Talk about the workplace and life.
The first sentence about the workplace and life: don't calculate too much, let it be.
We don't need to calculate life, care about it, suppress ourselves, and flatter ourselves. Maintaining the due strength of personality will win more opportunities and respect, and college students who have just stepped into society should also learn not to calculate and care, so that they can go more smoothly and naturally in the future!
The second sentence: there is no need to suppress yourself or flatter yourself.
There are too many inequalities in the world, such as urban and rural areas, upper and lower levels, rich and poor, and so on. So there is absolutely no need to suppress yourself. We should learn that some people will not treat you equally, no matter how much you respect them. So, there is no need to flatter and flatter-he will never give you alms out of sympathy. No matter how humble and difficult we are, we should not expect courtesy from others. Only by maintaining our due strength of personality can we learn to face life, say what we should say and do what we should do. Don't be timid, so that people will not be easily looked down upon and will win more equal opportunities and respect from others.
At work, don't be too obvious to be particularly good to anyone, and don't be particularly bad to anyone, let alone be bad to anyone, and don't cause public outrage and become an unpleasant object for the public. "Birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups." Any unit, any group and interpersonal relationship structure can not be separated from the "three-thirds system". Specifically, one third of people are ordinary to you, one third are not "cold" to you, and one third are good to you. It varies from person to person. The good should be maintained, the neutral should strive for it, and the hostile should be tolerant. Never be used by a few people.
The third sentence: believing in yourself is more important than relying on others.
To be a good person, you must have your own thoughts and a sense of social responsibility. Believing in yourself is more important than relying on others. Different people in this society must do things differently, and smart bosses will generally see it. As long as we try our best, we won't be buried unless you doubt your ability. The key is to keep a correct attitude and have the opportunity to do more for the society. When there is no chance, remember to work hard for yourself, accumulate more tangible and intangible capital, and do more for yourself. No matter what life gives you, there is nothing wrong with working hard in time. "No matter how tired, it is better to meditate. In particular, doing more things that can reflect our own value will benefit us for life.
Fourth sentence: Hold your breath, bend over and look up.
hold one's breath
In real life full of temptations and traps, it is not easy for us to hold our breath. When a person is suddenly nice to you, it is 100% purposeful. If there is no purpose, it is also the place to ask you, so you must learn to hold your horses. Because holding your breath is a sign of wisdom, a precipitation of reason and a sign of maturity.
bend down
Be a man, be low-key and humble, be tolerant and tough. It can be seen that bending over is a gesture and an inner self-confidence. Bamboo is persistent because of bending, and rice ears are rich because of bending.
look up
No matter in adversity or prosperity, people should keep an optimistic and enterprising attitude. That's a sign of maturity. The ambition of young people is not worry, but confidence in youth. Even if you die, you will smell chivalrous fragrance, which is the confidence of a strong man. However, holding one's head high is not arrogance or arrogance, but humility and equality. Not that you are shorter than others, but that you should face yourself and see Si Qi clearly; Not because of his stupidity, but because of his self-knowledge.
Life and workplace are integrated. Learn to be a man, and you will gain a foothold in the workplace!