 yuan, and a bag of 100ml infusion bag is injected with 2 atroxiban. Then, if this package is calculated according to the drip rate of 16ml/h, a package of 100ml can only be played for about 6 hours, and 1 day requires four packages, which means that if you stay in hospital for one day, it will cost about 1 10,000 yuan, not including other expenses.
When the doctor finished, he asked me how to decide.
What else have you decided?
Cheap ones have many side effects. Do I have a choice?
It's not a question of saving money, but I don't want my children to take risks at all.
I don't want to spend the rest of my life running around for my children's health, so play atosiban!
Therefore, two arms, one is Atosiban, and the other is magnesium sulfate (also a fetal medicine), which is infused 24 hours a day. Atosiban was very good, and my contractions were quickly suppressed to several times. When taking magnesium sulfate, the nurse will ask you to drink more water and urinate more to record the urine volume and prevent magnesium sulfate poisoning, but its side effects are obvious. As soon as I entered, I had a fever, trembling hands and a dry throat. In summer, the air conditioner doesn't work, but the clothes are wet and you can't take a shower.
The worst thing is the problem of going to the toilet. There are two machines on each side. It's inconvenient for me to be alone. Fortunately, there are nurses in the hospital. I only accept 30 yuan one day. I just need to push the machine to the toilet or get me a meal or something.
It's fine during the day. Calling my aunt in the toilet at night requires her to go in and out of the room frequently (she serves multiple patients alone). It's really embarrassing to disturb other people who are resting.
But magnesium sulfate also requires me to drink more water and go to the toilet more. In addition, I have been urinating frequently during pregnancy, and I have to go to the toilet every ten minutes when I am basically awake. Really helpless, so try to hold it for a long time at night, which is really bad. Even if everyone is asleep, I can only crustily skin of head and call someone. ...
On the one hand, it is all kinds of physical discomfort, on the other hand, the environment is too terrible. Although the hospital I live in is top three, the hospitalization conditions are simple. There is no single room for three people (no money), the air conditioner is on and off, and there are many mosquitoes (I really hate mosquitoes).
The most important thing is that pregnant women and parturients are in the same room, that is, you may listen to other people's groans of pain before labor all night, or children cry one after another.
The key is that there is no wifi, and the 4G network is intermittent. Even if you want to listen to music and watch TV to kill time, it's hard.
So a few days before each hospitalization, I basically don't sleep, and I can't sleep at all.
What is more painful is that I finally fell asleep. At/kloc-0 o'clock in the morning, the nurse suddenly came in to wake you up and told you, "It's time to spank you!" "
In addition to 24-hour infusion and oral drugs, there are spanking drugs in anti-abortion drugs, one is progesterone, and the most important one is dexamethasone, which is also called lung-promoting needle to help fetal lung development. This is because many premature babies are difficult to survive at birth, and because pulmonary hypoplasia requires a ventilator. This kind of needle has a high cost performance during pregnancy, and the price of a needle is less than 100 yuan. If you are born to beat a child, the price of one is said to be seven or eight thousand (not verified).
Therefore, the lung-promoting needle is basically necessary to protect the fetus, but this medicine is very, very painful ... when the needle goes down, the leg still hurts for more than 20 minutes While the nurse was playing, I wiped my tears with a tissue.
I can't help it Who told me I was super sensitive to pain? Fortunately, this medicine is only used four times in a course of treatment, not many times.
Basic hospitalization is like this every day: infusion, taking medicine, buttock needle, listening to fetal heart every 4 or 6 hours, doctor's rounds, and enduring environmental noise.
Although the conditions are poor, the doctors and nurses in the hospital are very patient and gentle.
The doctor knew that I was taking atosiban, and that this medicine should not be taken by e-mart. So the initial dripping speed is 8ml/h, so a pack can last a little longer, but the dripping speed of 8ml can't inhibit my contractions at all. Later, it was adjusted to 12ml, and it was adjusted to 8ml after the contractions were suppressed.
However, after severe uterine contraction, the dropping speed of 12ml is useless at all and must be adjusted to 16ml.
