Who will watch the Chinese birthday wedding? Male: Born on the 9th day of February, 1989 Female: Born on the 13th of July, 1989, the fortune teller said that the eight characters did not match and was forced to break up.

Women's horoscope: Ji Si (Year of Wood), Renshen (Golden Moon), Bingwu (Water Day), lack of time column

For reference from your above-mentioned birthdays:

First, the first year for both men and women to get married. Men's life is "wood" and women's life is "wood"; At present, a woman with a "wooden" fate marries a man with a "wooden" fate. Both of them have the same age, and there is no relationship between birth and punishment, no problem!

second, the birth year of married men and women is the most afraid of committing "heaven and earth rush". If there is a six-year difference in life expectancy between men and women, that is! At present, you two are not lacking in this situation!

Third, when men and women get married, there is also a saying that it is harmful to avoid the annual expenditure; At present, men's annual holiday is "already", that is, the zodiac is a "snake"; Women's annual branch is "already", which means that the zodiac is also a "snake"; There is no mutual harm between the two:

The zodiac belongs to the marriage of snake people: the male who belongs to the snake has a superb sense of humor and is very attractive. Born in year of the snake, both men and women are prone to peach blossoms. If they can restrain themselves and turn their minds to family business, they can live a peaceful and harmonious life.

1. The best marriage partner for a snake person:

Snake girl: It is best to marry a man who is a cow, a rabbit, a dog or a monkey.

snake man: it is best to marry a woman who belongs to rabbit, horse, sheep, dog and monkey.

2. Unmarried object of snake man:

Snake girl: It is not suitable to marry a male who belongs to rat, horse, sheep or pig.

snake man: it is not suitable to marry a female who belongs to mouse, tiger, snake or pig.

There are two main problems in the marriage between men and women, one is the incompatibility of the zodiac, and the other is the incompatibility of the eight characters. The so-called disharmony between the zodiac refers to the fact that the two sides of the marriage are in opposition, mutual harm, mutual punishment, mutual resistance, or robbery. Because of their different types, the degree of discord is also different.

in fact, the essence of the incongruity of the Chinese zodiac is the function of the five elements in punishing harm and punishment. Therefore, the zodiac does not match, in fact, it is still incompatible with the five elements. When the zodiac doesn't match, you must not get married, or you must get divorced?

not necessarily. Because the zodiac is just a word in birthdates, that is, the annual branch, which represents the foundation of marriage. The foundation of a marriage is of course very important, that is, like a small tree, if the foundation is not good, it can affect its growth. But the foundation can also change with the growth of young trees, and sometimes it is not decisive. In marriage, it is the marriage palace and other comprehensive factors that play a decisive role. The marriage palace can also be called the spouse palace, which is the Japanese branch. Therefore, sometimes, although the zodiac is incompatible, if the marriage palace is compatible, or other columns are compatible, or the taboo is appropriate, or the lucky year is compatible, it can still offset or alleviate the harm of the zodiac incompatibility and barely get along.

therefore, in comparison, the zodiac is incompatible, and its harmfulness is 5% weak, while the marriage palace is incompatible with other aspects, accounting for 5% strong. Therefore, it's just that the zodiac doesn't match, so we can conclude that the marriage is unhappy, but we can't completely conclude that we can't get married. Therefore, the incompatibility of the zodiac just means that the two sides of the marriage are not harmonious in the atmosphere of the two birth years, so it is general, extensive, not specific, and not absolute. It just means that this kind of marriage is not happy enough, and it cannot be simply judged that two people cannot marry because of the incompatibility of the zodiac.

So if the zodiac doesn't match, it only means that the foundation of marriage is not good, and the process of marriage and love may not be smooth and happy. Some differences can also be alleviated or resolved through adjustment efforts the day after tomorrow.

then what should be done to alleviate or resolve the misfortune of this zodiac marriage?

strictly speaking, it is impossible to completely resolve the unfortunate marriage of the zodiac. But it can be moderately adjusted and improved, and it can be transformed into a good one. There are several ways to adjust:

First, try to avoid it. Prevention in advance, nip in the bud, this is the most sensible way. When looking for a partner in love, if you find that it belongs to the situation of aggression, harm, punishment or robbery, you should avoid it as much as possible. Otherwise, after falling in love or getting married, because of the different gas fields of the zodiac, it will bring many unnecessary contradictions and conflicts to both sides, which will affect their feelings or lead to their breakup or divorce.

the second is the neutralization of customs clearance. The principle of neutralization is actually to build a bridge between the two incompatible zodiac signs to make them smooth. For example, when the meridian collides with each other, the wood can pass through customs, and the wood can melt water and make a fire, so that the two impulses can stop each other. Therefore, you can have a child belonging to a tiger, wear a tiger-shaped zodiac ornament, and plant some flowers and plants to resolve the rush. Other incompatible zodiac signs can also adopt this neutralization method according to their different five-element attributes of mutual conflict, harm and punishment. For example, ugliness does not collide, and it is cleared by gold; Yin Shen, water clearance, rabbit unitary clearance, water clearance, sea clearance, wood clearance, Chen Xu clearance, gold clearance and so on.

the third is feng shui adjustment. The principle of feng shui adjustment is to comprehensively adjust the feng shui according to the specific situation of the incompatibility between the two zodiac signs, combined with the taboo of the eight characters, from the aspects of the orientation of the living environment, the decoration of materials, the matching of furniture, the placement of beds, the adjustment of lighting, the transformation of kitchens and toilets, and the color layout, etc., and to use the environmental atmosphere to coordinate the popularity of the two zodiac signs and resolve the conflict between the zodiac signs. Fengshui aura is the most effective way to improve the incompatibility of the zodiac, but because it involves many aspects such as the zodiac, the eight characters, geomantic omen, the five elements and so on, it is more professional and complicated, and it needs to ask experts for help.

In fact, any adjustment is aimed at adjusting the mind, so that the situation can be changed at will. If we improve our understanding of the marriage of the zodiac, we can actively seek good fortune and avoid evil, and I believe we can also avoid, reduce or resolve the harm caused by the incompatibility of the zodiac in reality.

Fourth, the mating orientation should be auspicious. Because you didn't provide information about your place of birth, I can't give you any advice at this time! But you can check for yourself. In principle, your directions should appear in the same direction (east to west; South to north; Southeast to 2 north; Northeast to southwest) (centered on their respective places of birth), it is appropriate! When you are not in the same direction, you should consider it!

In my opinion, marriage is possible, but it is not the best marriage! As for the quarrels in the daily life, as long as we adhere to the principle of putting harmony first, seeking common ground while reserving differences, and working together, we will surely achieve a harmonious and happy life. For your reference!