Matters needing attention in engagement party

The engagement ceremony is a simple ceremony for many people, which is not so grand and complicated compared with the wedding. However, the attention at the engagement party is not less than that at the wedding, and the matters that need attention also need our attention and follow.

First, the number and object of the banquet.

Time, place and people are the three most basic elements since we came into contact with composition. Only by treating the right person at the right time and place can we leave a perfect engagement party. Especially in this country with a history of 5,000 years of civilization, we must choose an auspicious day, and then the location of the banquet, whether the environment is beautiful, whether the transportation is convenient, whether the dishes are satisfactory, whether there is a dressing room and whether there is a host.

Third, the custom of engagement ceremony.

Fourth, the bride price

The man also needs to find a glib woman over 40 as a matchmaker (either divorced or widowed), and he will also go and sit with her parents that day. Secondly, on the day of engagement, in addition to the money given by her mother-in-law and father-in-law, the girl changed her name to parents, and other relatives of the man, such as aunt, also gave red envelopes. It's not for nothing that girls call me aunt. My aunt also costs money. This custom in Jinan is also very different in various districts and towns. Be sure to say hello. It is best to let the woman go home and ask the elders if there are any taboos and special attention.

6. engagement party

After the engagement ceremony, the woman usually holds a banquet. Recently, some hotels have begun to launch some engagement plans for prospective couples. Because these engagement schemes are usually more cost-effective, it is also a good idea to use them effectively. In Europe and America, after the engagement ceremony, it is also a common way to entertain close relatives and friends and hold a natural and warm party. Don't get bored with the form and method, hold a family dinner in a warm way of holding an engagement party at home, and those who come to congratulate can also attend in a more relaxed mood. On the other hand, in Japan, there is also a so-called "engagement" after the ceremony. Generally speaking, family members or matchmakers of both sides choose Japanese kiosks, or recently some newcomers choose to hold banquets in high-style restaurants or restaurants.

▲ Clear records

Name, telephone number, fax number, address, e-mail address and contact person of the hotel.

2, roughly involved in the project cost

1) Catering standard: How much is each table or person?

2) Service charge: How much is the service charge, and can it be reduced or exempted?

3) What are the free drinks and snacks? Is there a time limit for free drinks and snacks?

▲ Hotel configuration or distribution project

1) Bride lounge: Is there a dressing room for the bride to rest, free of charge or charge (how much), and the distance from the lounge to the banquet hall?

2) Cake: whether to give the cake, if yes, give the style and number of layers of the cake. If charging, the charging price and the corresponding style.

3) Sign-in book and signature pen: Whether to give the sign-in book and signature pen, please consult the number of sets when there are many guests to avoid the sign-in jam on the wedding day.

4) Wedding car: whether to give the wedding car, the style, color, kilometers and time limit of the wedding car. What's the charge for exceeding the limit?

5) Champagne Tower: Do you want a champagne tower? The third floor (14 PCs), the fifth floor (55 PCs) and the sixth floor (9 1 PCs)?

6) Champagne: Do you have champagne?

7) Red carpet: Whether to provide the red carpet for free, and how to charge if not.

8) Parking spaces: whether there are enough parking spaces, how many are provided free of charge, and how to charge for extra parking spaces.

▲ Hotel service

1) soft drinks: whether they are free to drink, what kinds of soft drinks are included in the drinks, and when they are free to drink. How to give people away if they don't drink, what kinds of soft drinks are contained in several bottles per table, and how to charge for extra different soft drinks.

2) Red wine: whether to give red wine (if yes, how much); Can I bring my own wine? Is there a limit to the quantity? Is there a corkage fee (if so, how much is it)?

3) Other wines: whether there are gifts and how much. Can I take it with me if I don't send it? Is there a bottle opening fee? You can't bring your own hotel. What is the price?

4) Lighting: Whether it can be adjusted depends on whether there is a lighting engineer in the hotel.

5) spotlight: is it provided free of charge? What is the cost if it is not provided free of charge?

6) Stage lighting: Is it provided free of charge? If it is not provided free of charge, what is the cost?

7) Sound system: How many wireless microphones are provided, how many limited microphones are provided, and whether sound engineers are equipped. Can you have music in those formats: CD, VCD, DVD, MP3?

8) Imaging system: whether the projector and projection screen are provided free of charge, and how to charge if they are not provided free of charge.

9) Service personnel: Each table is equipped with several service personnel, and several other service personnel arranged by the hotel for this banquet are responsible for those things.

▲ layout

1) Check-in table flowers: Are there any table flowers? If so, what flowers are they?

2) Stage size: the length, width and height of the stage. If it is a small stage, the size of the small stage and the number provided.

3) Pillars: Are there any pillars in the banquet hall? If so, how many columns will affect the layout and vision?

4) Hall height: The height of the banquet hall will affect the height of the background.

5) Decoration style: What is the decoration style of the banquet hall?

6) Ballroom size: How many tables can it hold? Be sure to ask if the stage space is reserved.

7) Main table table flowers: Are there any main table table flowers? If so, what flower is it?

8) Master Desktop Material: Is there a master desktop material? If so, where is it? Table cloth or apron or mouth cloth or chair back

9) Table flowers on the guest table: Are there any table flowers on the main table? If so, what flower is it?

10) Guest table material: Do you have guest table material? If so, where is it? Table cloth or apron or mouth cloth or chair back

1 1) Background: Is the background provided free of charge? If yes, how to charge it? What kind of background can I choose?

12) Schedule time: How far in advance?