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When you first got engaged, you gave the woman a pair of earrings. It's called engagement. Later, the man's family prepared clothes, jewelry and other things and sent them to the woman's family on an auspicious day. This is called Xu Kou. The woman has agreed to this marriage, also called eating noodles, because the woman entertained the matchmaker and ate noodles on this day, which means a long-term and permanent relationship. Now the custom is simpler than before, and it is divided into betrothal, housekeeping and door recognition. Betrothal means that the introducer talks back and forth, obtains the consent of both men and women, and meets and talks at the agreed place. If both sides have no opinion, give each other gifts as proof. The so-called housekeeping means that the man chooses an auspicious day to let the woman come to the house to look after the house, hold a banquet and buy clothes, commonly known as rags. This day is mainly for women, and the tables are rich. It was a lucky day, and the woman recognized the door. Let the man come to the house to recognize the door and invite relatives to toast with him. Relatives will each give an unmarried son-in-law a dress to read the original post >>