Who knows the wedding and funeral customs in Susong County? The more detailed the better

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Marriage, the marriage system was mostly feudal customs before the founding of the People’s Republic of China. The marriage process generally went through a matchmaker, parents agreed to the engagement, in-laws passed the marriage, The son-in-law comes to the door, performs the daily rites, welcomes the bride, carries the dowry, pays homage to the bride and groom, makes cups together, thanks the matchmaker, rewards the guests, and returns home from the three dynasties. When the bride comes to the door in a sedan chair, she will cry before leaving, set off firecrackers, blow trumpets, beat gongs and drums, and send her off in a lively manner. When arriving at the door, the new husband-in-law should be greeted, and two women with both good fortune and longevity should be selected as "lead mothers" to help the bride get off the sedan chair. The bride covers her head with a red handkerchief. Together with the groom, she first enters the hall to worship her ancestors, heaven and earth, and the couple bows to each other. Then they enter the bridal chamber, where the groom uncovers the red handkerchief. The couple sits together, drinks good tea, performs the wedding ceremony, and spreads the tent in the evening. Make a new house. The next day, the bride visited her aunt and uncle and had dinner with her aunt. On the third day, they went into the kitchen to make soup. The couple went back to their parents' home to visit relatives and returned the same day. During the Republic of China, some wealthy families in cities and towns imitated Western-style marriages, and their etiquette was greatly improved. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, marriages between men and women were freed, and weddings were generally simple, but they also had to go through the process of falling in love, getting engaged, visiting each other during festivals, formally welcoming the bride and getting married, and returning home to visit relatives. Weddings in rural areas are more grand and have many old customs. Before the engagement, a matchmaker is required to introduce the bride. After the engagement, generous gifts are given to the bride's family during three festivals of the year. During the engagement, the bride is given expensive gifts of clothes and when she gets married, she is given a pig jar of wine.

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lt; brgt; Funeral ceremonies are old customs and quite superstitious. After the death of old parents, funeral ceremonies must be held to fulfill the filial piety of their children. The funerals of poor families are simple, while those of rich families are extravagant. From mourning to funeral, the following etiquette is generally required: when dying, the door panel must be lifted up and transportation money burned; the body must be bathed and dressed before being placed in the coffin; After the obituary is announced to relatives and friends, a mourning hall is set up, and children take turns to observe mourning; close relatives wear white mourning clothes, women wear white skirts, relatives and friends wear white headscarves and half-length white shoes; relatives and friends are accepted within three days to hang in the funeral and the coffin is sealed; those who come to hang are given axes, elegiac couplets and Money, some are given in addition to three animals, all of which are required to burn incense and kneel down to worship. The filial son kneels down and bows in return inside the curtain, sets off firecrackers, and plays mourning music to help mourn; while the coffin is parked, Taoist priests are invited to fast and monks to chant sutras. There are lamps, seven, convergence, and breaking. The purpose of superstitious projects such as prison is to save the soul of the deceased and avoid sin in hell; before the funeral, a church ceremony is held, the ritual attendant calls out the salute, and cries out the sacrificial inscriptions. The filial son has a straw rope tied around his waist, hemp shoes on his feet, a filial stick in his hand, and a white cloth on his head. Cover your head, pay tribute three times in the hall, burn incense and kowtow repeatedly, and cry until you are in mourning; during the funeral, gongs are played to clear the way, firecrackers are set off, and paper money is thrown along the way; before burial, a Feng Shui practitioner should be asked to choose a place, determine the direction and time of the tomb, and prepare the funeral in advance. Dig a hole and bury on time. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, these old customs and superstitious activities were basically stopped. Festivals are more popular among the people and occur almost every month, depending on the lunar calendar. The first day of the first lunar month is New Year's Day, also known as the Spring Festival. People get up early to open the door, set off firecrackers, go out to the sky, pay homage to parents, and bless each other. After the meal, the neighbors held a ceremony called New Year's greetings, and relatives and friends began to communicate with each other. On this day, there is no need to clean the kitchen or collect the treasures. When meeting, everyone says "congratulations on getting rich". The seventh day of the lunar month is Human Day, and firecrackers are fired in the evening, like New Year's Eve, to wish mankind a long life. The fifteenth day is the Lantern Festival, and it is popular to play with dragon lanterns and lanterns. February 15th is the Flower Festival. Tomb-Sweeping Day in March is the Tomb-Sweeping Day, a day for worshiping and remembering ancestors and martyrs. The eighth day of April is the Buddha Bathing Festival, the fifth day of May is the Dragon Boat Festival, the sixth day of June is the Tianzhong Festival, the seventh day of July is the Qiqiao Festival, the 15th day of July is the Zhongyuan Festival, the 15th day of August is the Mid-Autumn Festival, and the 9th day of September is the Mid-Autumn Festival. On the Double Ninth Festival, October 15th is Xiaoyangchun, the eighth day of the twelfth lunar month is Laba Festival, the 23rd is the Kitchen God, the 24th is the Little New Year, and the last day of the twelfth lunar month is the New Year's Day. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, part of it was still retained, giving it new content and meaning. In addition, many important festivals on the Gregorian calendar were added, such as March 8th, May 1st, May 4th, June 1st, August 1st, and October 1st. First-class, it can be said that it takes into account the old and the new, and introduces the new from the old.