The engagement taboo is untouchable.

Engagement is a custom, which has existed for a long time. Since it has been handed down from generation to generation, there must be its statement and geomantic omen, and there must be relative taboos. So what are the seven points for attention in engagement? What are the taboos of engagement? Let this marriage feng shui answer for you.

Pay attention to engagement at seven o'clock.

1, select the time

Before engagement, parents of both parties should meet to discuss the engagement time and related matters.

Step 2 pay attention to etiquette

When parents are talking, both men and women should bring tea and water to each other's parents, leave a good impression on each other's parents, and let each other think that they have found a good wife and son-in-law.

3. Agreed place

The engagement place is usually in the hotel or the woman's home. Holding an engagement party at the woman's home can show respect for each other.

4. Number of participants

Engagement parties usually invite their relatives and friends to witness their marriage.

Step 5 know each other's hobbies

Since we want to be a family, we should get to know each other, especially our parents' living habits, manners and eating habits.

6. Parents should avoid talking.

Before engagement, both parents need to discuss the specific matters of marriage. At this time, boys and girls had better avoid it.

Step 7 prepare an engagement present

When engaged, the man should bring gifts to show respect and intimacy.

The engagement taboo is untouchable.

1, don't step on the threshold

Usually at home, everyone may come across the threshold, but on the day of engagement, the woman must not step on the threshold, especially the bride. Stepping on the threshold means that the future marriage life will be bumpy, so everyone must be careful for their happy life.

2. Return part of the dowry

Before engagement, the man will prepare a bride price, also called a bride price, but on the day of engagement, the woman is advised to return part of the bride price, that is, a gift in return. Put the presents in a red wooden box, and then the man will take them back. For China, it is about reciprocity, so the man prepares a dowry, and then the woman wants reciprocity.

Step 3 prepare a gift for this man

When engaged, the man will prepare wedding shoes, wedding dresses and wedding jewelry for the girls. Then girls should also prepare clothes, shoes and engagement rings for boys. Except for engagement rings, it is better to prepare even numbers of other things, which means pairs.

4. Never say goodbye after engagement

It's best not to say goodbye when seeing guests off on engagement day. Because there is a folk saying that saying goodbye on the day of engagement means remarriage, which is very unlucky. On the day of engagement, the man and the woman became a family, so never say goodbye.