Realize the old yellow calendar
This will make people not take marriage seriously, get married if they want, get divorced if they want, get married casually, and there is no pressure to leave, so that marriage itself becomes less solemn. On the other hand, the revision will reduce suspicion, relieve stress and make marriage easier. Because marriage should not be promoted only for each other's property, and divorce should not be an act of maliciously dividing each other's property. Marriage really wants to be together, then divorce is really unbearable, and this is separation.
Marriage is complicated when money and real estate are involved. Consider whether the other person wants your money to get married. When I want to divorce, I have to delay or even divorce because of property disputes. Which view do you support? Square face personally recognizes the revised marriage law, and I also praise the simple school. No one stipulates that husband and wife must be tied together when they get married, which is unreasonable.
Of course, it is best to grow old together, but life is long. Sometimes, you are not sure whether your choice is correct or not, and what kind of variables will happen in the future. If the husband and wife are tied up and can't untie, it is mutual torture, and barely being together will only prolong the pain. I know that many people will think that low-cost and simple divorce will lead to more and more family breakups, because there are many examples of mutual suspicion leading to emotional breakups.
But to be honest, divorce always drags on for a long time, which is not good for both husband and wife. The divorce rate is not beautiful, far less important than personal happiness. I think there must be something fishy about relationships and marriages that can be defeated by these rules. Some people have ulterior motives and fish in troubled waters. It is precisely because of the existence of the marriage law that these people have nothing to hide.
The case of Zhou Chen may make many people have a new thinking. The new regulations may have advantages and disadvantages, but they will really let you see the true face of some people with ulterior motives, so that you can stop losses in time and avoid falling into the pit. Zhou Chen and Wang Kun were supposed to get married years later, and the marriage certificate has been received for more than a month, but she resolutely divorced, and the wedding was naturally cancelled because of the house and the bride price.
Maybe some people feel something when they listen. Women are always like this. They can't get married and fool around because they care about the house and the bride price. But what happened to Zhou Chen's family was not what everyone thought. Although the contradiction began with the house and the bride price, the reason was the brazen calculation of a Phoenix male family. Zhou Chenyi is a girl whose family condition is not particularly good. If she is very good, I'm afraid no man like Kun Wang will marry her.
Zhou Chen's family is moderate at best, but Zhou Chen's parents are very fond of this only precious daughter. They have attached great importance to her since childhood and tried their best to give her the best. They have always been rich in raising Zhou Chen.
Zhou Chen is actually fine. She knew that her parents were not easy, so she didn't play the coquetry and lived on her own. After work, she seldom asks her parents for help, but her parents are more concerned and always worry about her. Actually, for parents, Zhou Chen has nothing to worry about. She is very independent, can work hard, can support herself, and is quite filial. Compared with many girls now, Zhou Chen is an excellent girl.
But there is only one thing that Zhou Chen really worries his parents, and that is falling in love. Zhou Chen has a boyfriend from a poor family who talked about it in college. The boy's name is Kun Wang. They have always had a good relationship and have been together since graduation. Zhou Chen's parents didn't approve of the boy from the beginning, and they couldn't say that they were too poor to love the rich. They are just afraid that their daughter will be married to the man's family and life will be difficult. They hope that their daughter can choose a husband's family with acceptable family conditions and spend the rest of her life without worry. It is also a good intention.
Zhou Chen has been noncommittal about his parents' marriage. She thinks that feelings are the most important, followed by material things. Material can accumulate slowly, but feelings can't. If she doesn't get along with Kun Wang, that's it. Because of these breakups, she doesn't want to
Originally, Zhou Chen was young and still at school. Although his parents didn't agree, they didn't interfere much. They thought they might be separated in one place, and without their intervention, they might be finished directly. Unexpectedly, however, they have been together all the time. Later, Zhou Chen's parents figured it out and stopped interfering with her daughter's love.
But they are still very concerned about their daughter, afraid that her daughter will have a bad life in the future. Knowing that the man's family was poor and he couldn't afford a house, Zhou Chen's parents took precautions. In the name of Zhou Chen, they bought a pre-marital property for her, but in fact they provided a wedding room for Zhou Chen and Kun Wang in disguise.
To tell the truth, Zhou Chen's parents are enough. If the man can't afford a house, they will provide a house instead of fighting with the man's family. They are a reasonable family. If you meet a family of a man who knows how to repay kindness, you must be grateful and grateful in the future, but Wang is not.
When Wang Kun's family learned that the woman's family had bought a house, they were naturally happy. They can marry a wife without buying a house. Where is this great thing? But they didn't appreciate it, perhaps because they thought Zhou Chenyi's family was more talkative and soft, suitable for making an issue of it, and they began to make trouble.
In fact, at that time, the two had already started to talk about marriage, and the bride price had been agreed. Zhou Chen's condition at home is not good, and he doesn't want much. He also asked for a bride price of 80,000 yuan, and Wang also agreed. The bride price is fixed, the house is fixed, and both parents agree. At this time, there are basically no obstacles. This marriage is a foregone conclusion, only the last step is needed. However, Wang Kun's family suddenly made a request, saying that they wanted to decorate their home and hoped that Zhou Chen's family could add Kun Wang's name to the property certificate.
