Read history?|?An ugly girl marries a noble husband, there is great beauty in the ugliness

Editor's note: This is Mr. Wei Qianli, the great numerologist of the Republic of China.

One year he attended the birthday of Wu Peifu, the great northern warlord.

About the faces of those noble ladies Interesting facts.

(Wu Peifu: Leader of the Zhili clique warlords during the Republic of China, first-level general of the Chinese National Revolutionary Army, official patrol envoy to Shandong and Henan, and commander-in-chief of the 14-province coalition against thieves. He also appeared in the American "Times" "The first Chinese person on the cover of the weekly magazine, called "Biggest man in China" by "Time" magazine)

Wu Peifu on "Time" magazine

At that time, the powerful people of the Wu family gathered

Write the following "experience report",

Today, it still has very reference significance.

Slightly deleted, compiled and shared as follows:

The so-called beauty in physiognomy and the so-called beauty in common eyes,

Although some of them are Same,

And the other one is completely opposite,

In other words, good-looking people may not necessarily have a good life.

For example, the beauty of a beautiful woman,

since ancient times, has been regarded as the most beautiful, "flesh as soft as cotton"

and "thousands of beauties";

But in terms of physiognomy, this is the most "obscene" female physiognomy.

So if you use beauty and ugliness in the eyes of ordinary people to determine nobleness and inferiority,

it would be a big mistake.

Of course, there are some similarities among them,

For example, being dignified, quiet, luxurious, bright, etc.

In terms of physiognomy, they are both beautiful and expensive.

As far as marriage is concerned,

We all seem to have a discovery:

Women occupy the status of wives,

The so-called "first wife",

are mostly not beautiful;

And those who occupy the position of concubines,

are also "side concubines"

Most of them are beautiful.

This is certainly related to human nature and the customs of the world: "Marrying a wife for virtue, marrying concubines for lust"

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But it is not only related to this,

"Beautiful women are unlucky" and "Romantic and immoral"

are also factors of women themselves.

Among concubines,

there are many women with "beautiful appearance",

but in the old times,

When you leave the brothel, you are surrounded by the world.

In fact, there were prostitutes first,

first there were street flowers and wallflowers,

and then there was the matter of looking for flowers and asking willows;

It is easy to understand that

a woman must first have the appearance of a prostitute and become a prostitute,

only then can she be chosen as a concubine.

Because prostitutes need beautiful appearance,

and men, especially men who take concubines,

also need beautiful appearance as the only condition ,

This creates the beauty of color,

It is the fact that being a concubine is a "low status".

Beauty in color and appearance is a cheap look, not a noble look.

This is not only true in the old times,

it is also true today in the new era.

Those who marry several times in their life, those who are not married but have multiple husbands,

Anyone who cannot be the first wife,

or who is the first wife but has an affair. ,

Aren’t they all commonplace among today’s movie and showgirl stars?

Their "beauty", "romance", "immorality" and "unfortunate fate", etc.,

Who says it is not connected with destiny?

On the contrary, we also seem to find that

Anyone who is a first wife,

or even a first-class wife,

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Most women are not "beautiful in appearance",

but women in "beautiful appearance".

Because physical beauty

is not visible to ordinary people,

so what is seen on the surface,

is mostly A woman who is not beautiful or has ordinary looks.

A few of our friends who study physiognomy,

discovered in Wu Peifu’s mansion that time,

In addition to "beautiful women often become prostitutes, there is beauty in beauty." In addition to "ugly",

also discovered the fact that "an ugly girl marries a noble man, and there is great beauty in the ugliness".

On that day we were in the inner living room of Wu Mansion

After looking at the faces of about forty rich ladies,

we also looked at about twenty dozen of us Later

they were designated as "first-class" wives and noble ministers,

and they discovered this truth.

After we saw their appearance,

when we retreated to the outside living room to do statistics,

we couldn’t help but notice something strange. Facts:

"Why are most of the rich ladies who came to Wu Mansion to celebrate their birthdays today?

They were prostitutes?

They will never be their husbands They are all only worthy of marrying prostitutes;

Then, where are their wives?"

So I sent Mr. Tan to ask for advice? That Director Zhang’s wife.

Mr. Tan was afraid of offending

Mrs. Zhang, who was also a prostitute,

asked tactfully:

"Today's female guest "Are all the ladies here?"

Unexpectedly, Mrs. Zhang replied in a low voice:

"Most of the ladies here are beautiful,

There is a group of ugly ladies in the back."

It turns out that there is a real so-called "inner living room" in the back.

It is the living room where Mrs. Wu Peifu only invites special female guests.

People in the Wu Mansion are called "Madam Hall",

because Wu Peifu's handsome wife is the first wife,

She usually attaches great importance to the status of the first wife,

So that day, all the first wives were entertained in this madam's hall,

and the non-first wives, those who were prostitutes,

were entertained in the inner living room,

Our unknown male guests were entertained in the outer living room.

Since we discovered that there is also a Madam’s Hall,

and the “Ugly Madam” is in it,

of course we cannot let it go. .

