The virtues of the elderly
1. The old man is the virtuous star of the family, with virtue as his root. "Virtue" means taking responsibility for one's faults and maintaining peace among one's family.
2. The old man is as gray as ashes, gentle and without anger. He talks less, does not nag, and does not talk about family members. Taking the lead, we must see each other's interests, and we must take care of the whole family.
3. Being full of merit, gentle and profound is called sex as gray.
4. Be content and happy, and take care of your destiny at home. Home is inheritance and a harbor, promoting family traditions, praising ancestral virtues, and educating future generations to know how to appreciate, be grateful, and repay kindness.
5. Don’t meddle in other people’s business and don’t worry too much about your children and grandchildren. “Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings.”
6. Be an old man who is respected and loved by others. Do not be dissolute or have bad character.
7. If there is a problem at home, the first thing to do is that the old man’s behavior is flawed. The first is failure to abide by one's duty, and the second is excessiveness.
8. If there are problems at home, the elderly should feel ashamed: I am the elderly who did not do well, had some bad qualities, and failed to educate my family well.
9. No matter who is at fault in the family, no matter what disasters and disputes occur, the family scandal will not be publicized.
10. Don’t create right and wrong, don’t say right and wrong, don’t preach right and wrong, don’t listen to right and wrong, take responsibility for right and wrong, and don’t be afraid of right and wrong. Harmonize the family and avoid any disputes, otherwise the old man will be missing. Not to mention speaking ill of others to your children and grandchildren, or talking about people behind their backs.
11. Whether a family is prosperous and whether its descendants are prosperous is directly related to whether the elders in the hall have good roots and merit. If the old man is virtuous, his descendants will be prosperous; if the old man is virtuous, the family will suffer disaster, the family fortune will be depressed, and the incense will fade.
12. How can the elderly make the family prosperous? That is to do more good deeds and accumulate negative virtues. Pay attention to your own moral behavior. On the one hand, you can cultivate virtue and avoid sins. On the other hand, you can cultivate virtue for your descendants and provide shelter for them.
13. The old man supports the family’s blessing and creates the family’s merit. Merit is getting stronger from generation to generation, and blessings are getting more prosperous and prosperous from generation to generation. If your descendants are stronger than you, it means you are virtuous, otherwise you are devoid of virtue.
14. The old man is like the earth, silently carrying everything, tolerating everything, and cultivating everything. If an old man has a broad mind, his family will be blessed with great blessings.
15. If the elderly love people and things, the children and grandchildren of the family will prosper. If the old man is greedy, he will eat up all the blessings of the family.
16. It is the best Feng Shui and the highest Feng Shui for the elderly to be virtuous.
My summary: We are already parents, and we will also be the elderly at home in the future. We hope to be an elderly person who is virtuous and responsible for our family.
Life is a long road, and I hope that every generation will have a loving father and a filial son, pass on the family tradition, and be a qualified son and qualified parent.