When giving your child a baby name, try not to use these three types of baby names, as they are unpleasant and can easily lead to ridicule.
Although the name is just a code name, many parents still put a lot of effort into naming their children, wanting to give their children a good-sounding and promising name. However, for Chinese children, most of them do not have only one formal name. When they get along with relatively close people, they often have many nicknames.
The first name is the parents’ expectations and blessings for their children’s future, while the nickname is a term of endearment used to express intimacy with their children. And compared to the formal names used on formal occasions, baby names can be more casual and cute. Perhaps it is because baby names are relatively private that many parents don’t bother as much when naming their children as they do with formal names.
In fact, baby names are also very particular. If you choose a bad baby name, it will also affect the child's self-esteem. Baby names will accompany their children throughout their lives. Parents must remember: try not to choose these three types of baby names, and don't be careless. For example, today's young people like to play games very much, and some people use the names of game characters as their children's nicknames. A friend gave birth to a daughter not long ago. Because she liked the game character Cai Wenji very much, she named her daughter Xiaoji.
When the family called the child this name, the child did not show any obvious disgust. But unexpectedly, after going to school, the child developed a very obvious resistance to this nickname. Because when parents pick up their children from school, they often call them by their nicknames.
This nickname sounds very much like a small animal, so many classmates used this name as a joke, which caused a lot of trouble to my daughter. Many parents are also accustomed to calling their children by their nicknames. Even if there are classmates or friends whom their children value, they will call their children by their nicknames without any care.
If your baby name is normal, you may be able to get compliments from your friends. But if the nickname is chosen too casually and spreads to the school or circle of friends where the child lives, it will become a very troublesome thing for them. The following three baby names are unpleasant and hurt your self-esteem. Parents should not choose them lightly.
1: Baby names with homophonic sounds
When choosing a name, many people will choose a few words that they think have better meanings and combine them together. Sometimes they will ignore the name. My overall feeling after reading it. There are some names that one would think would be a good name just by looking at the meaning and structure of the font, but when combined with the surname and pronunciation, some homophones will appear.
Therefore, whether you are giving your child a formal name or a nickname for your child, you should pay attention to this and do not choose homophonic names that are easily associated with other aspects. Many children have no idea. When they hear such a name, they find it funny, so they joke without restraint.
This sometimes makes children very troubled, and some children even become tired of studying. As a parent, there is no way to avoid this situation. You can only put more thought into naming and avoid names with homophones as much as possible. This way the child will not be nicknamed by classmates at school.
Two: Name after vegetables or fruits
Some parents choose names very casually, thinking that the baby name is a nickname for the child, so it can be more relaxed and lively. So they often name their children after the vegetables or fruits they like to eat. But because these foods are ubiquitous and real in daily life.
So if the name was known to others, it would be easy to make jokes about real food. Many people will inevitably feel very embarrassed when they hear their name being used as a joke. Some sensitive children may even dislike their parents because of this.
And during the conversation, if the parents really mention these fruits and vegetables, the children will also feel very confused, not knowing whether the parents are calling them or chatting.
Therefore, parents should be more careful when naming their children, and should not name their children so casually after fruits and vegetables.
Three: A bad name
I believe many people have heard the saying that a bad name makes a living. In the past, medical care and quality of life were not good enough, and many children would die due to various accidents after birth. Therefore, in order to enable their children to live a healthy life, some parents will give them a very unpleasant nickname, and some parents will even directly use this name as the official name of their children.
Because in their opinion, such an unpleasant nickname has gone through many tests, so it will be stronger and have more vitality. For example, names such as Tiedan, Ergouzi or Gou Sheng are all nicknames that many elderly people like to give. Although such a name sounds smooth and fun, it is obviously not a good name.
If there is such a custom in the area where you live, and the friends around you all have such nicknames, it may not be so embarrassing. But in other situations, such an unpleasant nickname can easily be ridiculed by peers, and some people may even exclude the child because of it.
The above are some of the most unpopular baby names for children. Such names are not only harsh but also hurt the child's self-esteem. Some children will also develop low self-esteem because of this and are unwilling to hear others calling their names, let alone show themselves in some situations. If parents really give their children such a name, be sure not to shout it in front of their children's classmates or friends, otherwise it will easily affect their children's interpersonal relationships and make them introverted and inferior.