What's the use of the yellow calendar and scissors that bridesmaids should bring during festivals?
It has two major missions.
Mission 1: personal butler
1, stay close to the newcomers and accompany them at any time. Especially when the couple is on the stage, the best man and bridesmaid must wait at one side of the stage.
2. Always pay attention to the image of new people. For example, help the couple simply tidy up the hem of the suit, the skirt of the dress and the veil, and call the makeup artist for support if necessary.
3. Pay close attention to the needs of newcomers. The most important thing for the best man and the bridesmaid is to have a "wink": it is the best man's job to open the door, pick up the things in the couple's hands and help them maintain good manners; The newcomer is thirsty and hands over the water; When you see the couple in tears, please hand in the tissue in time. Many couples forget to rest and be hungry because they are busy or excited, so the best man and bridesmaid must remember to remind them.
4. Be familiar with the personal belongings and staff arrangements of the newcomers, so as to better help them coordinate and share. In particular, bridesmaids should be familiar with the shoes, underwear and accessories needed for the bride's dress, and take care of the changed ones.
Qualified bridesmaids and groomsmen should also try their best to ease and appease the tension of the couple.
Mission 2: Newcomer Representative
1, Wedding: Bridesmaids should try their best to groom and don't let him take the bride away easily. Even the bride's handkerchief should read the bride's mind and try to let the bride enjoy the happiness and glory of marriage. The best man should "fight" for the groom with the bridesmaids and other sister groups to help the groom win a beautiful woman.
2. When welcoming guests: The bridesmaid's task is to greet the newcomers and pay attention to their appearance, while the best man and the best man must complete most of the reception work.
3. During the banquet: When someone encounters a problem and the bride is slightly embarrassed, the bridesmaid should step forward and do her best. Being around the bride is not the time to be shy. It is the best man's responsibility to help the groom stop drinking, and he can't shirk it.
4. During the ceremony: see off the witness, respect the parents and elders, and see off both parents.
5, making trouble in the bridal chamber: the best man should lead the guests to make trouble in the bridal chamber from the beginning. Don't get me wrong, the bridal chamber is very interesting, and the newcomers will have more face. If it is not successful, the best man will take the lead in presiding, grasp the scale after the start, and finally see the couple off as appropriate. Bridesmaids can trouble themselves, just don't forget to observe their words and deeds, stand up for the bride when necessary or try to divert everyone's attention.
Memo of bridesmaids and groomsmen
1. Sometimes bridesmaids will take the responsibility of keeping red envelopes. Please prepare a beautiful but large handbag in advance, and remember to give it to the designated financial supervisor or the parents of the couple before the ceremony, and ask them to take good care of it.
2. Remind the couple not to forget the ring, or keep the ring for the couple and make sure to give it to the designated person on the stage before the ceremony.
3, holding a ring pillow, whether it is the best man or the maid of honor to take this job, you must remember to pay attention to your position, so as not to become a "third party" in the photo, and then help the bride pick up the flowers and take off her gloves. If flower girl has a ring pillow, please ask the bridesmaid to take care of him or her.
4. The groomsman and bridesmaid convey the new couple's voice on the wedding day. Don't hesitate to find relevant staff in time, help newcomers convey their wishes to them, and let professionals provide services for newcomers. Never make a decision without authorization.
Of course, if you plan to hire a professional wedding planner, it doesn't matter whether the best man and bridesmaid have experience. In addition to arranging all the trivial matters in the wedding, the wedding planner will also guide and remind the best man and bridesmaid of their work, position and etiquette in the ceremony, and even arrange for the new secretary to perform some work of bridesmaids.