What is the mentality of boys asking for your photos as soon as they come up?
Secondly, it is also in line with human nature. Both men and women still like to communicate with the opposite sex that conforms to their own aesthetics, not necessarily how handsome and beautiful they are, because everyone's aesthetics are different. It's a fast food era, and you are willing to pay a lot of effort to give your heart to someone, only to find that he/she is not what you think?
So, girl, don't care too much about this kind of thing. It's ok for everyone to send photos openly, or meet them when they feel necessary, so as to get to know your friends more stereoscopically, isn't it?
I am very happy to answer your questions at Xiyuan, hoping to solve my doubts.
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I wonder if you have heard such a joke.
A female netizen and a male netizen are chatting on the Internet. The portrait of the female netizen is a beautiful young girl. In fact, the male netizen has long been impatient with the hormone, and often asks the female netizen to meet.
female netizens have been avoiding seeing each other and asking each other, if I am ugly, will you continue to chat with me?
The male net friend promises that you are so gentle, I believe you must be beautiful, even if you are not so beautiful, I like you.
As a result, after meeting, the male netizen beat up the female netizen and said how the gap was so big that you fucking lied to me for so long.
There's a saying that love begins with face value. A boy approaches you and can have the desire to continue chatting with you, even for how long, which depends on how you look.
the head portrait is not good-looking, so I just filtered it out without looking at it. The head portrait is good-looking, and then I went to the circle of friends to look at it. The circle of friends didn't have it, so I kept asking for photos. They just wanted to make sure that this girl he wanted to flirt with was worth flirting with, and whether it was worth saying good morning and good night every day.
What's the psychology of boys who want girls to send photos as soon as they chat?
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I remember once I took a photo of playing guitar in a circle of friends.
in a few minutes, whether you know or not, the boys who are familiar with each other seem to be waiting in line to reply.
"No face, bad review!"
"Beauty, blow a straight face"
Even a boy asked me privately, "Is that you playing guitar in the circle of friends?"
I said, yes.
"Why don't you have a straight face? Send me a show face."
suddenly feel speechless. I don't know him well, and if I don't agree with him, I will be exposed. Who does he think he is?
"No face"
"Let's take a picture now (with a grin on his face)"
The boy who started asking for photos before talking and couldn't suppress his hunger really needs to improve his emotional intelligence. But this kind of boy can be seen everywhere in our life.
What's the psychology of boys who want girls to send photos as soon as they chat?
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First of all, let's talk about whether we know unfamiliar boys.
The girl's head is a photo, and the man's future conversation is basically:
Hello, is the head me? How old are you? Where do you go to work? Where is your home? How tall and how much do you weigh? What major do you study? Send some more photos to the beauty! Why not send it? Make friends!
The girl's head is not a photo, and the man's future conversation is basically:
Hello, beauty, how old are you? Let me take a look at you. If you don't send it, well, where is your home? Oh, that place is good. Let me take a look at you. If you don't send it, well, where do you work? Oh, I know the company. Let me take a look at you .. < Of course, we don't rule out those who are only looking for blue confidants, but this kind of situation is rare.
What's the psychology of boys who want girls to send photos as soon as they chat?
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There are also some men who obviously know each other who also like to ask for photos on WeChat. This situation is usually interesting to you before and you haven't seen each other for a while. For example, they graduated and worked.
If you say you haven't seen it before, and you need any photos, or if there are photos in your circle of friends, they will say that it was before, and they want to see what you look like now and what you look like now.
A man is always visual first. He wants to see your recent appearance. To put it bluntly, he wants to see if you are disabled!
if you get ugly, you won't tease. If you get beautiful, you will continue to tease.
For such a man who wants a photo if he doesn't agree with a word,
If the photo of a woman is ugly, he will slowly regard her as a purely boring pastime;
If a woman's photo is beautiful, she will express flattery or shyness in her words.
in either case, it will not be honest and natural to get along with each other.