"Anyway, the children are ready to get the license. After all, two children will live together in the future. After all, our family is also a boy. We want to save face. We can't always live in a girl's house. Our family has a decoration fund, even if it is a share. We are not greedy for the cheapness of your family. " Zhou Chen's parents didn't want to at first. After all, they bought the house with the money they had saved all their lives. How can you say that adding a name can add a name? But Zhou Chen is more open to encouraging parents.
"What their family said is not without reason. Boys always have to respect themselves. He will be uncomfortable if he lives in my house. If you bury hidden dangers, it will be even worse in the future. Besides, don't forget, this is my pre-marital property, and it is all proved. Just a name. Do you think they can really buy a house? You are too old-fashioned. You don't say that anymore.
Now add a name, just for peace of mind. Actually, it's no use. Don't worry, it won't touch your property. Besides, their home is willing to decorate itself, but what moths can really produce? It's okay. Don't worry. "Zhou Chen escape brain is quite clear, the analysis is also very reasonable. Later, my parents agreed, but I didn't expect a moth to come out of the man's house.
After the house was renovated, Zhou Chen and Wang Kun got the certificate and added the man's name, but the other party was stuck in the bride price and was not prepared to give it. This reason is very reasonable. "You see, our home decoration has already cost150,000. I don't think this bride price is necessary. After all, the money has been spent in your home. There is no need to give money again, is there? "
Zhou Chen disagreed: "The decoration is your own, and the bride price is not much. It was also decided at the beginning It's not about money, it's about honesty, right? Why didn't you say something before the renovation? You have to wait until the renovation is completed and everything is settled. Your family's intentions have forced me to think more. "
It turns out that Zhou Chen's future mother-in-law and Zhou Chen said all these things. I thought Zhou Chen would look at the elder's face and would not say anything, but now looking at Zhou Chen's aggressive appearance, my mother-in-law can't believe it. "You got a marriage certificate with my son, and my son also added a room. Why do you have to do this bride price? Your family is not short of money, and it is already difficult for my family to have one more point. How can you be inconsiderate of this girl? If you must be so arrogant, then I will tell you that you are already a member of my family and the house belongs to you and my son. You'd better know that. "
Zhou Chen smiled at her mother-in-law's words: "Oh? Me and your son's house? This is the first time I've heard of it. It's really fresh. This house belongs to my family from beginning to end, and it has nothing to do with yours. Adding a name is the same. Parents contribute, and there is a bank certificate to add the name, but it is only a matter of adding the name, which has nothing to do with the house. If you don't believe me, you can go back and find out for yourself.
Moreover, I think the marriage between our two families, or forget it, it doesn't matter if I get a license, I am myself, not whose family. ""Can you still get divorced? " "Yes, I just want a divorce. Why not? "My mother-in-law always thinks that Zhou Chen is bluffing, but Zhou Chen is serious. After returning, she told her parents about it and decided to divorce.
Zhou Chen's parents have always disapproved of the man's family. Even if you get the certificate, you will support Zhou Chen in the long run. Adding a name to the decoration thought that the woman would not give a bride price, but in the end, when Zhou Chen really wanted to divorce, the man was finally dumbfounded.
Divorce means that people and money are empty. The man's family is unwilling to divorce and asks the woman's family to return the decoration money. But Zhou Chen said, "Are you willing, or are you going to smash the decoration? I don't care if you can move out, but I can't give you money. I have no obligation. If you don't want a divorce, go through the procedure. If you don't agree, we will go to court and see how people break it. "
Now the two sides are still making trouble and preparing to go through legal procedures, but I think it is clear now that the man's house is destined to be renovated at a discount, and this ending will not be unexpected.
Zhou Chen met a scheming man, but the family was not that smart. Counting, but missing the most important step. It's no big deal to add a name, and they can't divide the girl's premarital property.
If it had been two years earlier, maybe there was something to say about it. Nowadays, if the property before marriage is not jointly funded by the other party, it is nothing to add a name for the sake of beauty.
They want to use this as a threat and not give the bride price. In addition, they also think that Zhou Chen has obtained permission from Wang Kun, that is, his family, so he will never fall out with his family and lose both sides. But the reality is that not only the marriage law, but also women in today's new era, their thoughts are not like before, and they are no longer bound by this paper for a long time.
Zhou Chen's bold personality is the key to make men lose the game. Because some girls, who occupy one of them, add the other's name to the house and get a marriage certificate, considering the cost and loss, they will hesitate whether they are willing to negotiate with the man or simply agree with his family.
But Zhou Chen didn't. After seeing the man's step-by-step calculation, she hit the man in the face mercilessly, making him rich and human. Zhou Chen is a loss, but the loss of the man's family is really great. I can't say that Zhou Chen was right, but it was the man's family that made the mistake first.
The decoration was not requested by the woman, but he was willing. He can't take it back, and he doesn't want to leave it with the woman's family. It was smashed, but it was impossible. The man should understand the risk of this game from an early age. Play carefully, but too smart, the money for decoration can only be used as a lesson to remind them not to be stupid again when they get married next time. This money is even worth spending.