Mom, I think ...

After dinner in the evening, I strolled home and walked to the door of the community. I swiped my card, and the baby was early. At this time, an old master riding an electric car came behind me, holding the door and letting people pass first. At this time, two children ran out of the yard, blocking the door and not letting me in. Excuse me, children. It is dangerous to stand there. Two children, look at me and I'll look at you.

The baby just saw everything. Mom, I hope you do the same to me. What happened? My little princess, you just talked to the children, so gentle! Talking to me is fierce. Don't! Am I good at talking? Only when you don't listen and make me angry will I speak loudly. Then I will be obedient in the future. Will you be gentle with me? Of course.

What the baby said made me a little uncomfortable. In retrospect, I really didn't do well enough. I lost my temper, quarreled and fought. Why can you be gentle with other people's children, but not with your own? Children often say that they are in a hurry and want to disturb me. Why can't they control it? What can't they say? I understand these reasons very well. When a child makes a mistake, he loses control. Children make mistakes for their own reasons. When the child is sad, we should stand from the child's point of view, analyze the reasons with her, find out the wrong reasons and avoid making mistakes again.

In fact, when parents make mistakes, the other party must feel bad when they say a few words. In retrospect, everyone was born with it, and there is nothing to say. Parents have this mentality, not to mention children? It seems that I still need to practice, control my emotions, be calm in front of my children, and try to be a gentle mother in my children's hearts.