The Story of Caigen Tanfengshui

The Book of Changes says: One yin and one yang is the Tao. The same is true of treating people. Too honest is easy to be attacked, too smooth will damage morality. Therefore, when we communicate with people in Fiona Fang, we should be square and round, which is in line with the way of Yin and Yang. So when should it be square and when should it be round?

Share a sentence "Caigen Tan" with you. Realize the wisdom of life:

When dealing with the world, we should be square, round in troubled times, Fiona Fang in the third phase, good in leniency, evil in strictness, strict in leniency, and flat in moderation.

Be honest and harmonious, and treat people with dignity and integrity. This is our innate virtue, and it is also our responsibility to be human. The so-called "straight heart is the Dojo", whether it is learning or practicing, it is to find one's pure nature, be honest and selfless, be aboveboard, be consistent in words and deeds, and not bully or flatter. This is the straight heart.

But if you live in turbulent times, you should deal with people tactfully and tactfully, otherwise you will be easily killed because of your outspoken attitude. If you can't keep your life, even your family, then nothing can be said. ? For example, when Liu Bei heard Cao Cao say that he was a hero, he was so scared that his chopsticks fell to the ground and lied that he was afraid of thunder, which made Cao Cao relax his vigilance. Liu Bei was able to avoid the suspicion and suspicion of Cao Cao, and saved the day because he skillfully used Fiona Fang.

When we live in an era of decline and chaos, we must use Fiona Fang together, and we can't lose the bottom line of principle and give up moral justice. For example, when our country is invaded, if we all choose to live tactfully and protect ourselves, wouldn't it be national subjugation? But in small details, it can be used skillfully and conveniently, and it can be eclectic, and there is nothing wrong with the general direction.

The first half of this sentence is to treat people with things, and the second half is to treat people with things.

? Good people have done a good job. When you get along with them, you should treat them with a round mind and don't haggle over every ounce, so that both sides can live in harmony. Fierce people should be treated with a one-sided attitude. They have too many shortcomings and habits, and should be more severe, so that they will stop doing evil and make fewer mistakes.

In real life, good interpersonal relationships are inseparable from square skills. If you are too square and angular, it is easy to be hit by a wall. If you are too tactful, too selfish and too particular, it will easily lead to alienation from others. So, don't be paranoid. The smartest way to live is to be invincible forever.

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