Act young's Remedy of Childhood Shortcomings
Halfway through college, I found that for girls, the pursuit of intellectuality has been marked on the calendar, and act young is the top priority. It seems that in act young, it is not only as simple as following the trend, but also a sudden rush for act young to be cute. Although I have just adapted to this trend, I can't wait to jump into this wave. However, before act young, I have to find an explanation for us old women who are or will be disguised as minors, so that this immature dress can be justified.
What I want to say is that we are in act young to make up for our childhood. I still remember when I was a child, I counted the days and looked forward to the New Year. Not only for delicious food, fun and new clothes, but also because I am thinking about growing up quickly.
Growing up is a charming word for us when we were young. No matter from parents, teachers or other adults, we can vaguely perceive that the world is with them. They are small or even ignorant, but they can control a lot. Although we can't say what they were in control at that time, at least we can see that they were respected and could do what we wanted but couldn't. These alone are enough to fascinate us with "growing up". Therefore, we also want, hope and even long to grow up, so we have to learn from adults.
Learn to comb a regular bun at the back of your head, learn to wear simple and generous clothes, learn to walk, talk and laugh dignified ... In the voice of adults praising "this child can really see that he has grown up", we have grown up. And most of them understand their desire to go to college.
When we grow up, we enter the society with one foot, only to find that such growth is not what we wanted when we were young. We have stepped into greater rules and restrictions. What we can do and control seems to be even less. Compared with this, it is even sadder that we have squeezed carefree childhood and innocent days of coquetry for such growth. The feeling of being fooled.
Until one day, I saw a group of children running around like a small tornado, and laughter covered the whole alley. I was palpitation behind them for a long time, and finally found that I missed such a precious thing.
However, in any case, compared with the school control in middle school, we still have some autonomy in shaping ourselves. Then, why not give yourself a chance to "return" when the other foot is still at school and the mentality can be reversed to childhood, and pretend to make up for childhood regrets? Then, take all the pink clothes, silver trinkets, bubble sleeves, lace skirts, princess shoes ..... and dress yourself up beautifully, cuddle up with your child, coquetry with your boyfriend or mother, ride a merry-go-round, swing, and even decorate your private space like a kindergarten. Even once I went to KFC for dinner, I even asked for a children's set meal as a prank. In the surprised eyes of others, there are even some smug emotions. In any case, it takes courage to do what you like. It seems that you can live like a child and have their simple happiness without disguise. You don't have to be afraid of wolves before and tigers after, and you don't have to bear too much responsibility. Occasionally willful, suddenly become very simple and happy.
It's not so-called following the trend, nor is it to attract others' attention. I just want to be gentle and give my fading youth some color. Even if it doesn't have to be like this, I would like to dedicate it to our ravaged childhood when we grow up. I remember in a TV series, a 40-year-old single man suddenly reunited with his first love in middle school, and the woman divorced. Men often do stupid things to make her happy, and even find old middle school uniforms, desks and chairs and old textbooks, play the recording of the teacher's lectures, and then pretend to have classes while eating lunch under the cover of textbooks. Later, the man said, the past days can't be redeemed. One second, one minute, one hour, the past will only get farther and farther. It's just, you know, the closest day to our 18 age.
Are you online? I said a lot at once, but finally I gave myself and my sisters who are playing or will play a gentle role together a reason and a statement. The next thing to do is to join the flower sea of act young and compete with "others".
I will go shopping, dress up and date in the future, and I will have a smooth life.