Fortunately, Mr. Tan also knows the Feng Shui of Yangzhai,

He asked a relative of former President Cao Kun to introduce him to Mrs. Shuai,

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The four of us all like to study Feng Shui.

I just saw the Feng Shui of the mansion and I was very proud of it.

I hope I can see the entrance halls of the whole house.

Please ask Mrs. Shuai to let us enter the Madam’s Hall for a look.

As soon as Madam Handsome heard that she was looking at the feng shui of our house, she said: "Okay, please do whatever you want"!

We were given special permission to go in.

We already knew in advance that

the "ugly lady" in Mrs. Zhang's mouth was a curse word,

because she herself was not The first wife,

So the first wife is given the word "ugly".

In the eyes of a prostitute like Madam (generally used to refer to a concubine), a eldest lady is either old or ugly; if not ugly, she is fierce;

She may also be old, ugly and fierce,

so she is collectively called the "ugly lady";

But she is actually the "beautiful lady".

As soon as Mr. Tan entered the inner living room,

he first said to the more than twenty people who were playing cards inside

"A Mrs. "Level" glanced a few times;

The purpose was to find one or two acquaintances,

so that she could say hello to them,

and then have the opportunity to contact and talk with them. Talk,

Sure enough, we found the wives of the two former chiefs.

The local bureaucracy in Beijing is very strong.

The lady is not called "Mrs." but "Mrs."

So Mr. Tan called out "Mrs. Liu" and "Mrs. Chen",

and immediately got on the inside line.

After introducing the three of us,

Then we went to the Madam’s Hall to stay.

In fact, Mrs. Wu Peifu only allowed us to enter the inner living room.

She was busy with her business, so she didn’t care about us.

Should we look at the feng shui of this house or the appearance of the ugly lady?

That day in Mrs. Wu Peifu’s private "Lady's Hall",

there were more than twenty women playing cards and sitting around.

Except for a few older ones,

we were able to find out their identities later,

There were twenty-four ***.

These twenty-four real ladies,

the average age is about forty-five and above,

Of course they are all "old" ladies,

The charm of the past is long gone.

In addition, most of their decorations are

"completely old-fashioned" rather than "modern",

obviously and The ladies in the parlor were quite different.

In terms of "beautiful appearance",

If the concubines in the living room can be rated as first-class,

then these ladies can barely be considered as The difference is not that big.

However, each of them comes from a scholarly generation,

or a family of meritorious officials (that is, a family of meritorious officials),

Or a lady from a famous family, with no trace of falling into the world of prostitution.

Each of them is also a married lady who spends time in the wedding room.

From the same to the end,

There is no "out of love" or " "Pipa's special tune" thing.

Of course, they look much more noble.

In the eyes of ordinary people,

there seem to be only two differences:

"In terms of status,

one is the eldest wife , one is the second wife;

In terms of appearance,

one is the ugly wife, and the other is the beautiful wife,

But in our view of physiognomy, But this is not the problem anymore.

There is an obvious difference between high and low and rich.

Among them are the wives of several ministers, provincial governors and military commanders. ,

They are all country women,

some of them are even illiterate,

but they have a noble appearance.

"There is beauty in ugliness", which makes you a noble person.

Of the twenty-four wives,

half of them are not beautiful in appearance, but

are also "dignified" in beauty.

The remaining half are indeed worthy of being called "ugly ladies":

Some of them have "starry" pockmarked faces;

Some They are both hunchbacked and crippled;

Some of them are completely ignorant village women.

However, they all have

looks that can be called the "great beauty" among the ugly.

For example, Mrs. Kan with a pouty face,

has a very bright nose and eyebrows,

who saw her ,

Everyone will focus on

her nose and between her eyebrows,

without paying attention to her pockmarked face,

That Mrs. Zhu with a hunchback and crutches,

If you listen to her voice next door

you will think that she is a very lovely woman.

The one who looks like a village woman,

mostly has three uniform courtyards and straight and bright facial features.

(The three courts refer to the upper, middle and lower courts in the face, often referring to the forehead, nose, cheeks, etc.)

This is their great beauty.

Throughout the history of China, there were many noble queens or wives of generals and prime ministers,

and there were many ugly ones.

I still often see ugly women

who prefer to marry rich men.

Summarize their most common advantages into three aspects:

One is that there is great beauty in ugliness,

Like The above situations;

The second type is inner beauty, which is "firmness" or "gentleness";

The third type is magnanimity and talent.

Regardless of men and women, especially women,

inner beauty is more important than outer beauty.

The more beautiful a woman is, the more inferior she is.

Writing the book in deep thought, I couldn’t help but sigh:

Youth is easy to pass away, and appearance is easy to grow old.

Only by cultivating both internal and external aspects is the right path.

External beauty means looking beautiful,

We often cannot control it ourselves;

But inner beauty means living a beautiful life,

But it is a direction we can work hard on.

God will not let down anyone

who is determined to change his destiny.