What are the standards for a wife and a lover? Can you please help me?

Nowadays, men are keen on finding lovers. They think it is a fashion and a kind of emotional compensation. In their eyes, a lover is cute, considerate, and can bring him happiness. He is not as boring as his wife, who does not understand the style, is like a pool of stagnant water, cannot play, and is not fashionable. Men have never thought that if their lover turns into their wife, they will be very ordinary. The same person will have different responsibilities due to different roles. If the responsibilities are different, the performance will be different. What is the difference between the status of a wife and a lover in a man's heart? What is the essential difference between them? The wife is the shoe, the lover is the socks; The wife is the decoration, the lover is the pride; The wife is the mother, the lover is the child; The wife is the harbor, the lover is the passenger ship; The wife is the moon, the lover is the star; The wife is Lao Baigan, the lover is XO; The wife is An umbrella protects you from the rain, and your lover is a sunshade; your wife is the door of a mansion, and your lover is your resort; your wife is your pain relief. The lover is a massager; the wife is an off-road Mitsubishi, and the lover is an urban BMW; the wife is a long-term bankbook, and the lover is a cash IC card; the wife is kept at home; the lover is in the heart; if the wife is braised pork, the lover must be fresh seafood ; The wife lives on earth, the lover lives in heaven; The wife is "The Ordinary World", the lover is "The Bridge of Lost Dreams" The wife is the woman who serves you, the lover is the woman you serve; The wife is the toilet, urgent You have to climb up when you are sick; your lover is toilet paper, throw it away after use; your wife is a tear and a spoonful of soup when you are sick; your lover is a bouquet of roses and a kiss when you are sick; your wife is your watch, always telling you the time. , your lover is your mobile phone, it is out of battery, turn it off; your wife is the bed in the bedroom, it belongs only to you; your lover is the sofa in the office, it belongs to everyone; your wife is the old color TV at home, unique, and your lover is on the street Pirated feature films are everywhere; Wife is like rice, it tastes good no matter how you eat it and won’t hurt anyone; Lover is glutinous rice, it’s sticky enough to make your stomach hurt if you eat too much; Wife is like a steamed bun, ordinary in appearance but fragrant in filling, valuable in being able to contain it, Lover He is a candy person, very sweet, and the most important thing is that he can blow; his wife is water, and his lover is wine; one cannot live without, and the other savors the taste; one is plain, and the other is exciting-spicy; wife is a mobile phone text message; use it to save money and have affection; Your lover wants to be fashionable online on your mobile phone, but the phone bill is expensive and will kill you without negotiation; your wife is a value-added object, the older you are, the more valuable it is; your lover’s shelf life depends on the season, but the longest is no more than three years; your wife is the soy sauce you are used to in the kitchen. bottle, you can’t bear to throw it away; your lover is like a Coke can at a party, you just throw it away after drinking; your wife is your piggy bank, you will have wealth before you know it; your lover is a ticket crusher, wealth will be there in a trance. My wife is like grass when I am gone; but when spring comes, the grass will be green all over the world, growing endlessly; my lover is a flower, after the season, I can only lament that I have no choice but to go back in spring; my wife is a long-term stock, I guarantee that I will not lose money if I hold it in my hands; my lover is a short-term stock. Stocks are only suitable for short-term speculation. When they grow, they become hot. Your wife is your belt, knowing when you need to tighten it and when you need to loosen it. Your lover is your tie, which can only be tightened but not loosened. Your wife is your credit card, easy to use. Convenient, even if something big happens, you can overdraft to meet urgent needs; your lover is cash, you can use it up, and it goes from your hand to another person's hand, but not your left and right hands; your wife is the vegetables put in the basket, With her nagging, her thoughtfulness, and her diligence and frugality, she nourishes you, makes your face glow, makes you neatly dressed, and gives you the energy to meet your lover after you have eaten and drank enough. A lover is a flower in a beautiful vase. It is pleasing to the eye and makes you feel infinite love. However, these flowers need the nourishment of special nutrients, such as money, power, reputation, and status. The wife will pour tea, and the lover will flirt with his wife. Polish your shoes, and your lover will ask you to buy leather boots; your wife will wash and iron your clothes, and your lover will ask you to buy fashionable clothes; your wife will help you dispose of the garbage, and your lover will help you make garbage; your wife will not wear makeup when she sees you, but your lover will not wear pants when she sees you. Belt; Your wife will cook for you every day, and your lover will accompany you to restaurants every day; Your wife will be clumsy and silent, while your lover will be clever and lavish; Your wife will most resemble the seventh day of the seventh lunar month, while your lover will be the fourteenth day of the second month of the Gregorian calendar; Your wife will remind you When you go to work, your lover will say "do it again?"; Your wife always thinks that the things you buy are too expensive, and your lover always says that the things you buy are too cheap; Your wife's bed only belongs to you, but you don't know who belongs to your lover's bed when you are not there; Wife Unconsciously saving money for you, your lover will spend all your money casually; A wife is like a cup of tasteless boiled water, and a lover is like a cup of delicious drink; Choosing a wife is like choosing a queen, and there are many standards, and looking for a lover is like looking for a queen. Public telephones, you can get things nearby; everything your wife has is meant to be used, and your lover can take everything you own; What your wife cares about is your child's learning and growth, while what your lover cares about is that your breasts are sagging and no longer firm. A wife is like arthritis, with a dull pain, and a lover is like athlete's foot, with an unstoppable itch. It is her sorrow that her wife cannot be your forever lover, and she is lucky that her lover cannot be your wife. Your wife may not be able to Become someone else's lover, and your lover is usually or will one day be someone else's wife. A wife is like pens and stationery, the price of which is stable and does not rise or fall; a lover is like a computer on the market, the price of which falls by half in half a year.

