Recognize “villains” in the workplace and adjust interpersonal relationships
See through the "villains" in the workplace and adjust interpersonal relationships
If you encounter uncooperative colleagues at work or secretly scold yourself in front of your boss, this is commonly known as "little people". people". No matter how much you help your colleagues or take care of them, they will repay you with kindness, which is also a "little person". I believe that no one has not encountered a "villain" in his or her life, and the harm caused by "villain" to people is sometimes beyond words. Specific analysis actually shows that there are many kinds of “villains”.
In 2012, I continuously received inquiries from friends about how to resolve “villains”? Two friends even sent me an article at the same time to raise the topic of resolving “villains”. Below, I quote this article as follows.
What worries you the most when you sit in the office every day? I believe many white-collar workers would say it is a "villain". My good friend Xinru called me at noon one day. She used a low-octave tone and said mysteriously: "Aling, I want to ask you something. The colleague sitting opposite me put a table on the table today. I made a cactus. I wonder if it’s some kind of Feng Shui array?” I said: ''Haha, what does other people’s cactus placement have to do with you? You are getting more and more gossipy!” She seemed a little dissatisfied and said:” Still
Are you talking about being a Feng Shui master? The cactus is used to transform into a villain, and it also plays an 'attack' role. To be honest, in the company’s assessment at the end of 2011, the business manager with the best performance will be promoted to regional manager. In our group, she and I have the best chance..."
After listening to her matter-of-fact words, I understood that Xinru was afraid that others would use hidden tricks to make her manager position insecure. Competition in today's society is fierce, and it is common to use "Feng Shui formations" to grab business and status. I thought for a while and asked: "Is her cactus facing you? Is the cactus on her left or right side? Is the cactus on her computer or on her phone?" She immediately replied: "That's not the case. Facing me, I saw it when I walked to her desk. It was placed on her left hand side, next to the computer!".
I breathed a sigh of relief after hearing this: "Haha, it seems you are A gentleman's belly is judged by a villain's eyes. In Feng Shui, there is a saying that out of sight is pure. If you don't see a cactus while sitting on your desk, there is no intention to restrain you. Also, in Feng Shui, the green dragon on the left represents the noble person, and the white tiger on the right represents the villain, so the Feng Shui products that transform the villain will not be placed on the left hand side. Placing it next to the phone can help resolve right and wrong, and she placed it next to the phone. The most likely reason for being next to the computer is to reduce the radiation from the computer!" She felt a little embarrassed after hearing this.
But she must have been able to breathe a sigh of relief and work peacefully.
In fact, she felt really sad. It is human nature to be "carry-minded". There are indeed many traps in today's offices. As the saying goes, "You must not have the intention of harming others, and you must have the intention of guarding against others." Here, I will tell you about "turning into a villain" in the office. Some simple methods to prevent villains are nothing more than talking and talking.
? Try not to place phones or magazines on the right hand side of the desk;
?Place a stone on the right hand side. As for the cactus mentioned above, it is actually not suitable to place it on the desk, as it will harm others and not even yourself;
?In the event of flying stars in the mysterious sky every year "Three Bis" are solved by inserting nine red flowers in the hand. If you think the red flowers are too ostentatious, you can use nine red decorations to resolve them.
In addition, the best way to resolve the "villain" is from another perspective. An effective way is to strengthen the trust and appreciation of your boss and superiors. The simplest way is to put eight small stones or a large round stone on the back of the office chair. If it is not allowed, the next best thing is to put a "brown" piece on the chair. "Clothes are also acceptable.
"Being a villain" in the workplace is one of the most troublesome things. Even if you try hard to help your colleagues and take care of them, they will repay kindness with evil. So, what are the things that are easy to cause villainy? What about the layout of a person's office?
The white tiger position is not clean: stand in the office and face the door. The wall to your right is the right white tiger position, and the left side is the green dragon position. The white tiger position controls the villain. This position is where Qi gathers. Then the villain around you is in charge.
Therefore, the white tiger position should be pure and clean, and no dirty person can live here.
Office sofa back door: The position of the office sofa is very important! Many company leaders are not aware of this. The office sofa should not be placed with the door behind it, otherwise it is easy to be a villain.
Irregular desks: Usually desks should be rectangular or square. Now some companies pursue fashion and use irregular or gourd-shaped desks, which often leads to the emergence of endless team villains.
Irregular offices: Irregular offices or offices with missing corners can easily create groups of villains, leading to infighting and disputes in the team.
The office configuration does not respect privacy: There should be partitions between company executives, otherwise they will be blocked by villains. In addition, pay attention to whether there is a window behind the chairperson or general manager's seat. If there is a window, it is recommended to seal it with a partition, otherwise it means that it is easy to be a villain.
