What should I do if I’m getting married and the date at home can’t be agreed upon?
As the saying goes: "A son depends on the time of birth, and a woman depends on the year of marriage." The principle of choosing a date for marriage is based on the bride's birth date, with reference to the birth dates of the man and others. The two families should choose a time to sit together and discuss it carefully. The most important thing is that the two newcomers can have a common understanding. After that, the two people can influence the family members separately, so as to avoid the differences between the parents of both parties, which will lead to this. Unnecessary confusion on the issue. How to choose an auspicious date for your wedding? Here are my suggestions:
1. Choose a year that brings good luck to the year and good luck to the moon. Chinese people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date, and pay great attention to the theory of "Run Yue" and "Run Nian", that is, there will be a Run Nian every two or three years, that is, there are two "Beginning of Spring" in that year. A "moon moon". To choose an auspicious day for marriage, it is best to fall in a year with a moist moon.
2. Avoid 379. It is best to avoid the three auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with "Qingming", "Olan" and "Chonggong" respectively, which are all traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable to be held. happy event. The "Mid-Autumn Festival" month with the full moon, that is, the eighth month of the lunar calendar, is the most suitable month for weddings.
3. Avoid Sanniang evil spirit. According to legend, Yue Lao did not hold the red string for Sanniang, so she could not get married. Based on the revenge mentality, Sanniangxi goes against Yue Lao and specializes in destroying the happy event of the couple. Therefore, it is not suitable to get married on the Sanniangsha day of each month, namely the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of the month.
4. "Yang Gong's Death Day" is also called "Yang Gong's Thirteen Taboos". It is said to have been established by Yang Junsong, a Feng Shui master in the Tang Dynasty. These thirteen "annihilation days" are respectively the 13th day of the first lunar month, February 11th, March 9th, April 7th, May 5th, June 3rd, July 1st, July 29th, August 27th, September 25th, October 23rd, November 21st , December 19th. These thirteen "anniversaries" are not suitable for anything.
5. It is not appropriate to choose a day for marriage.
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Suitable: Tiande, Moon De, Tiandehe, Yuedehe, Tiansheng, Tianyuan, Sanhe, Tianxi, Liuhe, not going to be the sun.
Taboo: The moon is broken. , weekdays, closing sun, closing sun, calamity evil, disaster evil, monthly evil, monthly punishment, monthly disgust, five tombs, monthly harm, big time, heavenly officials, four wastes, four taboos, four poverty, five separations, eight specialties , Yan Dui, Hai day.
7. The birthday of the parents is not suitable.
8. The specific zodiac signs of the newlyweds.
The wedding is a special event in life. A big event is also the beginning of a new life for a couple. How to have a happy start, you still need to learn to manage it with wisdom. Marriage events involving two families are actually sometimes a matter of face. I believe you two have the ability to solve this problem. , start a happy life!