At first, I thought it was a doctor's treatment plan to adjust the speed repeatedly, but later I learned that it was to save me money.
So I quickly told the doctor, don't adjust it, what kind of speed is best for me (because I found that every time I adjust it repeatedly, I need a higher speed to suppress it, which is more expensive).
Later, when I stabilized, the speed was always fixed at 8 ml/h.
Every time a bag is dropped, when there is a little left in the infusion tube, the nurse will try to clean it, because as we all know, this medicine is very expensive, and every drop is reluctant to waste.
After staying for about seven or eight days, the cervical canal recovered to 3 1mm at the time of reexamination. I packed my things and left the hospital.
So happy ~
After returning home, I basically stayed in bed except for washing, eating and going to the toilet.
After a week's reexamination, the cervical canal became 27mm again. The doctor told me not to drop it to 25mm, not because I didn't think it would be healthy without health.
Sure enough, I was hospitalized again, and it was still a familiar formula and a familiar taste. Atosiban is fighting, magnesium sulfate is fighting, butt needle is fighting, and safety film is eating. ...
I will not elaborate on the various processes in the middle. Anyway, I stayed together four times when I gave birth. I never thought that I would go to the hospital to have a second child four times.
Nurses and nurses are all my old acquaintances. When they see me, they are all "Ah, why are you here again".
When other patients are worried about whether to hit Atosiban, the doctor will ask the patient to come to me and say, "The one in XX bed is hitting Atosiban, you can ask her."
Fortunately, although Atosiban is expensive, if the length of cervical canal is restored, the doctor will stop infusion.
Therefore, despite repeated hospitalization and 24-hour infusion, the drip rate is not high, and it has been controlled at around 654.38+ 10,000, which is already fortunate.
After hospitalization, it was found that there were many people who had to be hospitalized for various reasons, including pregnant, broken water, labor, hyperglycemia and hypertension. Only in this way will you know how happy you are to be able to spend your pregnancy at home smoothly.
Many of them protect the fetus because the cervical canal is too short.
There are three people in a ward. Although noisy, it has the advantage that some people chat together to kill time. After all, neither of us is happy-until the end of time. When you meet someone who is also protecting the fetus in the same ward, cheer each other up and stick to it, you can protect one more day.
And we can often hear all kinds of news from nurses' aunts, "bed X was born last night, only 32 weeks, and the baby was born only three pounds", "I was hospitalized again in the morning, and water broke in 34 weeks" ...
During the whole hospitalization, I was able to get a glimpse of all kinds of life in that small ward. Say two things that impressed me particularly.
I forgot when I was in hospital, and a pregnant woman was sent to the clinic. She is very silent, and has been silent. I was nearby and didn't dare to ask. I heard the doctor explain that my water broke. The tone of the patient's phone and voice is full of forbearing sobs. The doctor came to explain to her and prepared herself for a day or two before going to the delivery room. I think this is the worst. Forgive me for being really a person who can't comfort people. I don't know what to say. I think keeping silent is the best way.
It seems that after a day, her mood recovered and she took the initiative to chat with me. I started chatting with her. It turns out that I am from Hubei like me, and my fellow villagers are full of tears when they meet.
She is also a second child, leaving the first child for more than ten years. After pregnancy, the whole family is very happy, and they are also starting their own businesses. They feel that they are in good health, so they are usually busy.
In a fierce argument with a client, I was so emotional that I cut off the water without warning.
And she is only a fetus of 20 weeks and 5 months. The earliest surviving fetus in China seems to be 22 weeks.
In despair, she gave birth to a baby boy (one is a girl), and her mother-in-law came to take care of her and secretly cried.
I don't know the details in the middle. Anyway, I got to know her later. She told me that she had been regretting it. Why didn't anyone tell her to check the length of cervical canal? If you check it four months ago, you may find that the length of the cervical canal is shortening, so you can come to the hospital early to have a baby.
Here is also a special reminder to friends who are pregnant or in the early pregnancy. It is best to check the "length of cervical canal" for prenatal examination. This check-up is not a compulsory check-up for prenatal examination, so in general, if you don't have any special symptoms, the doctor won't check your health.