My wife is meticulous and is the enemy of the telecommunications bureau. In order to save phone bills, she always holds a stopwatch and calls your office number when looking for you; my lover is rough and is the shill of the telecommunications bureau. He loves to call your cell phone endlessly when there is nothing wrong. A wife works hard for the family, and even if she goes out to play once in a while, she has to give in to everything; a lover is free, and a wife who comes and goes is selfless. She treats her money as yours and is frugal with herself. , is extremely generous to you; your lover is selfish, he treats your money as her own, and doesn’t feel bad when he squanders it, and often plays tricks like borrowing flowers to offer to Buddha; my wife is WIN98, with stable performance and the most affordable; my lover is WIN XP with all the bells and whistles, and often Reminder: Hardware and software are incompatible! My wife belongs to the past, she is a dried flower stuck in a diary, it comes from the soil, and you will be inexplicably moved when you dig it out many years later. Your lover belongs to the present, he is a flower in a vase, it comes from a flower shop, and it is not more than ten years old. Hell, it’s hard to find him in the trash can; My wife can’t wait for you to talk, so she speaks first, saying that you don’t know how to change your dirty clothes, saying that you don’t know how to help her with housework, in short, she talks too much, but words is actually overflowing with love for you. A lover will listen to what you say. Although she doesn't take a word of your words to heart, she still behaves like she's all ears. My wife is reliable. He's a small dead deposit. It's troublesome to use, but it's hard to spend it all. Even if you run out of money when something big happens, you will still have at least ten yuan; it is convenient for your lover, she has cash, she can use it as she wants, throw it away, and leave nothing at all; from the perspective of being a wife It is said that no matter which wife she is, she hopes that she is her husband's favorite person, but precisely because she and her husband get along day and night, they both know each other clearly, and they are busy with a family all day long, and they no longer have the sweetness and harmony in love. Mysteriously, the husband always feels that other people's wives are better than his, but no matter what, the wife is still a wife. She is always satisfied with her status in the family. Although the lover does not have the burden of family, he can enjoy love freely and be full of love. There is a passion for life, but there is no sense of solidity. It is like a mirage in the desert, and happiness is easy to be fleeting. From a man's perspective, most people hope that the red flags at home will not fall down and the colorful flags will be flying outside. There is a housekeeper at home, and a Yiqing one outside. For a man, his lover is nothing but red wine, red and ambiguous, while his wife is just boiled water. Although it is bland and tasteless, he cannot survive without her. Most men are wise and can control themselves when it comes to lovers. From the perspective of a woman who is a lover, it is more of a painful ending. Because women want a stable life after all. When the beauty fades away, how can they retain the mirage-like feelings. As people say: A lover's life is not full of sunshine everywhere. More often, he faces a difficult life. A lover is only as dazzling as a flower for a while, and will eventually wither, because a lover--no Forever lover. From a large perspective, society is stable because of the family, and the home is warm because of the wife; society is turbulent because of openness, and the family is turbulent because of the lover.

I advise men to cherish their wives and stay away from their lovers!