Calculation method of wedding auspicious day
When choosing an auspicious day, the date is more important than the month, and the month is more important than the year: first, choose the wedding season according to the envisaged wedding form and local climate characteristics. At the same time, we should also consider the difficulty of relatives and friends attending the wedding. If many relatives and friends you want to invite are not working locally, then choose the long holidays such as November and May Day. Secondly, we should also consider the work and study of both sides. Finally, I would like to remind you to choose a good wedding date and try to stagger the woman's menstrual period. Generally speaking, we should do the following:
1. Know your horoscope.
Usually we think that the disagreement of the genus is the disagreement of the eight characters. In the traditional horoscope, the animal sign is only one of them, so the disagreement of the animal sign only represents one of them, and the personal animal sign does not play a decisive role in the marriage of relatives. Analyze and understand the fate of the eight characters of both sides, see the harmony and disagreement from it, and choose an auspicious day from it. Both men and women will be combined with Shenwangjiri, with a happy marriage and prosperous children.
2. Consider the situation of both parties and their families.
It is best to hold the wedding when both parties are healthy, otherwise it will not only affect the harmony of new life, but also aggravate the illness. It is necessary to avoid the busy period of study and work for both parties and arrange the wedding and honeymoon itinerary in advance. Discuss which day to hold the wedding, inform both parents in advance, and ensure that the elderly and relatives and friends at home can come to the wedding and enjoy the festive and harmonious scene.
3. Make a choice according to the bride's date of birth.
As the saying goes, "have children, marry a woman." If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage. It is best to choose Ji Yue as the wedding day. It is best for the man to listen to the woman's opinions as much as possible and avoid the menstrual period on her wedding day. But at the same time, the opinions of others (especially husbands, wives and grooms) should also be taken seriously. After all, it is related to the future family, happiness and harmony.
Avoid getting married in special months
Avoid March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for joint happy events. Because Sanniang likes to fight the old moon and destroy the new, she also needs to avoid it. Sanniangsha is the 3rd, 7th, 13th, 18th, 22nd and 27th day of the lunar month. Avoid each other's birthdays and parents' birthdays. If your parents have died, you should avoid jealousy and death. In addition, the sixth month of the lunar calendar is not suitable for marriage, because the bride who gets married in June is called "half-moon wife" according to traditional thinking, that is, she has no background and does not help each other.
In addition, there is one more thing. Although there is a saying in folk tradition that "the year without spring is the year of widowhood", there is no need to worry. You still need to choose the right wedding date and time according to your own numerology, and you can't generalize.
5. Choose the best auspicious day for marriage
Avoid one day and choose two days. It is a good choice to unify the wedding date and holidays. The advantage of this is that relatives and friends will have time to attend the wedding, which coincides with the holiday and has a warm atmosphere; The bride and groom will also share the joy of the festival with relatives and friends on the wedding day, and will also be infected by the festive atmosphere of the wedding, wishing the wedding. However, due to the large number of newlyweds who get married during holidays, we should pay attention to booking wedding banquets and hotel convoys in advance.