And I, a fellow villager friend, didn't check because I didn't respond obviously. (I checked myself because of frequent contractions)
There is also a clinical patient, in the process of finger opening, suddenly placental abruption, and quickly pulled over for caesarean section, and the mother and son were safe. When the doctor pushed her into the ward, he kept sighing, "You are so lucky, you know? This is not the result later, but fortunately it happened in the hospital. "
Her husband takes care of the baby, but the new mother is guiding the whole process. Generally, people who have a caesarean section are not very good at talking, but she has been lying down and talking, teaching her husband how to soak milk powder, how to take temperature, how to hold the baby, and where everything is.
After a day, she got up and walked, her husband went out to smoke from time to time, and then the children were left unattended. She hung up the analgesic pump and held the baby. I was completely moved.
One night, everyone fell asleep. I can't sleep, but I keep my eyes closed. Then I heard the husband and wife talking softly in the next bed, probably thinking that everyone was asleep.
I heard her husband ask her: Why do you want 10000 when others only spend 8000 on caesarean section? Why is it more expensive for you to have children?
I thought his daughter-in-law would come back angry, but nothing happened.
His daughter-in-law asked him: how do you know that others only spent 8000?
He: I didn't know until I chatted with other patients' families.
She: Oh.
They didn't know that this short conversation turned my heart upside down when I slept next door. I wanted to jump up and hit someone.
Your wife's placenta was removed early, brother. Maybe it's a matter of one corpse and two lives Now, you only need 10 thousand yuan to ensure the safety of your wife and her son, and the child doesn't have to go to the incubator. What kind of bike do you want? Why don't you care more about your wife's health? Oh, my God. ...
These were all my inner activities at that time, but none of my business. As someone else, I can only turn over silently and digest my emotions.
Of course, there is a wife screaming in pain in the delivery room, not to mention the husband is king outside. Moreover, the date of caesarean section was originally set, but it had to be rescheduled because my mother-in-law picked a good day, and so on.
At that time, another doctor who was in charge of me pushed me to a wheelchair for reexamination. We talked a lot about these things along the way. She said that she had seen too much worldly wisdom in obstetrics, which made fear of marriage afraid of getting pregnant every day.
As she spoke, she suddenly asked me, "In fact, I have always been very curious, and I especially want to ask you, did you and your husband just get married?"
Me: Huh? I am Dabao, and I am over 4 years old.
She: No, is this your second marriage?
There is a black question mark on my face: why do you ask? My husband and I got married on 16, and it has always been him.
She: Hahaha, because I have seen too many husbands who have been married for several years and are indifferent to their daughter-in-law. And your husband takes good care of you. You two are so loving and sweet. I thought you just got married.
That's it, that's it ... I suddenly remembered that when I was hospitalized several times later, the doctor asked me some questions, and Oba was very enthusiastic and positive. Then he was a humorous person, and the doctor was amused by his words.
Before I played atosiban, the doctor was very worried about my financial problems. Every time I make rounds, I always want to change to a cheaper medicine. When Dayu visited me, he made it clear to the doctor that "I must use the best for my wife." Don't worry about the money, I will find a way. "
If Oba had been around during the injection, he would have said, "Easy, easy, my wife is afraid of pain."
So every time my attending doctor visits me, he says to me, "You should be good to your husband. Your husband really loves you. Don't do it again. Be obedient and have a good baby, ok? "
I always nod like a chicken: yes, yes, yes, doctor, you are right. I am also very kind to my husband. (Although I don't know why the doctor thinks I "have")
This is basically the whole process of fetal protection.
When the bags of extremely expensive anti-abortion drugs hit me, I was grateful for countless times. I am glad that I have been working hard. I studied hard when I was a student, but I was lonely and hopeless in Guangzhou, but I didn't give up. I'm glad I gave everything and everything before. I'm glad that Oba and I have been working hard. Finally, in the face of multiple-choice questions about money and life, we are not forced to make a decision that makes us extremely painful.
I sincerely thank myself in the past.
I sincerely thank Oba who has always loved me.
(Limited to space, I will talk about having children later. Really super embarrassing, ah ah ...)
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