First of all, you two shouldn't have met, and you are neither acquaintances nor friends. You may have accidentally contacted each other on social software. I think there are three reasons for this situation:
First, boys who express themselves directly may have a crush on you and want to see your appearance to establish a relationship, whether they are friends or lovers, which is common in blind date occasions. In this case, maybe you two have just been introduced by others, and you don't even know each other, and you haven't even met formally. There is only a preliminary written exchange. Boys want to further deepen their impressions and take a look at each other's true colors, and photos are direct expressions.
Of course, the decision is in your hands. It's entirely up to you to decide whether to give it or not. If you don't like it, you can definitely refuse it. For girls with little social experience, you should have a sense of self-protection and don't send photos to boys casually, so as not to cause unnecessary trouble and eventually get hurt.
second: out of curiosity. For the unknown, everyone has a strong thirst for knowledge. I have never seen what you look like, so I want to find out more, and see beauty, ugliness, height and thinness.
Third, it is not excluded that boys care more about girls' looks, don't want to spend time on eating, watching movies and deepening their feelings, and want to determine whether your appearance meets his requirements through photos.
finally, I want to say that photos can only look at the appearance and body shape, which is the first impression of appearance, but not the understanding of the three views, personality and temper, and people's behavior. A serious and thoughtful boy will still be willing to take the time to meet and talk.
Boys will be asked to take photos as soon as they come up. The first choice of appearance conditions must be good, at least, face value has the upper hand. There may be several reasons for boys to do this:
2. Their lives have nothing to do with each other, but they just happen to meet, so he may have fallen in love with you at first sight. Of course, you should remain rational in this case. After all, it is face value that counts more.
3. This is a legendary master of picking up girls, and you have aroused his interest. Naturally, such an experienced person will certainly start to act at once.
In either case, if you don't know each other well, you'd better not say yes rashly. If the other person gives you a good feeling, you can add WeChat to get to know each other first, and friends circle can also indirectly see a person's character. If you feel good, try to get to know each other better. The above is personal advice, I hope it will help you, and I wish you good luck.
I think at least, in order to show his affection for you, some boys are a little shy and don't know how to treat the girl, so they implicitly ask for the girl's photo, which can also be used to guess the girl's mind. If the girl promises to give the photo, it shows that the girl at least doesn't hate the boy. If she refuses, it will show that the girl doesn't hate the boy.
Some boys want the girl's photo to show off to their friends and buddies, which shows how decent it is to have a beautiful girlfriend, and may also show it to their relatives, so that they can rest assured that they are very concerned about their marriage and don't be urged by their relatives.
Of course, there are some annoying people in the society who do some bad things with girls' photos. These people are scum. I hope the girls will stay awake and judge wisely.
In short, I hope that young friends will treat their friends with integrity and sunshine, and everyone will be full of love and positive energy.
once a website made a survey, what is the most annoying behavior of straight men for girls?
Number one is: Can you send me a photo of you without makeup?
the second place is: it's not in the phone, so why don't you shoot it now?
The third place is: Send me a photo of you.
When girls meet these three types of chats from men, their first reaction is not to send you photos at all, but to greet you, and then to blacken you.
why should I send you photos? Who do you think you are?
I didn't. I have to shoot one for you on the spot. Do you think you are a director? !
do you know how hard it takes for me to send a picture in my circle of friends?
still send a plain photo? !
All girls, beautiful or not, will feel angry and offended when they encounter these three kinds of problems again.
Although this kind of behavior of straight men is annoying, they represent the most instinctive and direct thoughts of men. Why are men so persistent about asking for photos?
1. Because men are visual animals.
this point needs no explanation.
Compared with words, pictures are more intuitive.
2. Save time.
Because there are too many painful experiences.
After chatting online for a long time, I finally found out that it was Qiao Biluo and that it was a dinosaur reincarnation. What can I do?
I can't help it, but the person I have an appointment with has to stick to it with tears in his eyes.
Gao Xiaosong once told the story of his online love in Qipa Shuo. He made an appointment with a girl from Tsinghua to meet at the north gate of Tsinghua. When he got to the appointed place, he didn't dare to go. He just watched from a distance until the girl appeared, and the girl blocked half the gate of Tsinghua. I didn't even dare to admit it, so I sneaked away immediately.
