As the old saying goes, can 3-year-old really decide a child's life?

This statement, in our modern words, actually has no scientific basis. Grassroots also have counterattacks. Churchill, one of the most important figures in the 20th century, was rebellious when he was a child. Who knows if he will be the first in Britain in the future? So three years old can't decide a child's life. However, there is an old saying that "at the age of three, you are old at the age of seven." Why is there such a statement?

First of all, from a psychological point of view, the old saying "Look at the old at three years old and look at the old at seven years old" is actually a psychological law of children's growth. From the psychological characteristics and personality tendency of three-year-old children, we can see a rudiment of their adolescent psychological and personality characteristics. When the child is 7 years old, we can see his future achievements by looking at his thinking logic, way of doing things and learning attitude.

Secondly, in terms of physiological development. Before the age of three, it is an important period of brain development (which has been proved by scientific evidence). Children in this period have genius-like absorption, learning and imitation. If the intelligence of 17 years old is regarded as 100%, then it is already 50% at 3 years old, 30% at 4-7 years old and 20% at 7- 17 years old. From this data, we can see how critical the development of the brain at the age of 3-7 is. Therefore, it is also very beneficial for parents to grasp the important period of brain development at the age of 3 for their children's future development.

In short, 3 years old can't decide a child's life, but you can satisfy his adolescent personality according to his psychological personality characteristics at 3 years old, so parents should seize this important time. Most importantly, remember that parents are the best teachers, and you can grasp the most important period in his life through words and deeds. When a child is born, it is a blank sheet of paper, and parents give him whatever color. Of course, there are many genetic factors, but later education is more important.