Give others a reason to respect you.

This happened to Huang Wei, who is known as the "father of Pleasant Goat", when he started his business tomorrow morning. The day just arrived after work, Huang Weiming suddenly stopped everyone and walked beside a subordinate. Seeing Huang Weiming's heavy expression, the other party stood up from his seat and looked at him blankly at a loss. At this moment, Huang Weiming looked around and said seriously, "As we all know, some time ago, I had a quarrel with a partner of the team because of the creation of new animation. He pointed out the problems in cartoons to me, but I didn't listen, so I argued with him. After the cartoon was put on the market, the benefits were not good precisely because the problems he pointed out were not corrected. The responsibility for this matter lies entirely with me, and I solemnly apologize to him! " Huang Weiming said, and bowed deeply to the subordinate, and the other party hurriedly reciprocated, and ran into Huang Weiming's forehead in a hurry. After a thump, the two men covered their heads and burst out laughing. Huang Weiming's courage to admit his mistake convinced his colleagues, and there was a storm of applause in the office.

Rousseau said, "Only mature people know how to bow their heads and apologize." Everyone makes mistakes, and a mature person can not only minimize the losses caused by mistakes, but also recover the losses with a sincere attitude. Huang Weiming has the courage to admit the wrong quality, and won the respect of his colleagues, thus forming a great cohesion for the whole team.

When the first snow in winter comes, a small town near the capital of Croatia becomes lively. A year ago, the little-known pianist Maxim once performed here, and agreed with the locals to perform again this year. In the past year, Maxim has become a famous piano player in Europe. He has rarely performed in Croatia, so whether he can come here again this year has become a hot topic in the streets.

one day, a large motorcade suddenly pulled into the town. When smiling Maxim gently shook off the snowflakes on his shoulders and greeted everyone with a smile, the crowd immediately broke into huge cheers. "Dear friends, I have come to fulfill my promise." Maxim said that, and asked his assistant to move the piano out. The first piano piece was played in the snowy street. When the melodious piano sound sounded slowly, people took to the streets one after another. At that moment, everyone forgot the cold in winter and listened to Maxim's piano music quietly on this big stage built by heaven and earth.

The news soon spread all over the country, especially when people learned that Maxim had abandoned the sky-high commercial performance to fulfill his promise. The largest newspaper in Croatia praised: "Maxim not only conquered the audience with music, but also touched everyone with his noble personality."

Keeping promises is a person's golden signboard. A person who values and resolutely practices his promises can often exude an invisible appeal and influence, which can make him unconsciously accumulate great appeal. Maxim won this great appeal for himself with his action of attaching importance to his promise, and he became a person respected and admired by the public, and his success was brighter and more lasting.

The night is getting deeper and deeper, and a middle-aged man is walking back and forth anxiously not far from Huang Zongxi's mansion with his hands behind his back. After a while, he severely bit his teeth and strode to Fu Huang.

Middle-aged people were the sworn enemies of Huang Zongxi's father in the ruling and opposition circles before his death, and they usually harmed Huang Zongxi. Now that the tables have turned, his son has been unjustly imprisoned. It just so happens that Huang Zongxi can talk, so he has to pull down his old face and ask for help. In order to save his son, middle-aged people have already made up their minds to hold back no matter how humiliating Huang Zongxi is. Unexpectedly, when Huang Zongxi saw him, he immediately saluted as a son and nephew, and the middle-aged man was surprised and hurriedly reciprocated. After listening to his story patiently, Huang Zongxi knew that the other son was really wronged and immediately ordered his family to prepare a sedan chair to go out. From beginning to end, Huang Zongxi didn't mention a word about the previous grievances.

A few days later, when the middle-aged people came to inquire about the news again, Huang Zongxi, who was tired and thin, smiled and told each other that his son would be released soon. The middle-aged man who is eager to love his son fell to his knees and burst into tears: "I admire you for not thinking about old evils!" " Huang Zongxi quickly helped each other up, and since then, the two have made up their differences and become best friends.

how big a mind a person has, how much he can do. Cai Yuanpei once said: "A broad mind can create a brilliant life." It is precisely because Huang Zongxi let bygones be bygones that he has won countless friends with his broad mind.

There is a proverb in Ukraine: People who make others respect them will become the most popular people in the world! Dare to admit your mistakes, keep your promises, be tolerant, and give others a reason to respect you. You will certainly win the respect of others and take your own life step by step.