Xu asked him why you didn't send photos at that time. He said it was because I didn't want people to know that I looked like this.
Therefore, in view of the bitter experience of so many predecessors, after drawing a lesson from it, in order to save time, it's better to just ask for photos when you come up. If it looks good, continue. If it doesn't look good, pull it down as early as possible, and then move on.
3. To show off.
The girls have made a Daniel Wu-class boyfriend, and generally speaking, they don't show off in the circle of friends and the group of girlfriends.
But if a boy has a relationship with a very beautiful girl, even if he hasn't lost his word, he will spread it everywhere in front of his buddies and in his various groups.
are all men so shallow?
before reaching a certain level, yes.
few men will say, I'm face-blind, and I don't know if she looks good.
It's a man's nature to brag and save face, and associating with beautiful girls can greatly satisfy this nature.
what is your capital to show off in front of other men? This girl must be very beautiful.
if you are not beautiful or crushed by a dinosaur you meet for two hours, it will only become the capital for everyone to ridicule and laugh at you. Let you hold your head in front of everyone for a long time.
Therefore, a man has some experiences of being bored, and he won't talk about it until he is killed. He will only break his teeth and swallow blood.
So it's about your face and whether you can show off in an ostentatious manner in the next step. Of course, you should be anxious and persistent in such an important and urgent matter.
so what should we do when facing such people who want photos?
1. If you don't want to associate with this person at all, or it makes you very angry, then just blacken it.
2. If other conditions are not bad, that is, there is a little straight man, just pull one for him from your photo gallery.
3. It's impossible to take photos on the spot and send them again, and build a photo library in advance.
who doesn't have hundreds of photos of themselves in their mobile phones?
to form a good habit is to prepare your own photo gallery. Classify and be familiar with it.
the type of photos sent for the first time, pure and sweet,
the type of photos sent after three dates, pure and sexy,
the type of photos sent after five to ten dates, and the royal sister type.
You know why men are so obsessed with asking for photos, and they are prepared accordingly.
I think whether the other person is Yan Kong or not, girls must be thinking at this time, isn't it that they met love rat?
hahaha ... just kidding.
I'm not sure whether the slag is slag or not in this situation, but it will be awkward in the future, and there may be a little embarrassment, especially for girls. After all, it gives people a very casual and disrespectful feeling. It's not much better than asking girls how old they are at first. Put yourself in their shoes. If they are girls, boys will definitely blow up.
and generally speaking, if two people really get together, the long-term love may not be great, and this may be a pastime of falling in love.
girls still need to find a good man who loves them.
Boys want to see the true face of girls, because some women put on makeup and add beauty. It's totally different. I know one or two points here. The eyes are more important than makeup, or they are dull, lacking eyelashes and single eyelids. The lipstick on the mouth is too heavy, and some have wide mouths [yi teeth]. Personally, I don't like girls with bangs, because most of them cover up their high foreheads. From a facial point of view, because they are too smart, they are good at picking and easy to leave, and it is best to tie up their hair. At least in this way, you can see that more than half of her face [teeth] is covered under her hair. The above is purely a personal opinion. Don't spray it if you don't like it.
Don't want to waste time
Men like and love women, and there is one condition before they know each other, that is, women should be beautiful.
There are many conditions and factors for a woman to love a man, even a label can be attached to a man, such as the man's money and power. And men look at women in terms of appearance, appearance and figure.
Nowadays, many men and women communicate through the Internet. Everyone disguises their true selves and makes friends with their virtual side. When they reach a certain level, they may meet each other.
Many people don't have confidence in themselves, or protect their privacy, and they are in good contact on the Internet. When they meet in reality, they often "see the light and die". Destroyed everyone's expectations, and even some disputes occurred.
However, the current photos are really unsightly. Some people use others' fake photos, and some have beauty photos, which are far from the actual people.
Those who ask women for photos as soon as they come up are often young boys. Their utilitarianism and purpose are relatively clear, and those who ask for photos directly will basically not talk to you, which is an offer.
So, when a boy asks you for a photo, it is.