Do you want to separate after marriage?
First of all, they don't want to be disturbed in their married life. The newlyweds love each other deeply, and they both want a private space to relax and enjoy this feeling. Although it is better to live in in-laws' house, it is not so hard. But two people often have to suppress themselves and can't do anything casually. There are too many inconvenient things to live under the same roof.
Second, the living habits of the two generations are different. It is said that the living habits of in-laws and young people are very different when they are three years old. In-laws are not the woman's biological parents, so there is no way to tolerate her all the time. The ideological differences between the two generations have also created different living habits.
For example, women sometimes like to eat out, but in the eyes of the elderly, it is waste and laziness. Especially for those who are married far away, the food culture cannot be changed at once, and they can hardly say what they don't like in front of their in-laws, so they can only eat together.
Third, I don't want privacy to be interfered with. I have to say that the elders have good hearts, but many times they take care of others and care for others in a way that they feel good. Such kindness is not acceptable to everyone.
Many old people always like to interfere in the privacy of young people, because they feel that children should not have any privacy in front of themselves that they cannot know.
Fourth, avoid family conflicts. The different living habits of the two generations mentioned above and their unwillingness to interfere in privacy are all catalysts for family conflicts. Everyone can forgive for the first time and continue to be tolerant for the second time. But what about the third, fifth or even more times?
At that time, it will not be so easy to tolerate and forgive each other, and you will feel that your patience has been worn away step by step. Many times, even if you don't speak, it's not because you don't care, but because you are suppressing your emotions, but sooner or later they will burst out completely.