What can we learn from reading A Dream of Red Mansions?
1, A Dream of Red Mansions cultivates the inner drive of truth, goodness and beauty.
A Dream of Red Mansions is well written. The love mentioned here is not only love, but also human love. It's well written, and these things move us. A Dream of Red Mansions not only makes us feel and comprehend feelings, but also shows us the ugliest and most beautiful things. And those ugly things, on the surface, are smooth; From the perspective of some characters, it is full of flavor.
A dream of red mansions is unparalleled in cultivating curiosity.
In the small chapter "Grandma Liu enters the Grand View Garden", it is about a countryman, Grandma Liu, who entered the beautiful Grand View Garden and felt fresh and curious everywhere, which made many jokes. I don't know if you have noticed that there are fewer people who feel fresh everywhere like grandma Liu entering the Grand View Garden.
Being familiar with A Dream of Red Mansions can stimulate our curiosity, perhaps because we don't understand it, perhaps because it's too interesting to learn more, and so on. In the adult world, curiosity is also needed in all fields. Curiosity does not always bring good results. Exploration is always accompanied by risks. Curiosity without risk management ability may not lead to good results.
On the other hand, it is almost impossible to achieve anything without curiosity. Lack of curiosity will only bring drowsiness and mediocrity. In other words, no matter what you do, it is not enough to have curiosity, and it is impossible without curiosity.
A dream of red mansions teaches people to understand life.
There are four categories in a person's life: fame, gold and silver, love and children and grandchildren. Everyone may have things that can't be put down, and they can't take things too seriously, so they live very tired. Some people get sick for it, but they don't understand it in the end. A Dream of Red Mansions is really an enlightening textbook. Life is like a dream. When you wake up from a big dream, you realize the true meaning of life, not how much you have gained or lost, but how much you have learned in your struggle.
Only dedication, dedication is not only the basis of getting, but also the sublimation of getting, and dedication is the highest. Only selfless dedication can bring comprehensive gains to life. However, people should use their hard work to create more material wealth and spiritual wealth for everyone and make contributions to society and others. At the same time, it will also make people gain something and get a good harvest both physically and mentally. Remember, natural forces are equal and clear to everyone.
A dream of red mansions teaches you to see the world clearly.
A Dream of Red Mansions describes a complex human society. Among them, there are various ways to deal with people and interpersonal communication, many of which can be applied to our real life.
For example, there is a passage in A Dream of Red Mansions, and you can appreciate Wang Xifeng's superb bragging skills: Daiyu first entered Jia's family, and Wang Xifeng praised her: There is such a beauty in the world, and I just met it today! And this perfect style is not like the grandson of our ancestors, but actually the granddaughter of our first relative. You see, Wang Xifeng wanted to praise Daiyu, and in turn praised Grandma, saying that Grandma loved Daiyu. Jia mu can't be unhappy when she hears this.
Therefore, Wang Xifeng can master the supreme power of Jia family, which is believed to be related to her high emotional intelligence and eloquence. Some people have skillfully applied this boasting technique to their lives.