The psychology of people who speak badly.

The psychology of a man who speaks badly, everyone's psychological quality is actually closely related to his growth environment and educational background, so if a person's personality is not very good, it must be something he experienced as a child, so what is the psychology of a man who speaks badly?

The psychology of a man who speaks badly is 1 (1) eager to speak.

Some people like to express themselves very much and like to talk nonstop. Many times, words come out before the brain thinks it over. Such people are often annoying.

First of all, if you don't think about it, there is a great probability that you will offend others. Secondly, talking too much will give others the impression of "impetuous and unreliable". Finally, your "rushing to answer" is likely to interrupt others and arouse their disgust.

(2) Be a good teacher

Many people have the problem of being a good teacher. They like to talk about "educating" and "guiding" others. With the mentality of "I do it for your own good", they did things that interfered with others' freedom, and finally offended many people.

Nobody likes being told what to do. Even the education of parents and teachers will disgust us, not to mention the general relationship.

(3) Egocentricity

Everyone should have met such a person. No matter what you discuss, she can lead the topic to herself. Then balabalabala a lot, annoying.

Everyone is the protagonist of his own life, and others are really not so interested in your world.

(4) Refuting people's face

Many people have lived all their lives for a face. Face is very important to China people. Maybe you can see through the world and lose face, but it doesn't mean others can.

So speak tactfully, don't blame others face to face or refute them face to face.

(5) Bad tone

When people communicate with each other, in fact, the proportion of language is very small, and most of them rely on tone and expression to convey information. If you have a bad tone, no matter what you say, you won't be liked.

Stiff speech, stiff speech, weak speech and indifferent attitude are all very bad tones.

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The psychology of people who speak badly 2 1, inferiority complex

For a man who shows inferiority in his heart, he often can't control his temper when he is angry, and what he likes best is to make people feel confident. Such a man has actually silently expressed his inner inferiority.

Step 2 be selfish

Selfish men always think of themselves and feel very angry, so if they are unhappy anyway, then everyone should be unhappy. If I am unhappy, everyone will be turned upside down.

3. Not confident

A man with no self-confidence likes to say cruel words when he meets something in a quarrel. Only in this way can he overcome his inner self-confidence. In fact, these words are also for myself, so that I am not so weak.

Quarrel is the best way to get to know a person.

In fact, the performance of men after quarreling can best reflect the nature of men. If a man not only speaks ill of you during a quarrel, but also ignores your feelings after the quarrel, either playing mobile phone or walking away to have a drink and chat with friends, then such a man is not only without you in his heart, but also a real love rat.

Can't you see the reality at this time? Being with such a man is of no value, so when you meet such a man in your life, leave quickly while the relationship is not deep, or save the New Year.

A man who says he is difficult to listen to when quarreling.

In fact, a man who gets a bad word after a quarrel is really not a good man. In fact, to put it bluntly, it is scum. After all, if a man really has a good rest, he should be honest with the person he likes, and he can't hurt the other person by saying cruel words. Unless he is cuckolded in front of love rat, this situation is another matter. After all, this can't be done by self-cultivation.

When we say quarrel today, we mean some controversial issues in our daily life, such as two people quarreling because they don't talk about something together. At this time, if a man is faced with such a situation, he will say some harsh words to his other half, and what he said is very ugly.

So you'd better stay away from such a man before it's too late. He doesn't love you at all. Think about it, just like yourself. Even if you lose your mind when you are angry, you won't say harsh words in front of the person you love most, hurting each other, because you can't bear it from the bottom of your heart, but you feel uncomfortable and don't know how to say you.

The psychology of a man who speaks badly 3 1 is too arrogant.

Some men always ignore people and always act on top. What he said to people can be counted in a few words, never more than ten words, so short that he didn't even bother to say a nonsense.

Such a man is very proud psychologically. Because of his Excellence, he doesn't like to say something useless to others. And few people dare to talk to him, so he looks hard to get close to.

2. Very inferior

Some men usually don't like to talk, mainly because of his inferiority. He always feels inferior to others. I'm afraid people will laugh at him as soon as he opens his mouth. He has been hiding in his own world and doesn't communicate with others. After a long time, his words became less and less. Even have some resistance to people, and you will want to run away when you see a crowded place.

3. A little autistic

In fact, there are also some men who suffered some terrible injuries when they were young, leaving some psychological shadows, so they have some slight autistic tendencies and become unwilling to talk to people. Perhaps in his mind, he also wants to chat loudly with many people like ordinary people, but it is difficult for him to do so. He's ambivalent. He used autism to protect himself, but he longed for someone to talk to him.

In addition to the above psychology, there are still many men who don't like to talk, probably because they are a little introverted and blush when talking to people.

In these three times, the man who said "malicious words" to you did not care about you, but loved you deeply.

First, you ate cold and spicy food during your physiological period, and he was sarcastic.

During the menstrual period, women are forbidden to eat extremely cold and spicy food. Many women suffer from dysmenorrhea, mostly because they don't pay attention to their health when they are young. Because young people have strong resistance and don't avoid eating during menstruation, they covet the pleasure of oral sex for a while. In a few years, retribution will come, and when they roll around in bed in pain, they will have regrets.

The man who loves you will remember your special day, urge your diet, and won't let you eat those taboo foods. If you insist on eating, how can I persuade you not to listen, force him to say cruel words to you, or obey you coldly? Don't think that this is because he doesn't care about your performance, just because he cares too much about your health, so he will say irony, just to make you obey.

Second, when you say goodbye, he will react very much and say something ugly.

Many women just like to scare men by breaking up. To put it bluntly, I deliberately look for a sense of existence and want to see how men are eager to defend her. This will greatly satisfy her desire to be loved. Some straight men can't read your mind. When he heard the word "break up", his mind was already in a state of explosion.

Because he is afraid of losing you, he may say the wrong thing, and his emotional appearance may even make you cry. It's all because he is possessive of you.

Therefore, at this time, men speak badly. He doesn't really want to break up with you, but he doesn't know how to keep you, so he has such a stress reaction. If you think he doesn't care about you, you are all wet. It is because I love you so much that I am fierce.

Third, when you lose confidence in the future, he will question you and be mean to you.

When we are young, each of us will think about the future. Facing the next few decades, we will feel very confused, have no goal and don't know where we belong. When you tell him about your troubles and that you have no confidence in your future, you don't think it will have a good result.

If you are frustrated, if he questions you and attacks you, it means that he hates your present state. Maybe he has planned your future in his mind, but you got discouraged first and decided to give up, so he will have such a big reaction.

I said those cruel words because I love you so much.

Conclusion:

It is said that men should understand women and women should understand men. Men's hearts and eyes are far less narrow than women's, so they will be careless in some ways. Sometimes they just say what they want to say, which will make you angry and question his feelings for you from the heart.

In fact, because he loves you too much, he will be fierce and will say malicious words. Women should never choose to end this love in a hurry, you will lose a good man who loves you deeply.