There are beams in the office: beams will lead to villains taking over and employees becoming suspicious of each other. Use the Five Emperors White Jade to transform the villain's evil spirit.
After reading the above six items, please take a mirror and take a closer look at your eyebrows to see if they are black, blue or have scars or acne marks. Because from the perspective of numerology, if it is, it means: Either you are easily framed by villains, or pulled back by others; or unfortunately, you have been "haunted by villains." At this time, please take a good look at the situation around your office and resolve it quickly. The following are eight magic weapons to defuse villains.
Solution one: Green dragon and dragon turtle are the most powerful villains. The dragon can transform into villains and increase the luck and popularity of noble people; the dragon turtle's meaning is longevity and health, it can also transform Yin evil spirits, fight three evil spirits, and most importantly, it can increase wealth. The dragon turtle can be placed in the financial position to attract wealth, and it is most effective when placed in the three evil positions or in places with heavy water vapor. Neo-Confucianism believes that "to fight the three evil spirits quickly," dragon turtles are usually placed on the desks in bedrooms and offices. Especially if you are not going well at work, being squeezed out by villains or disliked by your boss, if you choose the right time and put a dragon turtle on your desk, you will get help from noble people and appreciation from your boss, and your work will be very smooth. smoothly. In addition to placing it in the company, you can also place one in the living room at home, which can complement each other and play a greater role.
The backs of some Dragon Turtle instruments are movable. You can lift them up and add tea leaves and rice grains to enhance their effects.
Solution 2: Spend money on plum blossoms, that is, (obscurity) changes into potential. When he is promoted to an official for the first time, his old habits have not been eliminated. In the new position, his predecessor's habits have not been eliminated either. His old bad habits belong to the same ignorance as the villain! The way to eliminate ignorance is to transform it and submerge it. This is the correct way to get right! Therefore, it is said: Mei spends money! Place it behind the chair in the office building or on the wall to prevent villains from being hurt from behind. Of course, it can also be placed in a drawer that you often open and close, especially in a filing cabinet for important files that are frequently accessed or a large project in progress, which is beneficial to the development of your career. It is very suitable for senior executives who have just been promoted. This is the best feng shui pendant for those who are promoted and guilty of villains.
Solution 3: Copper. The copper bell is an authentic tool to neutralize villains. Usually hanging on the door handle of the front door can turn evil spirits into villains and ensure safe exit. Note that the effect is better if the red Bagua pattern is printed on the copper bell.
Solution four: Pink is popular. In terms of psychology, pink helps to resolve the influence of villains and increase popularity, so you might as well place a pink card, 9 pink roses, or any pink objects in the northwest direction of your home. Help you become popular. If you want to prevent villains in the office, you can also place pink objects in the northwest direction. If you have room, you can put pebbles behind the chair. If you don’t have room, you can put a piece of coffee-colored clothing behind the chair to create the effect of a homemade backing.
Solution five: wear the tiger on your body. If you want to avoid being harmed by villains, you can wear any tiger-patterned accessories on your body, whether it is a tiger photo, a tiger footprint keychain, or a cartoon tiger mascot. You can also place a photo or picture of a tiger in the northeast direction, which can also prevent villains. However, I would like to remind you that since tigers are the main evil, they should be used with caution.
Solution six: You can place a "Shi Gandang" in the northeast of the office or house to resolve the three-bis wood energy and reduce verbal disputes.
Solution seven: You can also use consecrated gold and jade Guanyin, because it can increase wealth, help luck, and guard against villains. Please note that you have to go to the temple to choose a day for the consecration, and don’t be careless.
Solution 8: If you want to increase your luck in addition to being a villain. I suggest you use pink quartz to increase popularity, that is, place a red vase in the peach blossom position in the west
north and insert 2 or 7 red flowers. If you hope it will help your love luck, use red roses and surround the vase with 9 amethyst crystals to boost your popularity. Of course, you can also use carnations or lilies, or you can surround the vase with nine rose quartz crystals. Remember to Write down your wishes on a piece of paper.
Finally, what I want to say to my friends is that no one has never encountered a villain in his life. The only difference lies in the number of villains and the harm they will cause. We should face them instead of just trying to avoid villains. Only by facing them can we understand the crux of the problem.
Materialist dialectics tells us that everything is relative and may transform in the opposite direction. Therefore, the best way to deal with villains is to "turn enemies into friends" and villains into nobles. Only by fighting against villains can one become a true gentleman. There is a saying that goes like this: When you play chess with a bad chess basket, you will lose even if you win; when you play chess with a master, you will win even if you lose.