Excuse me, are we incompatible? Can we merge?
Lady's sign: It is four years (year of wood), four months (month of wood) and four days (day of water).
Refer to your above birthday:
First, the first year of marriage for men and women is auspicious! Men's lives are "gold" and women's lives are "wood"; At present, a woman with a "wooden" fate marries a man with a "golden" fate, and their life expectancy is almost the same (Jin Kemu, male and female). But the man's "B ugliness" belongs to the gold in the sea, and the woman's "self" belongs to Dalinmu! The gold in this sea is at the bottom of the sea, which is less than the big forest on the land of Ke Ben! Although there is a phenomenon of mutual punishment from the age attribute, it can't be done in practice.
Second, the year of birth of married men and women, most afraid of committing "heaven and earth rush." If the difference in life expectancy between men and women is six years, that is! At present, the difference between you two is about four years old. There is no such thing!
Third, the zodiac that is unfavorable to marriage
1, the genus is in conflict: in the afternoon, rats and children are in conflict, ugly cows are not in conflict with sheep, yin tigers are in conflict with monkeys, hairy rabbits are in conflict with chickens, dragons are in conflict with dogs, and snakes are in conflict with pigs.
2, the genus is harmful: rats do not harm sheep, ugly cows harm afternoon horses, tigers harm snakes, rabbits harm dragons, monkeys harm pigs, and chickens harm dogs.
3. Mutual punishment: pika punishment, snake monkey punishment, ugly cattle and sheep punishment, dragon dragon punishment, afternoon horse punishment, unitary chicken punishment, pig punishment.
When men and women get married, there is also a saying that it is harmful to avoid raising the year; At present, men's annual leave is "ugly", that is, the zodiac belongs to "cow"; The female year is "already", which is also the "snake" of the zodiac; There is no mutual harm between them;
Fourth, men's five elements belong to "gold" and like to use God as "water"; Ladies' five elements belong to "water" and like to use God as "water"; Judging from the relationship between Japan and Gansu, it is the man's "Jin Xin" that breeds the woman's "Guishui" (that is, the relationship between gold and water);
Fifth, the marriage orientation should be auspicious. I can't give you any advice now because you didn't provide your birthplace information! But you can look it up yourself. In principle, your direction should appear in the same direction (east to west; South to north; Southeast to 20 north latitude; Northeast to southwest) (centered on their birthplace), very suitable! When you are not in the same direction, you should think about it.