42 questions that parents must talk about before marriage.

Engagement-related issues!

Is there an engagement ceremony?

Are you engaged? Do you want to entertain guests?

About how many guests will be invited to each party?

In a different place, where is the engagement ceremony held?

If you are in the same city, which hotel should you choose for the engagement ceremony?

Who will pay for the engagement ceremony?

What is the routine procedure of the engagement ceremony between the two parties?

Bride gifts and dowry-related issues!

How much bride price is the man going to give?

How much dowry does the woman intend to return?

Does the bride price given by the man include three gold?

Does the dowry returned by the woman include the bride price money of the man?

Is the bride price/dowry for children or parents?

When will the bride price/dowry be given separately?

Will any of the two families participate in giving bride price or returning gifts?

Is there a custom that women buy clothes for men?

Questions related to wedding customs!

When is the wedding?

Is this an auspicious day?

Noon or night? Do you want to set a lucky time?

Is there a special link such as picking up the bride across the brazier?

Will the bride be taken to the hotel or the man's parents' house?

How many people are picking up relatives? What's the custom?

How much is the change fee? (unanimously agreed)

Are there any other special wedding customs at home?

Problems related to marriage preparation for couples in the same city!

How many weddings are there? Do you have a party?

What is the overall budget for the wedding?

Who will pay for the banquet? How to distribute the rest of the money?

Where is the wedding hotel?

What is the standard of hotel/menu/beverage?

What is the general form? Indoor or outdoor?

How many guests are invited by both parties?

How many main tables have been set up? Who will sit at the main table?

Who received the gift?

Related questions for couples in different places to prepare for marriage!

How many weddings are there? Do you want to run it separately or together?

If running separately, should the woman do it first or the man do it first?

Do you still want to hold a thank-you banquet at work?

Who will serve the banquet alone and who will serve it alone?

Which guests should be invited to each other's home?

Who will pay for inviting other guests?

What is the form of each section? Is it divided into Chinese and western?

Who will be given the gift money for each wedding?