What's so particular about the wedding day?

China people pay special attention to this day, especially when they choose their wedding date. Generally speaking, leap month and leap year are considered to be very auspicious. Run means even number and multiple times. For example, this year he was in Shuangchun, and Shuangchun said that there were two beginning of spring, one in the first month and one in the twelfth month; There is a beginning of spring at the beginning and the end of the year. Represents the year of double spring and double spring. Then this year is a very auspicious representative, and two years in this year are good omen. There is also a leap month, which has two months, so it is also auspicious, so there are 13 months in this year, one more month. It stands for many children and many blessings, and it stands for a bumper harvest.

If it is a double spring and a leap month, then this month is very suitable for marriage. Therefore, in the folk, when it comes to this year, there are many people who get married. Many people want to have a good omen, so they will choose this year. On the contrary, if there is no beginning of spring in this year, it would be unlucky to call this year a dumb, dumb year on our side in Sichuan. We also call it a blind year, and the blind people are blind this year. Then this year is not good, that is, there is no beginning of spring, no twelfth lunar month in the first month, and there is no solar term of beginning of spring in this year. Then think it is unlucky, and avoid this in the ghost month.

If there is a ghost month, there are usually three months in China, so it is July, March and September. Among them, July is the most important. We have Tomb-Sweeping Day in July and a half and March, but September is not very particular, and it is usually the Double Ninth Festival. However, it is generally not appropriate to hold happy events in July, so we basically don't see anyone getting married in July. As for March or July, basically no one gets married. That is to say, traditional festivals think that it is a ghost month in these three months. If it is a ghost month, it is not suitable for co-hosting happy events and getting married.

The second is to choose the date, and there is a Sanniang evil spirit. This Sanniang attaches great importance to the date of marriage, that is to say, she thinks that the matchmaker or the moon always won't lead the red line these days, and even if she gets married, she is unhappy. So these days generally mean that the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of a month are lunar calendar, and it is considered that these days are not suitable for marriage. There is another one, that is to say, the anniversary of Yang Gong's death. Everyone should know about this anniversary of Yang Gong's death. Because there was once a man named Yang Gong, who was not the founder of Feng Shui. He had 13 sons. Because he had many sons, he often told others that even if he encountered any disaster, I was not afraid. He said that there were only 12 months in a year, even if one son died in one month, then another son would die for me.

Unfortunately, there was a plague this year, and it was a leap month, so there was an extra month. So this Yang Gong is thirteen sons, all of whom are dead, leaving him alone in his later years, very lonely. So the time when these 13 sons died is called the anniversary of Yang Gong's death. This is also very unlucky, and the number 13 is also considered unlucky by China people. 13, scattered, scattered. Moreover, we put it another way, that is, 13 must be scattered, which means scattered and separated, so it is generally considered that 13 is also unlucky. In other words, couples generally don't choose the anniversary of their ancestors' death. For example, if their grandmother died on the fifth day of the twelfth lunar month, then they can't get married on the fifth day of the twelfth lunar month. This must be taken seriously. We can ignore the previous generation, but your previous generation must be considered. These are simply to popularize our attention to the folk custom of choosing a day.

But regarding the date of marriage, in fact, we pay more attention to these things as a reference, not as a main one. For example, if there is no beginning of spring this year, why not get married? There are a lot of married people, maybe a little less, but there will still be marriages. You can't say that all married people are unhappy. You can't say that. We often see a lot of marriages in the third and seventh grades. Folk customs can only be blamed on folk customs, and it can't be taken into account in Yi Studies. The so-called folk custom is a custom of our people, and this kind of folk custom has a lot to do with the region. We talk about different winds and customs, so what do you mean? Let's just say that we may be so particular about this folk custom in this village and so particular about it in that village. So is there any good or bad influence on this kind of attention? It has no centralized influence. This is called custom. As for custom, we should not take it too seriously.